Fiance misses daughter's birth after choosing best friend over me

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When a woman is pregnant, she relies on the support of her partner. But what happens when that support is suddenly taken away? A woman was kicked out of her home by her fiance after an argument with his best friend. She ended up giving birth to their daughter alone. Now, she's questioning whether or not she can forgive him. Read on to find out what happened and decide for yourself if she's in the wrong for not wanting to forgive him.

Navigating complicated relationships with friends and partners 🤷‍♀️

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Fiance chooses friend over birth of his own child 😔

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Best friend causes fiance to miss daughter's birth 😢

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Pregnant woman called names by fiance, misses daughter's birth.

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Communication breakdown leads to missed birth 🤰

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Mom defends sending angry message after receiving racist texts.

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Discrimination in a relationship? 🤔

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Expecting mother ignored, misses fiance's baby after argument 😔

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Racing to the hospital, a dramatic birth story unfolds 🚗👶

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Left alone in labor while fiancé chooses friend 🤦‍♀️

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Welcoming Grace Noel into the world, a beautiful birth story 💕

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Mom left alone during childbirth, exposes fiance's betrayal on Facebook

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Friend vs. fiance showdown - he chose wrong and missed birth 😔

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Giving birth alone because of his best friend's lie 😞

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To forgive or not to forgive? That is the question 🤔

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Fiance misses daughter's birth after choosing best friend over me 😢

A woman shares the story of how her fiance chose to believe his best friend over her, causing him to miss the birth of their child. The incident occurred after the woman sent a message to the best friend, telling her to stay away from their child, due to racist messages that she had been sending her. The best friend then showed the message to the fiance, who called the woman a derogatory name and kicked her out of the house. As she was leaving, she went into labor and had to give birth alone. The woman later posted the hurtful messages from the best friend on Facebook which led to her fiance apologizing, but she is unsure if she can forgive him. Read on to see what others have to say about the situation.

NTA. Fiancé missed birth, verbally attacked, kicked out and declined calls.

DaniCapsFan | DaniCapsFan

Ex-fiancé? Looks like someone dodged a bullet! 🎯

snarkingintheusa | snarkingintheusa

Commenter advises to leave the fiance, with emphatic support from replies. 😱

http-ali | http-ali

Fiance chooses friend over pregnant fiance - commenters suspect affair.

CravenSapphire | CravenSapphire

Commenter defends pregnant woman against heartless partner and friend 💪

jaime0007 | jaime0007

Fiancé chooses racist friend over heavily pregnant partner, NTA for leaving.

Bug_a_boo_Mama | Bug_a_boo_Mama

Supportive comment and reply with advice and correction 🙌

sakurita1594 | sakurita1594

Commenter questions why someone would stay with such a person 🤔

Twallot | Twallot

Empowering response to a toxic relationship. 🙌

a-sigh-lum | a-sigh-lum

Choosing best friend over birth of child? No way, NTA 🙅‍♀️

sieieneidowkwksnsnsj | sieieneidowkwksnsnsj

OP regrets not showing fiance racist text messages earlier.

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Heartbreaking NTA story. Hope mom and baby are thriving ❤️

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Choosing best friend over partner during childbirth, NTA. End it.

karichar | karichar

User doubts authenticity of OP's post due to conflicting statements.

kamishoe | kamishoe

Protect yourself and reduce him to baby daddy status 👶🏻💁🏻‍♀️

Princesstiy | Princesstiy

Comment and replies dismissed as fake by users.

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Questioning the authenticity of the story 🤔🔍

MrLamper1 | MrLamper1

Curious about the timeline? Two weeks ago, apparently.

CaliforniaJade | CaliforniaJade

Commenter's credibility questioned, others share childbirth experiences. 🤔

MiriLaLeona | MiriLaLeona

Commenter and reply suspect the story is fabricated 🤔

GTmakesthepaingoaway | GTmakesthepaingoaway

Choosing best friend over partner? 🤔 NTA, but red flags.

DrunkTeaRax | DrunkTeaRax

Commenter misses the point but ex's racism is concerning 🤔

broke_reflection | broke_reflection

New mom regrets posting text messages to Facebook after giving birth 🤦

iamasecretthrowaway | iamasecretthrowaway

Fiancé's racist friend or the birth of his child? NTA.

daiceedoll | daiceedoll

Real-life drama or fiction? Either way, NTA wins.

goaskalix | goaskalix

Ignoring racism only makes it worse - a lesson learned.

pdaddyminihutch | pdaddyminihutch

Comment debunked 🤥

hummingb1rd | hummingb1rd

Poor communication skills lead to toxic relationship. Choose wisely 🙏

MsTomHardy | MsTomHardy

NTA. Communication is key, but kicking out your pregnant fiance without discussion is crazy 🤯 Congrats on the baby! 🎉

niamhk13 | niamhk13

Fiancé chooses friend over birth of child, NTA for leaving.

caggybandicoot | caggybandicoot

Father's presence during childbirth amidst COVID-19 raises questions 🔍

Horror-mrs | Horror-mrs

Congratulations on your baby! Ditch the guy and find happiness! 🎉

EveningJellyfish1 | EveningJellyfish1

Relationship already over? NTA and commenters agree 👀

bitcheslovemybody | bitcheslovemybody

Suspicious comment raises doubts in emotional story 🤔

cwalka06 | cwalka06

OP shares more details about friend's racism and conflict with fiance.

ikea-lingonberry | ikea-lingonberry

Forgiving him is hard, missing the birth is unforgivable 💔

eaca02124 | eaca02124

Curious about the 42 minute detail? Dive in here 🤔

cuponoodles213 | cuponoodles213

Empowering response. Congrats on leaving the toxic relationship! 💪

mn164 | mn164

Questioning the authenticity of the story 🤔

throwra87d | throwra87d

Support for a new mother who deserves better. 💪

oceancake1 | oceancake1

Uncovering hidden rac*sm in relationships. 😳

SigaVa | SigaVa

Confusion at its finest 🤔

LurkersGoneLurk | LurkersGoneLurk