Man tells girlfriend to fix attitude towards his gay best friend or leave his house

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What would you do if your significant other had a problem with your best friend? That's the dilemma one man faced when his girlfriend started making comments about his gay best friend living with him. Despite telling her to stop, she continued, causing him to take drastic action. Was he right to tell her she's not welcome at his house anymore? Or was he too harsh? Read on to find out what happened and judge for yourself.

Setting boundaries with girlfriend's attitude towards gay best friend.

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Roommates turned homeowners, but can their friendship last?

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A cost-saving living arrangement with joint responsibilities.

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Long-term straight/gay friendship proves possible and enjoyable 😍

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New girlfriend may have caused Mark's breakup according to context 🔍

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Roommate situation causing relationship drama. 🙄

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Girlfriend's homophobic behavior driving a wedge between couple 🏳️‍🌈💔

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Girlfriend accuses gay best friend, Mark, of flirting with boyfriend 👬

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Man defends friendship with gay best friend against girlfriend's comments

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Respect for a gay friend causes tension in romantic relationship 😔

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Girlfriend accuses gay best friend of hitting on her 😒

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Breaking stereotypes: Educating girlfriend about gay best friend 👨🏻‍🦫

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Man gives ultimatum to girlfriend over homophobic comments towards friend 🌈

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GF's friends intervene in conflict over his gay best friend.

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Navigating boundaries with friends and partners 👬

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Heartbreak: OP announces breakup after conflict with girlfriend over friend.

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Updates to viral post on gay best friend intervention 🌟

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Spread love, not hate! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

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Homophobia and toxic behavior ruins relationship and living situation 👬🚫

One man's girlfriend's homophobic and toxic behavior has caused a rift in his living situation with his gay best friend. Despite being open about his living situation from the start, his girlfriend's attitude towards his friend has caused tension and ultimately led to the end of their relationship. The man is now seeking judgment on whether he was too harsh in asking his girlfriend to change her attitude or leave the house. Let's delve into the story and the reactions to his actions.

Homophobia has no place in friendships. NTA for standing up.

NotASkeltal | NotASkeltal

NTA. Commenter calls out girlfriend's homophobic attitudes towards gay best friend.

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Relationship doomed after NTA comment and agreement in replies 😔💔

tinyahjumma | tinyahjumma

Heartwarming support for a solid bro 👏

AllOfficerNoGent | AllOfficerNoGent

Homophobic girlfriend kicked out. Relationship doomed. 👋🏼

Spotzie27 | Spotzie27

Commenter supports OP and calls out girlfriend's irrational behavior. 🙅‍♂️

lizzieaddamstookanax | lizzieaddamstookanax

A heartwarming story of true friendship and loyalty ❤️

Fly0ver | Fly0ver

Gaslighting in relationships: Boomer calls out girlfriend's behavior 🤨

aita_boomer | aita_boomer

Long-lasting friendship triumphs over prejudice. 🌈❤️

imnotafi5h | imnotafi5h

NTA stands up against partner's hurtful 'joke' with gay friend 🏳️‍🌈

Unusual-Leadership17 | Unusual-Leadership17

NTA puts childish girlfriend in her place 🙅‍♂️

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Supportive ally receives gratitude from LGBTQ+ community ❤️🌈

Professional-Soupp | Professional-Soupp

Don't let anyone come between true friendships 🌈

broadsharp | broadsharp

Supportive comment applauding friend for standing up for his gay best friend.

Little-bit_ | Little-bit_

NTA and she needs to grow up 👍. Platonic friendship is possible.

Phishstiks95 | Phishstiks95

Friendship over girlfriend? NTA stands up for gay friend 🌈

Ocniro | Ocniro

Standing up against homophobia👏 #NTA

yiiikes00 | yiiikes00

Commenters discuss the trend of getting others to harass people. 🤔

nana7777777 | nana7777777

Calling out homophobia - not cute or funny 🚫🏳️‍🌈

HowardProject | HowardProject

Defending his friend: Man is not an a**hole for standing up for him! 👏

GhibliFan96 | GhibliFan96

Supporting friendship over toxic attitudes 👏

menace-to-sobriety | menace-to-sobriety

Being funny should not come at the cost of hurting someone. NTA.

mama-tried-34 | mama-tried-34

Jealousy or homophobia? Discussion on girlfriend's behavior towards gay roommate 🌈

ArkayLeigh | ArkayLeigh

NTA. Don't let her insecurities ruin your friendship 🌈

Poop_Snoot420 | Poop_Snoot420

Support for OP setting boundaries with girlfriend's homophobic behavior 🌈

RooDooDootDaDoo | RooDooDootDaDoo

Clear judgement: Not the a**hole, end of story. 🙌

beaarthurismymom | beaarthurismymom

Supporting the LGBTQ+ community, NTA stands up for acceptance 👏🏻

MorrisimoMan | MorrisimoMan

Respectful and supportive comment about a tough relationship decision. 👍

Original_Vanilla | Original_Vanilla

Dump her. Her attitude won't change and it's not just jokes 😒

the_last_basselope | the_last_basselope

👍 Not the a**hole, good riddance to bad rubbish

Keep_Smiling97 | Keep_Smiling97

Support for standing up to girlfriend's homophobic behavior 🌈

maddfroggie | maddfroggie

Not the a**hole for setting boundaries with girlfriend.

bearyboos | bearyboos

Support for standing up to girlfriend's intolerant beliefs 👏🏼

MaLlamaMama | MaLlamaMama

Support for not being the a**hole in friend dispute 👍

djbjgm | djbjgm

Setting boundaries with sarcasm: NTA teaches us how.

nerdygerl | nerdygerl

Homophobia has no place in Mark's home. Dump Hannah. 🏳️‍🌈

Last_Butterscotch_63 | Last_Butterscotch_63

Supportive comment defends friendship against judgment. 🌈

manywaters318 | manywaters318

Support for not being an a**hole towards gay friend 👍🏳️‍🌈

kimberlocks | kimberlocks

Supportive comment with no replies, use 🙌 for solidarity.

joxx67 | joxx67

Setting boundaries with roommates can be tough 😬

whatifimtheproblem | whatifimtheproblem

Friendship over love? NTA chooses bros before Hannah's woes. 🙌

BlueJay_NE | BlueJay_NE

Friend of 20+ years is family, NTA for choosing him. 👏

GH0ST3423 | GH0ST3423

Commenter calls out immaturity of girlfriend, suggests leaving relationship 💔

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🗑️ NTA. Girlfriend's gotta go according to this commenter.

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NTA. Putting your disrespectful girlfriend out was the right move. 💪

iluvcats17 | iluvcats17

Supportive comment. Good for you for sticking up for your friend! 🌈

LeaguePillowFighter | LeaguePillowFighter

Beware of the final red flag - her friends messaging you 🚩

bluejen | bluejen

Addressing girlfriend's homophobia, OP is NTA but needs communication.

purekatastrophe | purekatastrophe

Girlfriend's homophobia not welcome in relationship, NTA for setting boundaries 🌈

Wylgrim | Wylgrim

Joke repetition leads to relationship ultimatum. Eye roll-worthy behavior. 🙄

MavraTheZombie | MavraTheZombie

Maturity matters in a long-term relationship. 💔

IrrateTadpole0424 | IrrateTadpole0424

Defend your friend and don't let drama ruin friendships. 👍

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Stand up for yourself and your friend. NTA 🙌

aSeaPersonByNight | aSeaPersonByNight

Find a real woman who appreciates your friend for who he is 👭🤷🏻‍♂️

bluep3001 | bluep3001

Standing up to immature behavior. Not the a**hole 👏🏼

shelbers123 | shelbers123

Commenter slams the girlfriend and calls her multiple negative traits 💥

aprl2271 | aprl2271

Mark is family, her friends should butt out. NTA 👍

NeverRarelySometimes | NeverRarelySometimes

Dump her and keep living the good life with Mark! 🌈

moshritespecial | moshritespecial

Acceptance and respect is key in any relationship ❤️🏳️‍🌈

katie_bee_80 | katie_bee_80

Sarcasm and frustration over gay stereotypes in relationships. 🙄🏳️‍🌈

roxzillaz | roxzillaz

👍 Not the A-hole! Homophobia is never okay.


Girlfriend's problematic behavior towards gay friend causes conflict. NTA.

chaise_longue | chaise_longue