As a father, it's important to care for your child's well-being, especially when they're struggling with a serious issue like an eating disorder. However, what happens when the father's girlfriend tries to help but ends up making things worse? That's the situation a Reddit user found himself in when his girlfriend crossed a line while trying to help his daughter with her ED. The father had set clear boundaries for how to handle his daughter's condition and his girlfriend ignored them, leading to a confrontation. The father ultimately had to ask his girlfriend to leave. Was he justified in doing so? Read on to find out what happened and weigh in with your own opinion.
Father kicks out girlfriend for “forcefully helping” daughter with eating disorder
Mother's efforts to help daughter with ED met with resistance.
Helping daughter with eating disorder: A delicate balance
Girlfriend crosses a line helping daughter with eating disorder
Girlfriend's forceful approach hindered helping daughter with eating disorder.
When trying to be helpful goes wrong 😬
Father closely monitors daughter's meals after girlfriend's departure
Avoiding trigger words: Emotional support instead of asking about food.
Protective father defends daughter's eating disorder recovery from girlfriend interference
Alternative ways to help those with eating disorders ❤️🍎🏋️♀️
Mom catches boyfriend's insensitive comment about daughter's eating disorder 👀
When a helpful gesture turns into an obsession with calories 🤪
Father stands up for daughter with eating disorder 💪
Father defends daughter against girlfriend's harmful comments 💪
Father defends daughter against intrusive girlfriend. Boundaries are important.
Misunderstood intentions lead to girlfriend's eviction 👫🚪
Father stands up for daughter against unhelpful girlfriend 👊
Struggling with daughter's eating disorder, but girlfriend not helpful?
Frustrated father confronts girlfriend's ignorance about daughter's disorder 🤦
When helping becomes forceful, is it still help? 🤔
Dad stands up for daughter battling eating disorder 💪
Unapologetic mother fights back against daughter's eating disorder treatment.
Father stands up against girlfriend's forceful approach to daughter's ED
Dealing with an eating disorder can be a tough journey, especially for a teenager. A father shares his experience with his daughter's ED and how his girlfriend's approach to helping her was doing more harm than good. Despite numerous warnings from doctors to avoid forcing her to eat, his girlfriend disregarded his advice and bombarded his daughter with questions about her meals, including the number of calories consumed. When confronted, the girlfriend refused to listen and continued with her forceful approach. The father had to make a difficult decision to kick her out for his daughter's wellbeing. Despite some family members advising him to be patient, the father knew that his daughter's health was at stake and he had to take action. It's important to understand that an eating disorder is a complex mental illness that requires a gentle approach and professional help. The father's decision was not easy, but it was necessary to ensure his daughter gets the support she needs. In the next section, we will take a look at some of the reactions from the online community.
Setting boundaries with girlfriend over daughter's eating disorder. NTA.
Girlfriend ignores father's wishes in daughter's eating disorder treatment. NTA.
Protecting daughter from ED triggers, NTA, girlfriend lacks empathy 👍
Protecting daughter from eating disorder triggers. Girlfriend crossed the line. 😠
Set firm boundaries with girlfriend for daughter's health. 💪
Protecting his daughter's progress. 🙌
Respect the boundaries or keep her away from daughter 👍
Setting boundaries for daughter's well-being is necessary. NTA 👍
NTA. Encouraging someone with an ED to calorie count is bad 😱
NTA. Girlfriend overstepped boundaries, protect your child 👏
Putting your child first is the priority 👍
Father ends relationship after girlfriend endangers daughter's health. NTA.
You go, NTA! 🙌 Setting healthy boundaries is key 🔑
Setting boundaries is tough, but necessary for healthy relationships 👍
Teach your daughter to set boundaries and respect them 👍
Surviving an eating disorder is hard enough. NTA.
NTA prioritizes daughter's health, disregards girlfriend's harmful actions. 👍
Setting boundaries to save a life. 🙏
Protective father sets boundaries for daughter's well-being ❤️
Suggest consulting a doctor to educate GF on eating disorders 🤓
NTA recognizes girlfriend's ignorance in daughter's eating disorder.
Setting boundaries is key, good riddance to bad rubbish! 🙌
Supportive commenters applaud dad for prioritizing daughter's health. 👏
Setting clear boundaries for daughter's health. NTA 👍
Protective father rightfully kicks out disrespectful girlfriend 💪
Protective father defends daughter from harmful ex-girlfriend 💪
Setting boundaries with a child's eating disorder, NTA wins.
Insightful comment on close-mindedness and its impact on relationships 🤔
Setting boundaries with loved ones during recovery is crucial ❤️
Setting boundaries with girlfriend who overstepped in daughter's treatment. 🛑
Dad stands up for daughter's eating disorder, NTA 👏
Protecting daughter from harmful behavior, NTA but end relationship 👏
A supportive father prioritizes his daughter's well-being over his girlfriend's ignorance ❤️
Trusting doctors over girlfriend with daughter's eating disorder. #NTA
Father takes action to protect daughter with eating disorder ❤️
When explaining the obvious is necessary, it's not helpful 🤷♀️
Follow the doctor's orders: NTA for kicking out girlfriend 👍
Misreading can be hilarious! 😂
Parent shares struggles with child's eating disorder and defends decision to kick out girlfriend.
Helpful advice for dealing with girlfriend's ignorance and insensitivity.
Normalizing calorie counting can be dangerous for ED sufferers. Good dad.
Father praised for prioritizing daughter's eating disorder recovery ❤️
Father's girlfriend endangers daughter's life by forcing food, YTA.
Commenter's innocent confusion about ED lightens the mood.
Father prioritizes daughter's health over girlfriend, receives praise 🙌
Helping someone with a mental health issue can be complicated 💆
Respectful boundaries are key. NTA for enforcing them 👍
Father defends daughter's health, receives support. #NTA 🙌
Empathetic commenter supports father's decision to protect daughter.
Setting boundaries to protect daughter from unwanted help. 🚫❤️
NTA calls out girlfriend's malicious behavior towards daughter's ED
Empathy for daughter's suffering trumps girlfriend's learning curve. #NTA 🙏
Dump the toxic girlfriend and prioritize your daughter 👏
👍 Dad's support for daughter's eating disorder is admirable
Protective father takes action against harmful girlfriend. ✅
Putting daughter's health first 💪 #NTA #EatingDisorderRecovery
Respect your daughter's boundaries. NTA for enforcing them 🙌
Recovering from eating disorder, OP did right in protecting daughter
Supportive comment for father protecting daughter from harmful girlfriend 👍
Commenter defends father's decision with cautionary proverb.
Mother's good intentions cause harm in daughter's eating disorder 🍽️
Prioritizing daughter's health over girlfriend's good intentions. 👏
Respectful approach to ED treatment undermined by girlfriend's disrespect. NTA.
Former anorexic explains why girlfriend was wrong to ask about calories 🔥
Setting boundaries and prioritizing daughter's health. 👍
Clear NTA judgement with a touch of sass 👏
Girlfriend crosses the line from well-intentioned to malicious 😠
Putting daughter's well-being first. 🙌
Supportive reply to father's post about his girlfriend's inaction. NTA 👏
Protect your daughter from toxic girlfriend. Break up with her. 👏
Support for father's decision in daughter's eating disorder situation 🙏
Dump the girlfriend! Not the a-hole 👏
Protecting daughter's health is top priority. GF needs boundaries 🙏
Supportive dad defends daughter's health against unsupportive girlfriend ❤️
Protecting daughter from ED trumps GF, NTA 🙌
Follow the experts' advice, girlfriend needs to listen and learn 👍
Support for father's decision to prioritize daughter's well-being ✔
Putting daughter first in health crisis, NTA. Relationship in jeopardy.
Protecting your child's mental health is top priority. NTA 👏
Protecting your child's health is top priority, NTA 🙌
Setting boundaries with girlfriend over daughter's eating disorder - NTA 👍