Father kicks out girlfriend for “forcefully helping” daughter with eating disorder

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As a father, it's important to care for your child's well-being, especially when they're struggling with a serious issue like an eating disorder. However, what happens when the father's girlfriend tries to help but ends up making things worse? That's the situation a Reddit user found himself in when his girlfriend crossed a line while trying to help his daughter with her ED. The father had set clear boundaries for how to handle his daughter's condition and his girlfriend ignored them, leading to a confrontation. The father ultimately had to ask his girlfriend to leave. Was he justified in doing so? Read on to find out what happened and weigh in with your own opinion.

Mother's efforts to help daughter with ED met with resistance.

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Helping daughter with eating disorder: A delicate balance

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Girlfriend crosses a line helping daughter with eating disorder

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Girlfriend's forceful approach hindered helping daughter with eating disorder.

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When trying to be helpful goes wrong 😬

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Father closely monitors daughter's meals after girlfriend's departure

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Avoiding trigger words: Emotional support instead of asking about food.

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Protective father defends daughter's eating disorder recovery from girlfriend interference

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Alternative ways to help those with eating disorders ❤️🍎🏋️‍♀️

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Mom catches boyfriend's insensitive comment about daughter's eating disorder 👀

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When a helpful gesture turns into an obsession with calories 🤪

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Father stands up for daughter with eating disorder 💪

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Father defends daughter against girlfriend's harmful comments 💪

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Father defends daughter against intrusive girlfriend. Boundaries are important.

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Misunderstood intentions lead to girlfriend's eviction 👫🚪

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Father stands up for daughter against unhelpful girlfriend 👊

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Struggling with daughter's eating disorder, but girlfriend not helpful?

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Frustrated father confronts girlfriend's ignorance about daughter's disorder 🤦

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When helping becomes forceful, is it still help? 🤔

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Dad stands up for daughter battling eating disorder 💪

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Unapologetic mother fights back against daughter's eating disorder treatment.

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Father stands up against girlfriend's forceful approach to daughter's ED

Dealing with an eating disorder can be a tough journey, especially for a teenager. A father shares his experience with his daughter's ED and how his girlfriend's approach to helping her was doing more harm than good. Despite numerous warnings from doctors to avoid forcing her to eat, his girlfriend disregarded his advice and bombarded his daughter with questions about her meals, including the number of calories consumed. When confronted, the girlfriend refused to listen and continued with her forceful approach. The father had to make a difficult decision to kick her out for his daughter's wellbeing. Despite some family members advising him to be patient, the father knew that his daughter's health was at stake and he had to take action. It's important to understand that an eating disorder is a complex mental illness that requires a gentle approach and professional help. The father's decision was not easy, but it was necessary to ensure his daughter gets the support she needs. In the next section, we will take a look at some of the reactions from the online community.

Setting boundaries with girlfriend over daughter's eating disorder. NTA.

LordAxalon110 | LordAxalon110

Girlfriend ignores father's wishes in daughter's eating disorder treatment. NTA.

CrystalQueen3000 | CrystalQueen3000

Protecting daughter from ED triggers, NTA, girlfriend lacks empathy 👍

Icy-Expression-6539 | Icy-Expression-6539

Protecting daughter from eating disorder triggers. Girlfriend crossed the line. 😠

Daligheri | Daligheri

Set firm boundaries with girlfriend for daughter's health. 💪

ImposterSyndrome412 | ImposterSyndrome412

Protecting his daughter's progress. 🙌

atakus20 | atakus20

Respect the boundaries or keep her away from daughter 👍

squirlysquirel | squirlysquirel

Setting boundaries for daughter's well-being is necessary. NTA 👍

Elivercury | Elivercury

NTA. Encouraging someone with an ED to calorie count is bad 😱

mm172 | mm172

NTA. Girlfriend overstepped boundaries, protect your child 👏

HunterDangerous1366 | HunterDangerous1366

Putting your child first is the priority 👍

boglyric | boglyric

Father ends relationship after girlfriend endangers daughter's health. NTA.

The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver

You go, NTA! 🙌 Setting healthy boundaries is key 🔑

But_why_tho456 | But_why_tho456

Setting boundaries is tough, but necessary for healthy relationships 👍

Katululu | Katululu

Teach your daughter to set boundaries and respect them 👍

KingBretwald | KingBretwald

Surviving an eating disorder is hard enough. NTA.

Abondalea | Abondalea

NTA prioritizes daughter's health, disregards girlfriend's harmful actions. 👍

emotionallydented445 | emotionallydented445

Setting boundaries to save a life. 🙏

candycoatedcoward | candycoatedcoward

Protective father sets boundaries for daughter's well-being ❤️

dateepsta | dateepsta

Suggest consulting a doctor to educate GF on eating disorders 🤓

ninatlanta | ninatlanta

NTA recognizes girlfriend's ignorance in daughter's eating disorder.

mxlpct | mxlpct

Setting boundaries is key, good riddance to bad rubbish! 🙌

wan123450 | wan123450

Supportive commenters applaud dad for prioritizing daughter's health. 👏

TemptingPenguin369 | TemptingPenguin369

Setting clear boundaries for daughter's health. NTA 👍

noregrets2022 | noregrets2022

Protective father rightfully kicks out disrespectful girlfriend 💪

Silent_Syd241 | Silent_Syd241

Protective father defends daughter from harmful ex-girlfriend 💪

HockeyBabble | HockeyBabble

Setting boundaries with a child's eating disorder, NTA wins.

RichPerformance2369 | RichPerformance2369

Insightful comment on close-mindedness and its impact on relationships 🤔

hamillhair | hamillhair

Setting boundaries with loved ones during recovery is crucial ❤️

EGT- | EGT-

Setting boundaries with girlfriend who overstepped in daughter's treatment. 🛑

GeekyFreak07 | GeekyFreak07

Dad stands up for daughter's eating disorder, NTA 👏

Misswinterseren | Misswinterseren

Protecting daughter from harmful behavior, NTA but end relationship 👏

ProfPlumDidIt | ProfPlumDidIt

A supportive father prioritizes his daughter's well-being over his girlfriend's ignorance ❤️

ThisWillBeYourNameF | ThisWillBeYourNameF

Trusting doctors over girlfriend with daughter's eating disorder. #NTA

pluckyminna | pluckyminna

Father takes action to protect daughter with eating disorder ❤️

Shoereader | Shoereader

When explaining the obvious is necessary, it's not helpful 🤷‍♀️

hmg07 | hmg07

Follow the doctor's orders: NTA for kicking out girlfriend 👍

chocolatedoc3 | chocolatedoc3

Misreading can be hilarious! 😂

Kiz4718 | Kiz4718

Parent shares struggles with child's eating disorder and defends decision to kick out girlfriend.

FeistyIrishWench | FeistyIrishWench

Helpful advice for dealing with girlfriend's ignorance and insensitivity.

JullabyBye | JullabyBye

Normalizing calorie counting can be dangerous for ED sufferers. Good dad.

blinkingsandbeepings | blinkingsandbeepings

Father praised for prioritizing daughter's eating disorder recovery ❤️

Awkward_Emphasis9918 | Awkward_Emphasis9918

Father's girlfriend endangers daughter's life by forcing food, YTA.

AmITheAltAccount | AmITheAltAccount

Commenter's innocent confusion about ED lightens the mood.

PensFan11197 | PensFan11197

Father prioritizes daughter's health over girlfriend, receives praise 🙌

StormingSunshine | StormingSunshine

Helping someone with a mental health issue can be complicated 💆

Passing_Throu | Passing_Throu

Respectful boundaries are key. NTA for enforcing them 👍

Kaila82 | Kaila82

Father defends daughter's health, receives support. #NTA 🙌

Reasonable_racoon | Reasonable_racoon

Empathetic commenter supports father's decision to protect daughter.

Interesting_Taro_583 | Interesting_Taro_583

Setting boundaries to protect daughter from unwanted help. 🚫❤️

wayward_painter | wayward_painter

NTA calls out girlfriend's malicious behavior towards daughter's ED

pinapple-ankles | pinapple-ankles

Empathy for daughter's suffering trumps girlfriend's learning curve. #NTA 🙏

Battered_Mage | Battered_Mage

Dump the toxic girlfriend and prioritize your daughter 👏

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👍 Dad's support for daughter's eating disorder is admirable

rb50_meow | rb50_meow

Protective father takes action against harmful girlfriend. ✅

pawsplay36 | pawsplay36

Putting daughter's health first 💪 #NTA #EatingDisorderRecovery

Jerseygirl2468 | Jerseygirl2468

Respect your daughter's boundaries. NTA for enforcing them 🙌

MusicalGamerGal | MusicalGamerGal

Recovering from eating disorder, OP did right in protecting daughter

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Supportive comment for father protecting daughter from harmful girlfriend 👍

cmlobue | cmlobue

Commenter defends father's decision with cautionary proverb.

bunbun821 | bunbun821

Mother's good intentions cause harm in daughter's eating disorder 🍽️

Highlariousdude | Highlariousdude

Prioritizing daughter's health over girlfriend's good intentions. 👏

PinkedOff | PinkedOff

Respectful approach to ED treatment undermined by girlfriend's disrespect. NTA.

Early_Vegetable3932 | Early_Vegetable3932

Former anorexic explains why girlfriend was wrong to ask about calories 🔥

MeanGreenMotherQueen | MeanGreenMotherQueen

Setting boundaries and prioritizing daughter's health. 👍

themixedredhead | themixedredhead

Clear NTA judgement with a touch of sass 👏

magus424 | magus424

Girlfriend crosses the line from well-intentioned to malicious 😠

Elismom1313 | Elismom1313

Putting daughter's well-being first. 🙌

Turbulent_Message637 | Turbulent_Message637

Supportive reply to father's post about his girlfriend's inaction. NTA 👏

Repulsive-Nerve5127 | Repulsive-Nerve5127

Protect your daughter from toxic girlfriend. Break up with her. 👏

beaglemama | beaglemama

Support for father's decision in daughter's eating disorder situation 🙏

freshub393 | freshub393

Dump the girlfriend! Not the a-hole 👏

Substantial-Air3395 | Substantial-Air3395

Protecting daughter's health is top priority. GF needs boundaries 🙏

giantbrownguy | giantbrownguy

Supportive dad defends daughter's health against unsupportive girlfriend ❤️

Huge_Industry_1259 | Huge_Industry_1259

Protecting daughter from ED trumps GF, NTA 🙌

Neonpinx | Neonpinx

Follow the experts' advice, girlfriend needs to listen and learn 👍

IAMETERNALALLTIME | IAMETERNALALLTIME

Support for father's decision to prioritize daughter's well-being ✔

eyore5775 | eyore5775

Putting daughter first in health crisis, NTA. Relationship in jeopardy.

lonelyzephyr83 | lonelyzephyr83

Protecting your child's mental health is top priority. NTA 👏

Dogmother123 | Dogmother123

Protecting your child's health is top priority, NTA 🙌

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Setting boundaries with girlfriend over daughter's eating disorder - NTA 👍

ottonormalverraucher | ottonormalverraucher

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