Wife gives husband ultimatum: her or his flirty coworker?

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A wife is in a difficult situation as her husband's coworker seems to have an inappropriate infatuation with him. The coworker's behavior has escalated recently, including constant calls and texts at all hours of the day and night. The wife reached her breaking point when the coworker called at 2 am for help with her heat. The wife confronts her husband about the situation and gives him an ultimatum. Will the husband choose his wife or his coworker? Read on to find out and decide for yourself: AITA?

10 years in and an ultimatum arises over a coworker 👀

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Coworker's crush on husband causing trouble at work 🔥

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👩‍⚖️ Wife gives husband ultimatum over flirty coworker's demands

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Husband's coworker causing marital troubles? 🤔

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Is the coworker a threat to their marriage? 👀

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The coworker's bold move raises suspicion and tension 😬

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Wife's jealousy towards husband's coworker reaches boiling point 😡

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Jealous coworker causing trouble in marriage, husband downplaying her actions.

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Husband's coworker crosses lines, wife gives ultimatum. Drama ensues.

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When a coworker's flirtation becomes a problem at home 😕

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Husband's coworker crosses boundaries, wife issues ultimatum.

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Wife puts her foot down on husband's flirty coworker 🚫👨‍🔧

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Wife warns husband of flirty co-worker's ulterior motives 💔

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Boundaries crossed: Wife issues ultimatum over husband's coworker flirtation.

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Wife gives ultimatum to husband's flirty coworker. Marriage on line.

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Navigating jealousy in marriage: when is it justified? 🤔

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Is it really an ultimatum or just a tough decision?

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Wife gives husband ultimatum over flirty coworker 🤔

A wife is at her wits' end with her husband's coworker, who has an inappropriate infatuation with him. The coworker, Tabitha, constantly calls and texts him for mundane things, and their interactions at the company Christmas party made it clear that she has feelings for him. The situation has escalated to the point where Tabitha is calling and texting him at all hours of the day and night. The wife gave her husband an ultimatum to choose between her or the coworker, but he insists that he only wants to help a friend and has no romantic feelings towards her. Is the wife overreacting or is her husband being naive? Read on to find out what others think and share your own thoughts.

Husband's behavior is a red flag. Time for ultimatum? 💔

MamaFen | MamaFen

Commenters suspect husband of cheating in flirty coworker dilemma. 🤔

HowardProject | HowardProject

Husband's flirty behavior is a slippery slope to cheating 😒

redheadedravenclaw | redheadedravenclaw

Wife gives ultimatum: NTA commenter agrees, warns of coworker's actions 👀

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Wife gives ultimatum after husband crosses line with coworker 💔

WanderingWedding | WanderingWedding

A cautionary tale about a husband's naive kindness towards a flirty coworker.

DragonCelica | DragonCelica

Is the husband cheating with his coworker? 🤔

HauntofhighAFtower | HauntofhighAFtower

NTA- Your husband is already emotionally cheating with his coworker 😔

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Husband in hot water with flirty coworker, NTA for wife's ultimatum 🔥

aquasaurex | aquasaurex

Wife gives ultimatum over husband's flirty coworker, commenters discuss trust

AnimaLumen | AnimaLumen

Wife gives husband ultimatum after coworker's flirty behavior.

anchovie_macncheese | anchovie_macncheese

Commenter suggests post is beyond AITA's pay grade. Agree? 🤔

Thatroyalkitty | Thatroyalkitty

Husband in hot water for not seeing coworker's advances. NTA.

Roatie | Roatie

Cheating suspicions confirmed at the party 🕵️‍♀️🔍

ks501 | ks501

Husband's flirty coworker causing marital troubles. NTA comment.

Dry-Expression | Dry-Expression

Wife gives husband ultimatum after flirty coworker's late night call 📞

moodyvee | moodyvee

Coworker's phone number raises suspicion, NTA draws the line.

HellblazerHawk | HellblazerHawk

Suspicious behavior suggests affair with flirty coworker, NTA for wife.

MrsY-Bibliophile | MrsY-Bibliophile

Putting your spouse first is non-negotiable 👏

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Supportive stranger shares personal experience and advice for OP.

DataPlenty | DataPlenty

Husband's actions speak louder than his words 🤷🏻‍♂️

SomeoneYouDontKnow70 | SomeoneYouDontKnow70

Setting boundaries with flirty coworker: NTA or red flag?

LenaDontLoveYou | LenaDontLoveYou

Commenter expresses frustration with husband's flirty coworker, calls out her behavior. #NTA 😠

Similar-Mango-8372 | Similar-Mango-8372

Valid concerns, flirty coworker causing trouble. Hopefully a wakeup call.

Voidg | Voidg

Protecting your relationship boundaries is crucial. 🚫💔

SlippingAbout | SlippingAbout

🚨 Ex-husband cheated with flirty coworker, this hits close 🤔

workingmomandtired | workingmomandtired

👀 Woman loves your husband. Ultimatum time. NTA

_Volly | _Volly

Cheating husband's 'work wife' strikes again. NTA stands tall.

BastardToast | BastardToast

Flirty coworker causing trouble? NAH except Tabitha.

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When a late night call becomes more than just work 👀

lacyjacobs | lacyjacobs

Set boundaries and take action if necessary 💪

Kreeblim | Kreeblim

Sassy solution to flirty coworker problem. 💁🏻‍♀️💼

BKStephens | BKStephens

Commenter and reply suggest infidelity may already be happening 👀

tehPanamaniac | tehPanamaniac

Put your emotional well-being first, and consider therapy 💪

chunkocheddar | chunkocheddar

Gaslighting alert! Time to lawyer up and move on. 🙌

skyisland18 | skyisland18

Husband crosses the line with coworker, wife gives ultimatum. NTA.

craftynervousness | craftynervousness

Wife gives ultimatum, coworker needs a slap. NTA.

marainblue | marainblue

Insist on going with him! Not the a**hole 👍

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Husband's flirty coworker causing marital rift, NTA for setting boundaries.

muh-guy-Sedai | muh-guy-Sedai

Commenter advises to sit down and discuss the situation like adults. Replies defend OP's emotional reaction.

King_Pawpaw | King_Pawpaw

Partner prioritizing flirty coworker over you? NTA, kick him curb 🚶‍♀️

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DH already in affair, blowing off concerns. NTA 👍

WA_State_Buckeye | WA_State_Buckeye

Respect is key in any relationship. Set boundaries and prioritize.

Yellowsunflowerlover | Yellowsunflowerlover

Suspicion arises as husband flirts with coworker. NTA.

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HR warns: Coworker's behavior could lead to problems, document everything 📝

InsideElderberry7894 | InsideElderberry7894

Husband's flirty coworker causing marital rift. Wife gives ultimatum.

filkerdave | filkerdave

Wife confronts husband's flirty coworker, internet supports her decision 🤝

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Husband shut down flirty coworker, but wife needs reassurance 💕

lea2013 | lea2013

Husband's coworker causing marital strife. NTA stands firm.

3bluerose | 3bluerose

Commenters agree: Flirty coworker is a problem, NTA wins.

breeriv | breeriv

Red flags everywhere: Possible emotional affair at work 😬

treemouth | treemouth

A flirtatious coworker and a suspicious wife, who's right? 🤔

TheUltradianCyclist | TheUltradianCyclist

Hire a PI and lawyer up 💼🕵️‍♀️. Your husband lacks respect.

HelpMeUpPls | HelpMeUpPls

Husband prioritizes flirtatious coworker over wife. NTA for leaving.

Careful-Listen2277 | Careful-Listen2277

Stand up for yourself! Your partner shouldn't prioritize others ❤️

SmoochNo | SmoochNo

Husband's coworker crosses the line, wife gives ultimatum - NTA

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