Sister's boyfriend wants password to her safe. AITA for refusing?

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A college student staying with her sister and her sister's boyfriend is put in an uncomfortable position when her sister's boyfriend demands access to a safe containing valuable jewelry and antiques. Despite being given the password by her sister, the guest stands her ground and refuses to give it to him, leading to a heated argument. Was she in the right to protect her sister's belongings, or should she have just given in to avoid conflict? Read on to find out.

Protecting personal property or being too secretive? 🤔

throwrasafe34566 | throwrasafe34566

Respect your sister's trust, don't give away safe password 🤐

throwrasafe34566 | throwrasafe34566

Protecting my sister's safe from her boyfriend. No trust, no password. 🔒

throwrasafe34566 | throwrasafe34566

Boyfriend wants to peek in sister's safe, AITA for refusing?

throwrasafe34566 | throwrasafe34566

Protecting my sister's property, not giving in to entitlement 🙅‍♀️

throwrasafe34566 | throwrasafe34566

Boyfriend wants access to safe. AITA for refusing? 🤔

throwrasafe34566 | throwrasafe34566

Refusing to give password to sister's boyfriend's safe. Disrespected at home. 😔

throwrasafe34566 | throwrasafe34566

Standing up for my safe, am I the a**hole? 🤔

throwrasafe34566 | throwrasafe34566

🚨Sister's boyfriend demands password for her safe. AITA?🔒

A safe password is causing drama in the house. A sister's boyfriend, Micah, wants access to her sister's safe and is demanding the password from her. The sister, who was given access to the safe under the condition of not sharing the password, refused to give Micah access when he asked. Micah got upset, reminding her of his status as her sister's boyfriend and that she was just a guest in their house. The argument escalated until Micah left the house in anger, leaving the sister alone and shaken. Now, she's questioning if she should have just given him the password. But was she right in standing her ground? Is it her responsibility to share access to property that isn't hers? Let's find out what the internet has to say in the comments and reactions below.

Sister's boyfriend pressures for safe password, NTA for refusing. Concerns for safety.

Sel-Reddit | Sel-Reddit

Stand your ground! Don't give in to pressure. 🙅‍♀️💪

QYB1990 | QYB1990

Protect your safe and your privacy 👀 NTA for refusing.

sswishbone | sswishbone

Protect your sister's belongings. Stand up to the controlling BF. 👍

TemptingPenguin369 | TemptingPenguin369

Red flag! Sister's boyfriend demands safe access. NTA. 🚨

Educational_Lynx_886 | Educational_Lynx_886

🚫 Refusing to give boyfriend safe password, sister needs to know 🚨

hkrne | hkrne

Protecting Natalie's trust is key 🔒. NTA for refusing.

TrainingDearest | TrainingDearest

Protecting sister's safety and informing parents. Good call! 👌

Dusty_mother | Dusty_mother

Respect privacy. NTA for refusing to share personal information.

Facetunethis | Facetunethis

Stand your ground and ensure your safety 🛡️

Slight_Flamingo_7697 | Slight_Flamingo_7697

Don't relent! Micah's up to something. Tell your sister ASAP! 🔒

schindig504 | schindig504

Protecting the safe: NTA for standing up to shady boyfriend 🚫🔑💼

Ciphree | Ciphree

Sister's bf demands safe password, NTA for refusing. Be careful! 🔒🙅‍♀️

saintphoenixxx | saintphoenixxx

Respect your sister's privacy. 🚫🔑 NTA

keesouth | keesouth

🚫 Refusing to give password to shady boyfriend. NTA.

KJoD83 | KJoD83

Sister's boyfriend wants safe password. NTA for refusing. 💪

mobyhead1 | mobyhead1

Protecting sister's privacy - NTA 🚫🔒

mvtshops | mvtshops

NTA for refusing to give sister's boyfriend safe password. Take precautions ⚠️

Realistic_Frosting_2 | Realistic_Frosting_2

Sister's boyfriend crosses the line 😠 NTA takes a stand

Iataaddicted25 | Iataaddicted25

Respect boundaries. 🚫🔑 Trust is key in relationships.

cassowary32 | cassowary32

Protect your sister's safety! NTA for refusing.

b1lllevansatmariposa | b1lllevansatmariposa

Protect your sister's safe and your boundaries. NTA! 🚫🔑

ConfidenceFront3561 | ConfidenceFront3561

Standing your ground against a bully 🙅‍♂️ NTA

OrcEight | OrcEight

Respect boundaries, NTA. 🚫🔒

drtroublet | drtroublet

Protect your valuables and tell your sister. He's a bully. 👍

whatsmypassword73 | whatsmypassword73

Protect your sister's secret 🤫, say no to the pushy boyfriend 👎

TimTam_the_Enchanter | TimTam_the_Enchanter

Respecting boundaries is key. 🚫🔒

[deleted] | [deleted]

Protect your assets! 🛡️ NTA for refusing.

No_Secret8533 | No_Secret8533

Protect your sister's stuff! 🙅‍♀️

SuperHuckleberry125 | SuperHuckleberry125

Curious for the update? Same! 🤔

OneChrononOfPlancks | OneChrononOfPlancks

Protect your sister's stuff! 🛡️ NTA for refusing.

Temporary-Koala-8940 | Temporary-Koala-8940

Protect your sister's valuables! 🚫🔐

Careless-Issue2752 | Careless-Issue2752

Protect your a**ets! 🚫🔑

juicydreamer | juicydreamer

Privacy matters. 🤐 NTA for protecting sister's safe.

Kris82868 | Kris82868

Protect your sister's safe and privacy! Record and report. 🔒

distant-starlight | distant-starlight

Protecting your sister's privacy is key. 🚫🔒

Rolling_Beardo | Rolling_Beardo

Sister's boyfriend demands safe password. NTA stands up to him 🔒

TrayMc666 | TrayMc666

Protect yourself and your belongings. 🚨 #StaySafe

Mortis_Limpkins | Mortis_Limpkins

👍 Refusing to share safe password with sister's sketchy boyfriend.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Respect boundaries! 🚫🔑 NTA for protecting sister's safe.

Sufficient_Ant_3470 | Sufficient_Ant_3470

Protecting safety first! 🛡️ You did the right thing.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Privacy is important 🔒. NTA for not sharing password.

Lia_Delphine | Lia_Delphine

Protect your boundaries! 🚫 Don't give in to manipulation tactics.

waywardjynx | waywardjynx

🔒 Keep your safe, keep your secrets. NTA for refusing. 🔐

sterren_staarder | sterren_staarder

Hold steady, OP! 🙌 Refusing was the right thing to do.

Shoereader | Shoereader

Stand your ground! 🛡️ NTA for not giving password. Tell sister. 🤔

aggiesam1983 | aggiesam1983

Commenter supports OP and expresses concern about her safety ⚠️

Pragmatic_Hedonist | Pragmatic_Hedonist

Don't let Micah bully you into betraying your sister's trust ⚠️

PleaseCoffeeMe | PleaseCoffeeMe

Trust your gut, keep your valuables safe 💰

Abby_Benton | Abby_Benton

Sister's boyfriend wants password to her safe. Privacy matters.

Special_Koala_1093 | Special_Koala_1093

Stand your ground and expose his behavior. 🚫🔑

honeybeast518 | honeybeast518

Protect the heirloom jewelry! NTA for refusing password request 💍🔒

OneWithoutaName2 | OneWithoutaName2

Sister's boyfriend demands safe password, NTA stands her ground 🙅‍♀️

fulcrum_ct-7567 | fulcrum_ct-7567

Protect your privacy 🤫 NTA

BakerNormal4348 | BakerNormal4348

Respect the rules: NTA for refusing sister's boyfriend's request 🔒

Anonymous3105 | Anonymous3105

Sister's boyfriend wants access to safe. OP stands firm. 💪

ninatlanta | ninatlanta

Sister's boyfriend demands safe password, sister says NTA

catnik | catnik

Protect your safe, protect your privacy. 🚫🔐 NTA

TipsyBaker_ | TipsyBaker_

Protect your safe, protect your assets 🚫🔑💰 #NTA

mnemonicprincess | mnemonicprincess

Protect your sister's belongings! Don't give him the password 👏

drews2167 | drews2167

Trust your gut and stay safe! 🙏

Illustrious_Emu_1285 | Illustrious_Emu_1285

Sister's boyfriend demands safe password. Red flag? 🚩

HotelLow7065 | HotelLow7065

Protecting your sister's trust: Why give the password away? 🤔

Prize_Fox_9163 | Prize_Fox_9163

Sister's boyfriend demands safe password, gets shut down. 🚫🔑

Tyberious_ | Tyberious_

Protecting privacy 🤐 and standing up for family 🤝

FLSunGarden | FLSunGarden

Protecting sister's safe password, NTA. 👏

Miserable_SeaLion | Miserable_SeaLion

Respect privacy boundaries. 🚫🔒

trasha- | trasha-

Protecting your safe and home. 🚨 Good call, NTA!

sonicblue217 | sonicblue217

Don't risk it! 🚨 Keep your safe password safe! #NTA

[deleted] | [deleted]

Protect your valuables and your sister. Don't give in! 💰

crymson7 | crymson7

Protect yourself and inform your sister. 🚪📱

East_Rush | East_Rush

Sister's boyfriend demands safe password, OP refuses - safety concerns arise ⚠️

workingshaw | workingshaw

Protect your sister's trust and valuable possessions. Don't give in 👊💍

nadiyah98 | nadiyah98

Keep your password safe 🙅‍♀️ Trust your instincts, NTA

Bright_Sea_7567 | Bright_Sea_7567

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