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She’s leaving for good, but AITA for telling my friends and partner they’re not the most important?

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An 18-year-old girl has been offered the opportunity of a lifetime to study abroad in another continent, and she’s determined to make it her new home. However, her friends and partner are not happy about her decision to move away permanently. Despite her efforts to reassure them, they continue to pressure her to change her mind, causing her to finally speak her mind. What did she say? And what will be the consequences of her bold decision? Read on for the full story.

Exciting opportunity abroad, but leaving friends and partner behind

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Leaving for good, but friends and partner not supportive?

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Navigating long-distance relationships and their challenges

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Feeling attacked by friends and partner for leaving country

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Sticking to your goals can come at a cost

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Putting myself first caused backlash. AITA?

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Navigating family drama: when to prioritize your loved ones

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OP thanks commenters for advice and support during tough time ❤️

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throaway238381 | throaway238381

Leaving soon but friends and partner not most important? AITA?

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throaway238381 | throaway238381

A 15-year-old seeks validation for prioritizing themselves over loved ones.

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Leaving for good – but AITA for putting myself first?

When an amazing study abroad opportunity presented itself to an 18-year-old girl, she couldn’t be happier. However, her friends and partner didn’t share the same excitement. They were concerned about the danger of going alone and the fact that she would be practically burning bridges with them. Even though she tried to assure them that they could still be friends and she promised to visit often, they continued to be unsupportive. Fed up with their constant nagging, she finally told them that they weren’t the most important thing in her life and that this was the future she had always dreamed of. This resulted in her partner breaking up with her and her friends ghosting her. While she acknowledges that she could have phrased it better, she also knows that she did what was best for herself. Some of her cousins think she went too far, but her mom thinks she should just board the plane and never spare them another thought. What do you think? Share your opinions and advice in the comments below.

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Leaving toxic friends and partner. Real friends support each other.

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Commenter called YTA but also acknowledged NTA for chasing dreams.

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Following dreams and leaving a boyfriend behind

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Be the best version of yourself!

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Saying goodbye is hard, but NAH for prioritizing your future ✌️

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Delivery matters. Soft ESH. Good riddance and enjoy studies!

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Follow your dreams! NTA, they’ll come around eventually.

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Don’t let others hold you back from pursuing your dreams ✈️

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Unpopular YTA opinion on leaving, but valid points made

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Enjoy your life, forget the haters! ✌️

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NTA. Commenter misinterprets situation and gives unwarranted advice.

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Mom knows best NTA for prioritizing yourself.

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Saying they’re not important made you an a-hole. ESH.

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Follow your heart, NTA. Your loved ones will support you. ❤️

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Learn how to communicate without being an a**hole

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Surround yourself with positive people and enjoy life!

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Prioritizing self-growth

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Live your dreams! Don’t let anyone stop you! NTA!

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Choose your happiness, not their guilt.

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Leaving for good? NTA for prioritizing your dreams ✨

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A heartwarming story about a father’s love and letting go ❤️

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Embrace the opportunity! Your mom is right.

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Move out and enjoy life! MTA comment and no replies.

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Being honest about priorities can be tough, but NTA

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Wishing them luck on their journey

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Live your life , NTA

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Leaving the country for a dream; friends and partner upset.

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Seize the opportunity! Family support matters more than fake friends.

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Mom agrees, NTA puts friends and partner in their place

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Harsh truth or not, leaving for an opportunity. NTA

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Supportive comment about prioritizing friendships and personal goals ❤️

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Follow your dreams and don’t let anyone bully you! ✌️

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Follow your dreams and don’t let anyone hold you back! ✈️

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Don’t let anyone hold you back from pursuing your dreams ✨

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Supportive commenters encourage OP’s new chapter.

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