A woman took in her sister’s neglected children after her mother died, and has been caring for them for a year. However, her sister has been calling the children “our kids” despite never being there for them and refusing to pay child support. The woman finally snapped and confronted her sister, but is now being called out by her other sisters for being too harsh. Was she in the wrong for calling out her sister? Or is it justified to feel upset over her sister calling the children “our kids”? Read on to find out more.
Sister with 5 kids by 5 men tries to claim adopted kids
Adoption, family drama, and a legal intervention.
Sister wants to claim ‘our kids’ despite never being there
Sister’s guilt trip after adoption: heartbreaking or manipulative?
Sister’s involvement in adopted kids’ life causes conflict.
Adopted kids uncomfortable with family, communication gone cold
Sister agrees to everything except paying child support
Sister refuses to sign agreement without avoiding child support.
Sister calls adopted kids ‘our kids’, woman snaps back
Adoptive mother questions her role after sister’s text
Adoptive vs. biological parents clash. Who are the real parents?
Woman calls out sister for not supporting adopted children financially
In a heart-wrenching story, a woman opens up about her sister’s neglectful behaviour towards her own children. Despite abandoning her first two children at birth and 9 months old respectively, and having no contact with them while they were growing up, the sister suddenly took an interest in the children when they were adopted by her other sister. However, her interest waned when she was asked to pay child support. The woman is now upset that her sister refers to the children as “our kids” despite not contributing to their upbringing financially or emotionally. Is she right to be angry? Or should she apologize for calling out her sister’s behaviour? Read on to find out what others have to say about this family feud.
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Biological aunt doesn’t deserve ‘our kids’ label. NTA.
Agreeing with commenter’s sentiment with a hint of frustration
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Sister’s ‘our kids’ comment reignites long-standing family drama.
Adoptive mom rightfully snaps at sister for calling kids ‘our kids’
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Adoption doesn’t make her less of a mom.
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You’re not the a**hole for claiming your kids as yours ❤️
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Calling out a lying ‘mother’
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Adoptive mom stands up to sister’s overstepping.
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Harsh judgment!
Adoptive mother rightfully claims ownership of her children
Heartbreaking story of a sister’s love for her abandoned nieces/nephews
Adopted kids not hers, she tried to abandon one. NTA.
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Calling names won’t solve the issue. ♀️
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Sister disrespects adopted kids, OP is NTA for calling her out
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Adoptive mother shuts down entitled sister’s claim to children
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A powerful statement on motherhood that hits home
Adoptive mother called out for claiming ‘our kids’ with NTA judgement
Being a mother figure is more than giving birth
NTA. The sister abandoned them, you raised them. She’s not mom
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Support for adopted children and no mercy for child support.
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Adoptive parent claps back at sister’s claim to ‘our kids’
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Adopted kids called “our kids” causes family feud. NTA.
