Woman asks if she's the A-hole for expecting her brother to uninvite cheating husband and friends from his wedding

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A woman is asking if she's wrong for wanting her cheating husband and friends, who covered up for him, to be uninvited from her brother's wedding. She recently found out that her husband had been cheating on her for 4 months, and all of their mutual friends knew about it and covered it up. When her brother asked if she would be comfortable being seated next to her husband and friends, she was shocked and told him he shouldn't be asking that question. The brother is hesitant to uninvite them, stating it would be mean to do so just a month before the wedding. The woman is wondering if she's the A-hole for expecting her brother to uninvite them given the circumstances.

Brother invites cheating husband & friends to wedding. Sister objects.

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Awkward family dynamics at a wedding 🙈

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A nostalgic start to a complicated story 😕

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Betrayed wife discovers husband's cheating with friend's collusion 😔

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Family divided over husband's infidelity and friends' loyalty 🤔

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Husband's infidelity strains brotherly bond 🤝

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Uncomfortable seating arrangement at brother's wedding. Is it justified?

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Brother invites cheating husband to his wedding, sister upset 😒

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Brother refuses to uninvite cheating husband and friends from wedding 💔

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Expecting cheating husband and friends uninvited from brother's wedding? AITA?

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Should she have to sit next to her cheating ex?

When a woman discovers her husband has been cheating on her with the help of their mutual friends, she expects her brother to uninvite the cheating husband and all her friends from his wedding. However, her brother refuses to uninvite them, causing a rift in their relationship. The woman is torn between attending the wedding and confronting her cheating ex and friends, or skipping the wedding altogether. What would you do in her shoes? Keep reading to find out what people are saying about this dilemma.

NTA: OP considers skipping brother's wedding due to cheating ex and friends.

MrsJonesy2012 | MrsJonesy2012

Brother refuses to uninvite cheating husband and friends from wedding

Fernoohlalaa | Fernoohlalaa

Brother prioritizes rude friends over sister's comfort. 🤔

annia929 | annia929

Cheating won't be tolerated! 🚫 NTA wins the day.

GemGem04 | GemGem04

Choose your sister or the cheating friends: NTA 💪

Gorilla_girl17 | Gorilla_girl17

NTA for expecting brother to uninvite cheating husband and friends 💔

NYCQuilts | NYCQuilts

Wedding drama, plus ones for side pieces? 🤔

dodie2599 | dodie2599

Savage reply to NTA comment made me LOL 😂

seohhe | seohhe

Woman seeks advice on excluding cheating husband and friends from wedding. NTA.

PilotEnvironmental46 | PilotEnvironmental46

Brother prioritizing cheaters over sister? NTA for setting boundaries

notanexpertopinion | notanexpertopinion

Commenter and replies express shock at brother's wedding decision 😲

AkraStar | AkraStar

Sibling loyalty prevails amidst cheating scandal 👏

Mithrandir20 | Mithrandir20

Brother should have uninvited cheating husband and friends without asking. NTA.

AntipodeanRabbit | AntipodeanRabbit

Choose self-love over toxicity 💕 RSVP no to the wedding.

Cat_got_ya_tongue | Cat_got_ya_tongue

Brother takes the wrong side, NTA for not attending 🚫💍

Slow-Bumblebee-8609 | Slow-Bumblebee-8609

Standing up for your values and boundaries. 👏

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze

Stand your ground 💪, NTA! Family should support family.

Reasonable_Rub6337 | Reasonable_Rub6337

Choose your own happiness, NTA. 😊

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Will the cheaters ruin the wedding? Brother's fiancée chooses sides 😬

HistoricallyLurking | HistoricallyLurking

Brother's wedding, cheater's not invited 🚫👋

Constant_Camera3452 | Constant_Camera3452

Brother's refusal to uninvite cheating husband shows cluelessness. NTA.

LoremEpsomSalt | LoremEpsomSalt

Standing up for family values 👏

iisxnshxnee | iisxnshxnee

Stand your ground and cut off fake people. 💪

Playful-Object-7224 | Playful-Object-7224

Stand your ground! 🙌 NTA, uninviting them is justifiable.

Gryffindorphins | Gryffindorphins

Supportive comment suggests standing up against cheating husband and friends. 🙌

RoyallyOakie | RoyallyOakie

Commenter slams brother for supporting cheating husband at wedding 💔

formerly_valley_pete | formerly_valley_pete

Stand your ground and protect your brother's wedding day 🎉💪

Tall_Secretary6039 | Tall_Secretary6039

Stand your ground! Don't let cheaters and liars win 🙅

cancergirl-peanut65 | cancergirl-peanut65

Sibling loyalty over acquaintances' feelings! 🙌 #NTA

velverita | velverita

Set a reasonable boundary. Brother risking relationship over strangers' attendance.

photosbeersandteach | photosbeersandteach

Brother's wedding: NTA for not wanting cheaters around, makes sense.

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Choose me or the cheating husband and friends. NTA.

Spare-Article-396 | Spare-Article-396

Cheating husband and AH friends invited to wedding, NTA uninviting yourself

Historical_Alarm_889 | Historical_Alarm_889

Suggests a heartbreaking solution to attend brother's wedding. 😢

SuspiciousWeekend284 | SuspiciousWeekend284

Stand up for yourself and don't compromise on your boundaries. 🚫🙅‍♀️

Venetrix2 | Venetrix2

Parent shares tough love approach to sibling's wedding drama 🤷🏼

Sad_Researcher_781 | Sad_Researcher_781

Stand up for yourself and drop it. Have fun instead! 🎉

peterhala | peterhala

Savage clapback to spineless brother's cheating wedding party 🤭

harshitron | harshitron

Cheating at a wedding? Uninviting them isn't mean, it's fair 👀

procrastinating_b | procrastinating_b

Stand your ground! 🙌 It might be helpful to involve parents.

pinguthegreek | pinguthegreek

Sibling support wins! 🙌 NTA for standing up against cheaters.

CarelessCow2599 | CarelessCow2599

NTA for expecting brother to uninvite cheating husband from wedding 💍

loonygirl30 | loonygirl30

Sitting with cheating ex and liar friends at wedding? 🤔 NTA.

Downtown-Back-1418 | Downtown-Back-1418

Brother's wedding drama: commenter suspects groom knew about cheating friends. 🤔

Demonslugg | Demonslugg

Respect his wishes and skip the drama-filled wedding 🚫🤵

Jumpy_Platform4643 | Jumpy_Platform4643

Brother prioritizes seating plan over sister's comfort, NTA 🙄

AngelsAttitude | AngelsAttitude

Stand your ground and don't attend the wedding 🚫💍

NmlsFool | NmlsFool

Curious for an update! 🤔 Also, you're not the a**hole. 👍

No-Potential9392 | No-Potential9392

Sibling rivalry and loyalty in the face of cheating. 🤝

v_blondie | v_blondie

A helpful commenter asks for more info on ex's attendance.

Icy_Calligrapher7088 | Icy_Calligrapher7088

Sassy suggestion for dealing with cheating ex at wedding 💅🏼

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Supportive commenter agrees with OP's actions and questions brother's decision.

cartoonjunkie13 | cartoonjunkie13

Skip the reception and make a statement 💥

jammy913 | jammy913

Supportive comment and hope for karma, urging for update. 🙌

MrsJadeDicaprio | MrsJadeDicaprio

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