A woman is asking if she's wrong for wanting her cheating husband and friends, who covered up for him, to be uninvited from her brother's wedding. She recently found out that her husband had been cheating on her for 4 months, and all of their mutual friends knew about it and covered it up. When her brother asked if she would be comfortable being seated next to her husband and friends, she was shocked and told him he shouldn't be asking that question. The brother is hesitant to uninvite them, stating it would be mean to do so just a month before the wedding. The woman is wondering if she's the A-hole for expecting her brother to uninvite them given the circumstances.
Woman asks if she's the A-hole for expecting her brother to uninvite cheating husband and friends from his wedding

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When a woman discovers her husband has been cheating on her with the help of their mutual friends, she expects her brother to uninvite the cheating husband and all her friends from his wedding. However, her brother refuses to uninvite them, causing a rift in their relationship. The woman is torn between attending the wedding and confronting her cheating ex and friends, or skipping the wedding altogether. What would you do in her shoes? Keep reading to find out what people are saying about this dilemma.
NTA: OP considers skipping brother's wedding due to cheating ex and friends.

MrsJonesy2012 | MrsJonesy2012
Brother refuses to uninvite cheating husband and friends from wedding

Fernoohlalaa | Fernoohlalaa
Brother prioritizes rude friends over sister's comfort. 🤔

annia929 | annia929
Cheating won't be tolerated! 🚫 NTA wins the day.

GemGem04 | GemGem04
Choose your sister or the cheating friends: NTA 💪

Gorilla_girl17 | Gorilla_girl17
NTA for expecting brother to uninvite cheating husband and friends 💔

NYCQuilts | NYCQuilts
Wedding drama, plus ones for side pieces? 🤔

dodie2599 | dodie2599
Savage reply to NTA comment made me LOL 😂

seohhe | seohhe
Woman seeks advice on excluding cheating husband and friends from wedding. NTA.

PilotEnvironmental46 | PilotEnvironmental46
Brother prioritizing cheaters over sister? NTA for setting boundaries

notanexpertopinion | notanexpertopinion
Commenter and replies express shock at brother's wedding decision 😲

AkraStar | AkraStar
Sibling loyalty prevails amidst cheating scandal 👏

Mithrandir20 | Mithrandir20
Brother should have uninvited cheating husband and friends without asking. NTA.

AntipodeanRabbit | AntipodeanRabbit
Choose self-love over toxicity 💕 RSVP no to the wedding.

Cat_got_ya_tongue | Cat_got_ya_tongue
Brother takes the wrong side, NTA for not attending 🚫💍

Slow-Bumblebee-8609 | Slow-Bumblebee-8609
Standing up for your values and boundaries. 👏

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze
Stand your ground 💪, NTA! Family should support family.

Reasonable_Rub6337 | Reasonable_Rub6337
Choose your own happiness, NTA. 😊

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Will the cheaters ruin the wedding? Brother's fiancée chooses sides 😬

HistoricallyLurking | HistoricallyLurking
Brother's wedding, cheater's not invited 🚫👋

Constant_Camera3452 | Constant_Camera3452
Brother's refusal to uninvite cheating husband shows cluelessness. NTA.

LoremEpsomSalt | LoremEpsomSalt
Standing up for family values 👏

iisxnshxnee | iisxnshxnee
Stand your ground and cut off fake people. 💪

Playful-Object-7224 | Playful-Object-7224
Stand your ground! 🙌 NTA, uninviting them is justifiable.

Gryffindorphins | Gryffindorphins
Supportive comment suggests standing up against cheating husband and friends. 🙌

RoyallyOakie | RoyallyOakie
Commenter slams brother for supporting cheating husband at wedding 💔

formerly_valley_pete | formerly_valley_pete
Stand your ground and protect your brother's wedding day 🎉💪

Tall_Secretary6039 | Tall_Secretary6039
Stand your ground! Don't let cheaters and liars win 🙅

cancergirl-peanut65 | cancergirl-peanut65
Sibling loyalty over acquaintances' feelings! 🙌 #NTA

velverita | velverita
Set a reasonable boundary. Brother risking relationship over strangers' attendance.

photosbeersandteach | photosbeersandteach
Brother's wedding: NTA for not wanting cheaters around, makes sense.

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Choose me or the cheating husband and friends. NTA.

Spare-Article-396 | Spare-Article-396
Cheating husband and AH friends invited to wedding, NTA uninviting yourself

Historical_Alarm_889 | Historical_Alarm_889
Suggests a heartbreaking solution to attend brother's wedding. 😢

SuspiciousWeekend284 | SuspiciousWeekend284
Stand up for yourself and don't compromise on your boundaries. 🚫🙅♀️

Venetrix2 | Venetrix2
Parent shares tough love approach to sibling's wedding drama 🤷🏼

Sad_Researcher_781 | Sad_Researcher_781
Stand up for yourself and drop it. Have fun instead! 🎉

peterhala | peterhala
Savage clapback to spineless brother's cheating wedding party 🤭

harshitron | harshitron
Cheating at a wedding? Uninviting them isn't mean, it's fair 👀

procrastinating_b | procrastinating_b
Stand your ground! 🙌 It might be helpful to involve parents.

pinguthegreek | pinguthegreek
Sibling support wins! 🙌 NTA for standing up against cheaters.

CarelessCow2599 | CarelessCow2599
NTA for expecting brother to uninvite cheating husband from wedding 💍

loonygirl30 | loonygirl30
Sitting with cheating ex and liar friends at wedding? 🤔 NTA.

Downtown-Back-1418 | Downtown-Back-1418
Brother's wedding drama: commenter suspects groom knew about cheating friends. 🤔

Demonslugg | Demonslugg
Respect his wishes and skip the drama-filled wedding 🚫🤵

Jumpy_Platform4643 | Jumpy_Platform4643
Brother prioritizes seating plan over sister's comfort, NTA 🙄

AngelsAttitude | AngelsAttitude
Stand your ground and don't attend the wedding 🚫💍

NmlsFool | NmlsFool
Curious for an update! 🤔 Also, you're not the a**hole. 👍

No-Potential9392 | No-Potential9392
Sibling rivalry and loyalty in the face of cheating. 🤝

v_blondie | v_blondie
A helpful commenter asks for more info on ex's attendance.

Icy_Calligrapher7088 | Icy_Calligrapher7088
Sassy suggestion for dealing with cheating ex at wedding 💅🏼

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Supportive commenter agrees with OP's actions and questions brother's decision.

cartoonjunkie13 | cartoonjunkie13
Skip the reception and make a statement 💥

jammy913 | jammy913
Supportive comment and hope for karma, urging for update. 🙌

MrsJadeDicaprio | MrsJadeDicaprio