Man questions girlfriend's frequent doctor visits

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Is it ever okay to question your partner's health choices? One man is wondering if he overstepped after expressing concerns about his girlfriend's frequent doctor visits. Despite having several minor health issues, he feels that her reliance on medication is causing more harm than good. But when he brings up the mounting medical bills, she becomes defensive and accuses him of speaking on her behalf. Now he's left wondering if he was out of line. Read the full story to find out more.

Is she a hypochondriac? 🤔

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Is she really sick or addicted to pills? 😷💊

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Girlfriend's frequent doctor visits leading to severe allergic reaction ❗

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Confronting girlfriend about doctor visits to protect her health ❤️

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👩‍⚕️Concerned boyfriend questions girlfriend's frequent doctor visits💊

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Girlfriend defends frequent doctor visits and good health 🏥💪

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Concerned boyfriend worries about girlfriend's frequent doctor visits 🏥

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Respect your partner's autonomy, even when concerned about their health 💊

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Girlfriend disappears after doctor visit, worried boyfriend reaches out 👀

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Supportive friends defend girlfriend's health struggles ❤️

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Girlfriend avoiding him after questioning her doctor visits 🤔

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Is his concern for her health justified? 🤔

A man is worried about his girlfriend's frequent doctor visits and excessive medication. He feels that her minor health issues are causing more harm than good and that she's compromising her health. He also brings up the topic of expensive healthcare and how she plans on sustaining her lifestyle. However, his girlfriend gets upset and goes to her parents without talking to him. He reaches out to her parents to check on her, but they say that he was out of line and that she's dealing with a lot. Do you think he was out of line? Or is his concern for her health justified? Let's take a closer look at this situation and the different perspectives involved.

OP belittles girlfriend's serious health issues, called out as YTA.

benm421 | benm421

Commenter sarcastically questions qualifications, replies mock his ignorance.

scampwild | scampwild

Ignoring and dismissing women's health concerns can be deadly. YTA.

EinsTwo | EinsTwo

Expert weighs in on girlfriend's health concerns, calls out YTA.

Bhadieee123 | Bhadieee123

Questioning the seriousness of a medical condition? **YTA**

LengthinessNovel8358 | LengthinessNovel8358

OP's girlfriend has serious health issues, stop judging her. YTA 😒💊

Sweeper1985 | Sweeper1985

NTA shaming someone for their illness is unacceptable. 😡

Hefty_Candidate_4902 | Hefty_Candidate_4902

Controlling partner gaslights girlfriend with chronic illness. 💔

MissionRevolution306 | MissionRevolution306

Insensitive partner shames girlfriend's chronic illness as a "lifestyle" 🤬

Kenndrah | Kenndrah

Don't judge those with chronic illnesses. YTA, please understand 🙏


OP called girlfriend's health care a 'lifestyle' - YTA 😡

Ateosira | Ateosira

Respect your girlfriend's autonomy over her health. YTA.

evie_xoxoxo | evie_xoxoxo

Don't play doctor. Support her or leave. 🤒👩‍⚕️

One-Stranger | One-Stranger

Don't play doctor, trust her and the healthcare system 👨‍⚕️

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Commenter asks for play-by-play of conversation for context ⚡

WhatWhoWhynow | WhatWhoWhynow

Don't be an a**hole. Your girlfriend needs your support 💊

GiantPixi | GiantPixi

Sarcasm alert 🚨: Commenter questions credibility of medical advice.

BabyAlibi | BabyAlibi

Support her instead of judging her. YTA 😒❤️

Wally1997 | Wally1997

Red flag alert 🚩: Gaslighting and invalidating health concerns

the_bribonic_plague | the_bribonic_plague

Don't judge your girlfriend's medical needs. Mind your own health.

NefariousnessTiny383 | NefariousnessTiny383

Be supportive! 🤝 Don't downplay her problems. YTA.

somehowstuckinhyrule | somehowstuckinhyrule

User calls out OP for lack of empathy and medical knowledge 🤔

climateking | climateking

Commenter calls out OP's ignorance towards partner's health issues 🙄

muffintop1989 | muffintop1989

Questioning girlfriend's doctor visits: commenter calls out unacceptable behavior 💔

Both-Glove | Both-Glove

Supportive comment encourages regular doctor visits for girlfriend's serious medical issues 🏥

Full_Worldliness1480 | Full_Worldliness1480

Don't judge your girlfriend's health issues. Be supportive instead 👍

Oh_Wiseone | Oh_Wiseone

Don't undermine your partner's medical decisions. Trust and support them.

JNF919 | JNF919

Understanding and empathy are key when dealing with invisible illnesses. 🤝

Alyssa_Hargreaves | Alyssa_Hargreaves

Don't play doctor. Let her see her own doctor. 🩺

RebelScientist | RebelScientist

Don't blame her for taking care of her health 🩺💊

Spetznazx | Spetznazx

Don't play doctor👨‍⚕️ if you're not one. Listen👂 to your partner.

Charlie_Parkers_Mood | Charlie_Parkers_Mood

User challenges commenter's medical expertise with sarcasm 😏

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Frequent doctor visits: harmless or concerning? 🤔

whywasthissodamnhard | whywasthissodamnhard

Don't downplay her health issues. YTA needs a reality check. 🙄

CyberHeaux | CyberHeaux

Don't police your girlfriend's doctor visits. She's an adult. YTA 💁‍♂️

puppyfarts99 | puppyfarts99

Taking care of your health is crucial for a reason 💪

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Misogynistic doctor boyfriend dismisses girlfriend's medical needs. Relationship over. 💔

mimmz94 | mimmz94

Supporting health concerns: Don't belittle symptoms. 🏥

BookLuvr7 | BookLuvr7

Concerned boyfriend crosses line, gets upgraded to major AH

Aradene | Aradene

Don't be an a**hole, support your girlfriend's health 🩺❤️

GlidingToLife | GlidingToLife

Don't blame her for her chronic health issues, YTA 🙄

Plenty_Metal_1304 | Plenty_Metal_1304

Empathize with your girlfriend's health struggles. Don't be dismissive.

ashleydean23 | ashleydean23

Commenter calls out boyfriend for controlling behavior - Yikes! 😬

CorgiExpensive1322 | CorgiExpensive1322

Commenter mocks American healthcare, calls poster the a**hole.

Bombardium | Bombardium

Support your girlfriend and trust her knowledge of her body. YTA 😒

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Commenter labels someone as YTA - drama!

greentreepurpletree | greentreepurpletree

Think twice before doubting your partner's health issues 🤕

aerinz | aerinz

Don't make it about money. She needs your support ❤️️

MariekeXx | MariekeXx

Don't be controlling. Chronic illness requires frequent doctor visits 💊🩺

[deleted] | [deleted]

Supporting girlfriend's doctor visits is important for relationships ❤️

xChromeguardx | xChromeguardx

Insensitive boyfriend dismisses girlfriend's health concerns. YTA 🤨

No_Resolution_6337 | No_Resolution_6337