Is it ever okay to question your partner's health choices? One man is wondering if he overstepped after expressing concerns about his girlfriend's frequent doctor visits. Despite having several minor health issues, he feels that her reliance on medication is causing more harm than good. But when he brings up the mounting medical bills, she becomes defensive and accuses him of speaking on her behalf. Now he's left wondering if he was out of line. Read the full story to find out more.
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Is his concern for her health justified? 🤔
A man is worried about his girlfriend's frequent doctor visits and excessive medication. He feels that her minor health issues are causing more harm than good and that she's compromising her health. He also brings up the topic of expensive healthcare and how she plans on sustaining her lifestyle. However, his girlfriend gets upset and goes to her parents without talking to him. He reaches out to her parents to check on her, but they say that he was out of line and that she's dealing with a lot. Do you think he was out of line? Or is his concern for her health justified? Let's take a closer look at this situation and the different perspectives involved.
OP belittles girlfriend's serious health issues, called out as YTA.
benm421 | benm421
Commenter sarcastically questions qualifications, replies mock his ignorance.
scampwild | scampwild
Ignoring and dismissing women's health concerns can be deadly. YTA.
EinsTwo | EinsTwo
Expert weighs in on girlfriend's health concerns, calls out YTA.
Bhadieee123 | Bhadieee123
Questioning the seriousness of a medical condition? **YTA**
LengthinessNovel8358 | LengthinessNovel8358
OP's girlfriend has serious health issues, stop judging her. YTA 😒💊
Sweeper1985 | Sweeper1985
NTA shaming someone for their illness is unacceptable. 😡
Hefty_Candidate_4902 | Hefty_Candidate_4902
Controlling partner gaslights girlfriend with chronic illness. 💔
MissionRevolution306 | MissionRevolution306
Insensitive partner shames girlfriend's chronic illness as a "lifestyle" 🤬
Kenndrah | Kenndrah
Don't judge those with chronic illnesses. YTA, please understand 🙏
RCKJD | RCKJD
OP called girlfriend's health care a 'lifestyle' - YTA 😡
Ateosira | Ateosira
Respect your girlfriend's autonomy over her health. YTA.
evie_xoxoxo | evie_xoxoxo
Don't play doctor. Support her or leave. 🤒👩⚕️
One-Stranger | One-Stranger
Don't play doctor, trust her and the healthcare system 👨⚕️
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Commenter asks for play-by-play of conversation for context ⚡
WhatWhoWhynow | WhatWhoWhynow
Don't be an a**hole. Your girlfriend needs your support 💊
GiantPixi | GiantPixi
Sarcasm alert 🚨: Commenter questions credibility of medical advice.
BabyAlibi | BabyAlibi
Support her instead of judging her. YTA 😒❤️
Wally1997 | Wally1997
Red flag alert 🚩: Gaslighting and invalidating health concerns
the_bribonic_plague | the_bribonic_plague
Don't judge your girlfriend's medical needs. Mind your own health.
NefariousnessTiny383 | NefariousnessTiny383
Be supportive! 🤝 Don't downplay her problems. YTA.
somehowstuckinhyrule | somehowstuckinhyrule
User calls out OP for lack of empathy and medical knowledge 🤔
climateking | climateking
Commenter calls out OP's ignorance towards partner's health issues 🙄
muffintop1989 | muffintop1989
Questioning girlfriend's doctor visits: commenter calls out unacceptable behavior 💔
Both-Glove | Both-Glove
Supportive comment encourages regular doctor visits for girlfriend's serious medical issues 🏥
Full_Worldliness1480 | Full_Worldliness1480
Don't judge your girlfriend's health issues. Be supportive instead 👍
Oh_Wiseone | Oh_Wiseone
Don't undermine your partner's medical decisions. Trust and support them.
JNF919 | JNF919
Understanding and empathy are key when dealing with invisible illnesses. 🤝
Alyssa_Hargreaves | Alyssa_Hargreaves
Don't play doctor. Let her see her own doctor. 🩺
RebelScientist | RebelScientist
Don't blame her for taking care of her health 🩺💊
Spetznazx | Spetznazx
Don't play doctor👨⚕️ if you're not one. Listen👂 to your partner.
Charlie_Parkers_Mood | Charlie_Parkers_Mood
User challenges commenter's medical expertise with sarcasm 😏
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Frequent doctor visits: harmless or concerning? 🤔
whywasthissodamnhard | whywasthissodamnhard
Don't downplay her health issues. YTA needs a reality check. 🙄
CyberHeaux | CyberHeaux
Don't police your girlfriend's doctor visits. She's an adult. YTA 💁♂️
puppyfarts99 | puppyfarts99
Taking care of your health is crucial for a reason 💪
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Misogynistic doctor boyfriend dismisses girlfriend's medical needs. Relationship over. 💔
mimmz94 | mimmz94
Supporting health concerns: Don't belittle symptoms. 🏥
BookLuvr7 | BookLuvr7
Concerned boyfriend crosses line, gets upgraded to major AH
Aradene | Aradene
Don't be an a**hole, support your girlfriend's health 🩺❤️
GlidingToLife | GlidingToLife
Don't blame her for her chronic health issues, YTA 🙄
Plenty_Metal_1304 | Plenty_Metal_1304
Empathize with your girlfriend's health struggles. Don't be dismissive.
ashleydean23 | ashleydean23
Commenter calls out boyfriend for controlling behavior - Yikes! 😬
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Commenter mocks American healthcare, calls poster the a**hole.
Bombardium | Bombardium
Support your girlfriend and trust her knowledge of her body. YTA 😒
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Commenter labels someone as YTA - drama!
greentreepurpletree | greentreepurpletree
Think twice before doubting your partner's health issues 🤕
aerinz | aerinz
Don't make it about money. She needs your support ❤️️
MariekeXx | MariekeXx
Don't be controlling. Chronic illness requires frequent doctor visits 💊🩺
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Supporting girlfriend's doctor visits is important for relationships ❤️
xChromeguardx | xChromeguardx
Insensitive boyfriend dismisses girlfriend's health concerns. YTA 🤨
No_Resolution_6337 | No_Resolution_6337
