A mother leaves her boyfriend to look after her son while she attends her sister's bachelorette party. When she returns, she finds her boyfriend and his friends drinking alcohol with her son in the next room. She confronts her boyfriend, calling him useless and claiming he is lying about not drinking. He argues that he did nothing wrong, causing tension between them. Who is the a**hole in this situation? Read more to find out.
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Leaving your child with someone new is always a daunting task, especially when it's your partner and they have no experience with children. However, what happens when you come home to find your boyfriend with a bunch of drunken friends? The post discusses a mother's dilemma of leaving her 4-year-old son with her boyfriend while attending her sister's bachelorette party. Initially hesitant, the mother finally agrees to leave her son with her boyfriend, only to come back home to find him drunk with his friends. The mother is irate and confronts her boyfriend, who claims he did nothing wrong. Both parties are now angry, and the mother is seeking advice on whether she is the asshole in this situation. Read on to find out what the internet has to say about this controversial issue.
NTA. Irresponsible boyfriend ruins mother's evening with drunken friends over.
NTA, leaving a child with a drunk caregiver is a red flag 🚨
Boyfriend drank while babysitting & ignored calls. Not cool 🚩
Dump the boyfriend, keep the kid safe! 🚫👨❤️👨💥
Boyfriend's irresponsible behavior causes mother to miss important event. NTA.
Dating someone with a kid requires maturity. 🧐
Putting a child at risk for drunken friends? NTA for sure 🙅
Boyfriend's drunken friends: a dealbreaker for responsible mom 💔🚫
Trust broken. Is this relationship worth saving? 🤔
Boyfriend's irresponsibility and breach of trust puts child at risk 🤦♀️
First time babysitting gone wrong 🤦♀️
Boyfriend's drunken friends, one job, zero responsibility. NTA.
Boyfriend fails fatherly role, insults mother, endangers child. NTA.
Being a parent doesn't excuse leaving a child with drunken friends 🤦♀️
Boyfriend's irresponsible behavior puts child in danger, NTA.
Drinking around a 4-year-old: acceptable or reckless behavior? 🤔
NTA for being angry at boyfriend's unapproved drunken friends visiting.
Reconsider your relationship with this irresponsible and defensive boyfriend 🤔
Debatable if it was irresponsible. Communication is key 🔑
Find a new boyfriend for your and your child's sake 👭
Commenter defends OP as NTA, suggests communicating rules to boyfriend.
Irresponsible boyfriend throws party instead of watching child. 🤯
Debate on whether drinking at home with kids is acceptable.
Dump the lying, unresponsive boyfriend 🚮. NTA.
Calling out irresponsible babysitter for prioritizing party over child 🍻
Responsible babysitting means being sober 👍
Boyfriend's poor judgement leaves mother anxious and angry 😠
Commenter defends mother's decision and criticizes boyfriend's immaturity.
Immature boyfriend uses child as party prop. NTA.
Setting boundaries: Leaving a child with a drunk boyfriend 🍻
Growing up with alcohol in the household: normalized or not?
Boyfriend's betrayal puts child in danger, NTA for leaving.
Trust broken. Mother has every right to be angry 😠
Ditch the drunken dude, you're better off alone 🚪
Not the a**hole for what? We need more context.
Leaving a child with an irresponsible boyfriend? NTA, but risky. 😱
Mother's boyfriend endangers child, NTA for being angry.
Commenter slams boyfriend with a fiery NTA 🔥
Commenter questions why boyfriend is still in the picture 💭❓
Sassy response to ex-boyfriend accusation 👀💅
Dump him! 🚩 He endangered your child and lied to you.
Protect your child! 🚫👨❤️👨 NTA
Time to say goodbye 👋🏼🙅🏻♀️
Boyfriend endangers son, lies, and invites friends over. NTA.
Prioritizing drinking over childcare makes him useless. NTA. 👍
Boyfriend's behavior is unacceptable. Protect your son and leave him.
Dump him now to protect your son! NTA.
Communication issues in parenting, but who's the a**hole here? 🤔
Questionable judgment? 🤔 Not the a**hole, says commenter.
Mother not at fault for boyfriend's actions. NTA 👍
Mother makes responsible choice, boyfriend's behavior unacceptable 🚫🍻
🚩 Trust issues: Commenter advises against leaving child with irresponsible boyfriend.
Boyfriend offers to babysit, gets drunk with friends. NTA.
Boyfriend fails to prioritize child, NTA for wanting better 🚫🍻
Keeping commitments is important, NTA 🤝
Not the a**hole, but what happened next? 🤔
Don't make promises you can't keep 🤫
Protective response! 🦸♀️ Mother's boyfriend endangers son with drunken friends
Dump the drunk boyfriend before becoming a mother of two 🚫🍺
Boyfriend lied, broke trust, and endangered child. Reconsider the relationship. 😡
Dump the boyfriend 💔. NTA for leaving him