Mother leaves son with boyfriend, comes home to drunken friends

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A mother leaves her boyfriend to look after her son while she attends her sister's bachelorette party. When she returns, she finds her boyfriend and his friends drinking alcohol with her son in the next room. She confronts her boyfriend, calling him useless and claiming he is lying about not drinking. He argues that he did nothing wrong, causing tension between them. Who is the a**hole in this situation? Read more to find out.

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Left son with boyfriend, came home to drunken friends 🤦‍♀️

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Boyfriend lies about drinking, mother loses trust in him 🔥

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Leaving your child with someone new is always a daunting task, especially when it's your partner and they have no experience with children. However, what happens when you come home to find your boyfriend with a bunch of drunken friends? The post discusses a mother's dilemma of leaving her 4-year-old son with her boyfriend while attending her sister's bachelorette party. Initially hesitant, the mother finally agrees to leave her son with her boyfriend, only to come back home to find him drunk with his friends. The mother is irate and confronts her boyfriend, who claims he did nothing wrong. Both parties are now angry, and the mother is seeking advice on whether she is the asshole in this situation. Read on to find out what the internet has to say about this controversial issue.

NTA. Irresponsible boyfriend ruins mother's evening with drunken friends over.

mixalotl | mixalotl

NTA, leaving a child with a drunk caregiver is a red flag 🚨

Talon1021 | Talon1021

Boyfriend drank while babysitting & ignored calls. Not cool 🚩

tatasz | tatasz

Dump the boyfriend, keep the kid safe! 🚫👨‍❤️‍👨💥

HeliosOh | HeliosOh

Boyfriend's irresponsible behavior causes mother to miss important event. NTA.

iamminebr | iamminebr

Dating someone with a kid requires maturity. 🧐

BaltimoreBadger23 | BaltimoreBadger23

Putting a child at risk for drunken friends? NTA for sure 🙅

fruitfiction | fruitfiction

Boyfriend's drunken friends: a dealbreaker for responsible mom 💔🚫

meriadoc__ | meriadoc__

Trust broken. Is this relationship worth saving? 🤔

CrisisWorked | CrisisWorked

Boyfriend's irresponsibility and breach of trust puts child at risk 🤦‍♀️

TheOtter91 | TheOtter91

First time babysitting gone wrong 🤦‍♀️

PanNationalistFront | PanNationalistFront

Boyfriend's drunken friends, one job, zero responsibility. NTA.

Lia_Delphine | Lia_Delphine

Boyfriend fails fatherly role, insults mother, endangers child. NTA.

uhuhoneyville | uhuhoneyville

Being a parent doesn't excuse leaving a child with drunken friends 🤦‍♀️


Boyfriend's irresponsible behavior puts child in danger, NTA.

Few-Entrepreneur383 | Few-Entrepreneur383

Drinking around a 4-year-old: acceptable or reckless behavior? 🤔

Trowawayprincess82 | Trowawayprincess82

NTA for being angry at boyfriend's unapproved drunken friends visiting.

Perfidy_Desertion | Perfidy_Desertion

Reconsider your relationship with this irresponsible and defensive boyfriend 🤔

yellsy | yellsy

Debatable if it was irresponsible. Communication is key 🔑

OppaiUrsa | OppaiUrsa

Find a new boyfriend for your and your child's sake 👭

26pointMax | 26pointMax

Commenter defends OP as NTA, suggests communicating rules to boyfriend.

LopsidedCauliflower8 | LopsidedCauliflower8

Irresponsible boyfriend throws party instead of watching child. 🤯

Active-Compote-3198 | Active-Compote-3198

Debate on whether drinking at home with kids is acceptable.

Funholiday | Funholiday

Dump the lying, unresponsive boyfriend 🚮. NTA.

sicknessandpurgatory | sicknessandpurgatory

Calling out irresponsible babysitter for prioritizing party over child 🍻

TwoTeapotsForXmas | TwoTeapotsForXmas

Responsible babysitting means being sober 👍

TemptingPenguin369 | TemptingPenguin369

Boyfriend's poor judgement leaves mother anxious and angry 😠

Ride5000 | Ride5000

Commenter defends mother's decision and criticizes boyfriend's immaturity.

JurassicPark-fan-190 | JurassicPark-fan-190

Immature boyfriend uses child as party prop. NTA.

LucyLovesApples | LucyLovesApples

Setting boundaries: Leaving a child with a drunk boyfriend 🍻

ADHDLifer | ADHDLifer

Growing up with alcohol in the household: normalized or not?

llechug1 | llechug1

Boyfriend's betrayal puts child in danger, NTA for leaving.

Actual-Zebra-5284 | Actual-Zebra-5284

Trust broken. Mother has every right to be angry 😠

Charming-Addendum978 | Charming-Addendum978

Ditch the drunken dude, you're better off alone 🚪

Wwwweeeeeeee | Wwwweeeeeeee

Not the a**hole for what? We need more context.

comedynerd3268 | comedynerd3268

Leaving a child with an irresponsible boyfriend? NTA, but risky. 😱

ColdstreamCapple | ColdstreamCapple

Mother's boyfriend endangers child, NTA for being angry.

kkfluff | kkfluff

Commenter slams boyfriend with a fiery NTA 🔥

Nearby-Dream1 | Nearby-Dream1

Commenter questions why boyfriend is still in the picture 💭❓

Otherwise_Window | Otherwise_Window

Sassy response to ex-boyfriend accusation 👀💅

Amethyst_Dawn67 | Amethyst_Dawn67

Dump him! 🚩 He endangered your child and lied to you.

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Protect your child! 🚫👨‍❤️‍👨 NTA

mahiiin97 | mahiiin97

Time to say goodbye 👋🏼🙅🏻‍♀️

mpurdey12 | mpurdey12

Boyfriend endangers son, lies, and invites friends over. NTA.

parasitebuddy | parasitebuddy

Prioritizing drinking over childcare makes him useless. NTA. 👍

WarArmadillo | WarArmadillo

Boyfriend's behavior is unacceptable. Protect your son and leave him.

deathboy2098 | deathboy2098

Dump him now to protect your son! NTA.

TreClaire | TreClaire

Communication issues in parenting, but who's the a**hole here? 🤔

penguat | penguat

Questionable judgment? 🤔 Not the a**hole, says commenter.

MidniteProph | MidniteProph

Mother not at fault for boyfriend's actions. NTA 👍

the_bad-lawyer | the_bad-lawyer

Mother makes responsible choice, boyfriend's behavior unacceptable 🚫🍻

LetsGoVovo | LetsGoVovo

🚩 Trust issues: Commenter advises against leaving child with irresponsible boyfriend.

theresbeans | theresbeans

Boyfriend offers to babysit, gets drunk with friends. NTA.

middlefingerup13 | middlefingerup13

Boyfriend fails to prioritize child, NTA for wanting better 🚫🍻

Puzzled_Explorer5837 | Puzzled_Explorer5837

Keeping commitments is important, NTA 🤝

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Not the a**hole, but what happened next? 🤔

Zealousideal-Pen6980 | Zealousideal-Pen6980

Don't make promises you can't keep 🤫

acheesement | acheesement

Protective response! 🦸‍♀️ Mother's boyfriend endangers son with drunken friends

MageVicky | MageVicky

Dump the drunk boyfriend before becoming a mother of two 🚫🍺

girl34pp | girl34pp

Boyfriend lied, broke trust, and endangered child. Reconsider the relationship. 😡

zealous-grasschoice | zealous-grasschoice

Dump the boyfriend 💔. NTA for leaving him

Francie1966 | Francie1966