Man’s sister’s BF ‘borrows’ his expensive monitor and refuses to apologize

When a man’s expensive PC monitor goes missing, he discovers that his sister’s boyfriend ‘borrowed’ it without permission. Despite asking for an apology, the boyfriend refuses and is subsequently banned from the apartment. The man’s sister becomes upset and threatens to cut ties with him. Now, he’s wondering if he’s in the wrong. Was he right to ban the boyfriend, or should he have handled things differently? Read on to find out!

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Sister’s BF ‘borrows’ expensive monitor and refuses to apologize

Man’s sister’s BF refuses to apologize over ‘borrowed’ monitor ️

Navigating family dynamics can be tough, especially when boundaries challenged

Expensive monitor ‘borrowed’ by sister’s BF without permission

A man shares his story about how his sister’s boyfriend ‘borrowed’ his expensive OLED monitor without permission and refused to apologize. He even went as far as using it for two days while the owner was away. The man confronted him and asked for an apology, but the boyfriend refused, resulting in a ban from the apartment. The man’s sister is upset and threatening to go no contact with him once she turns 18 if he doesn’t allow her boyfriend to visit. However, the man is struggling with this decision as he doesn’t want to lose his sister, but also wants to maintain his boundaries. What would you do in his situation? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

Lock up your PC and don’t let him come over again. ️

NTA. BF’s ‘borrowing’ was theft. OP should invest in cameras and better locks.

Enforcing boundaries or overreacting? Explanation of NC included.

Trust violated, but monitor model is

NTA. Sister’s BF is entitled, but have a conversation about trust.

NTA for setting boundaries and valuing personal property. Consider repairing relationship.

NTA OP’s sister’s boyfriend ‘borrowed’ his monitor without permission and tried to use his economic status to justify his behavior, but his mom apologized for him. OP is planning to talk to his sister and her boyfriend to handle the situation.

Sister shares responsibility, OP should help enforce boundaries ❤️

Stand your ground and set boundaries. Don’t let anyone walk over you.

NTA, but the real issue is sister’s boyfriend’s lack of respect

Stand your ground and demand an apology from the monitor thief

Sister’s BF ‘borrows’ expensive monitor, NTA suggests calling authorities if issue persists

Set boundaries and secure your belongings, but be mindful of family dynamics ‍ ‍

Don’t let him get away with it! Seek help

Protect your property! ️

Setting boundaries with step-sister’s disrespectful BF, but don’t guilt trip.

Sister’s BF takes expensive monitor, commenters say NTA

Don’t borrow without asking! NTA was right to be upset

Set boundaries with sister for future health and safety of relationship

Respect the monitor, respect the owner. ️

Encouraging words for OP on setting boundaries and standing up for oneself

Stand your ground! Your sister needs to make it right.

Teaching boundaries to a child is tough but necessary.

BF takes monitor, sister defends him, commenters say NTA ️

Stand your ground and don’t let your sister manipulate you

Standing up to a monitor thief, NTA wins

Standing your ground with your sister’s BF might lead to silence

OP’s sister’s BF disrespects, NTA for standing up.

Stand your ground! It’s your property.

NTA. Sister’s BF ‘borrows’ monitor, refuses to apologize. Advice given.

Respect for personal property is non-negotiable ‍♂️

Setting boundaries with sister’s BF while holding her accountable ‍♀️

Trust broken by sis’s BF, NC threat stands. NTA

Setting boundaries as a parent, but BF won’t apologize

Stand your ground! Don’t let anyone take advantage of you.

Set boundaries with a lock and key only for you.

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself, NTA

Enforcing boundaries with family. NTA wins this round!

OP shows mercy for sister’s BF who refuses to apologize

Cutting off family over a borrowed monitor?

Sibling’s BF steals monitor, commenter suggests sister needs parenting advice

Sister’s BF ‘borrowed’ monitor, NTA wants apology. Theft or mistake?

Man justified for not wanting to apologize for sister’s BF’s theft

Raising your sibling is tough, but setting boundaries is crucial

Stand your ground Monitor thief owes apology

Trust broken: siblings’ significant others borrow and refuse apologies

Respect for each other’s property is crucial in family relationships

Setting boundaries with family is tough, but NTA handled it

Supportive comment for OP who is NTA and deserves better ❤️

NTA, entitled sister should appreciate your sacrifices and respect boundaries

Keep your monitor, lose the trash ️

Respect for personal property is important. Seeking parenting advice recommended.

Standing up for yourself and your property is important

NTA for reclaiming stolen property. Concern for sister’s relationship

Don’t let emotional blackmail rule your house

Setting boundaries and considering telling the bf’s mom

Protect your rig with locks and boundaries, not punishment

Redditor claims they’re NTA in monitor dispute

Teenagers will be teenagers ‍♂️

Teenagers, amirite? ‍♂️

You’re NTA for not involving the police. Tell his mom

Encourage sister to leave BF, suggest birth control options

Stand your ground! NTA

Redditors agree: NTA for not letting sister’s BF off the hook

Supportive comment from a fellow young adult who understands

Sibling advice: stand up for yourself and don’t enable bad behavior

Don’t let them break your boundaries. Stand your ground

Setting boundaries with sister’s BF causing relationship tension. NTA.

Stand your ground and don’t let entitled family win

Don’t enable entitled behavior, stand firm and set boundaries ‍♂️

Not the a**hole for wanting apology over stolen monitor

Lock the study door and explain the punishment to sister

Stand your ground and protect your property with a camera

Setting boundaries as a non-parent can be tough. NTA

NTA. Stand your ground and protect your belongings with evidence!