When a man's expensive PC monitor goes missing, he discovers that his sister's boyfriend 'borrowed' it without permission. Despite asking for an apology, the boyfriend refuses and is subsequently banned from the apartment. The man's sister becomes upset and threatens to cut ties with him. Now, he's wondering if he's in the wrong. Was he right to ban the boyfriend, or should he have handled things differently? Read on to find out!
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🚨Expensive monitor 'borrowed' by sister's BF without permission🚨
A man shares his story about how his sister's boyfriend 'borrowed' his expensive OLED monitor without permission and refused to apologize. He even went as far as using it for two days while the owner was away. The man confronted him and asked for an apology, but the boyfriend refused, resulting in a ban from the apartment. The man's sister is upset and threatening to go no contact with him once she turns 18 if he doesn't allow her boyfriend to visit. However, the man is struggling with this decision as he doesn't want to lose his sister, but also wants to maintain his boundaries. What would you do in his situation? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
Lock up your PC and don't let him come over again. 🚫🖥️
Shebalba64205 | Shebalba64205
NTA. BF's 'borrowing' was theft. OP should invest in cameras and better locks.
bamf1701 | bamf1701
Enforcing boundaries or overreacting? 🤔 Explanation of NC included.
Whitestaunton | Whitestaunton
Trust violated, but monitor model is 🔥
mdthomas | mdthomas
NTA. Sister's BF is entitled, but have a conversation about trust.
MissTheWire | MissTheWire
NTA for setting boundaries and valuing personal property. Consider repairing relationship.
COMCredit | COMCredit
NTA OP's sister's boyfriend 'borrowed' his monitor without permission and tried to use his economic status to justify his behavior, but his mom apologized for him. OP is planning to talk to his sister and her boyfriend to handle the situation.
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Sister shares responsibility, OP should help enforce boundaries ❤️
silly_sia | silly_sia
Stand your ground and set boundaries. Don't let anyone walk over you. 👊
Existing-Ad628 | Existing-Ad628
NTA, but the real issue is sister's boyfriend's lack of respect 😕
bluepvtstorm | bluepvtstorm
Stand your ground and demand an apology from the monitor thief 👀
justashadeaux | justashadeaux
Sister's BF 'borrows' expensive monitor, NTA suggests calling authorities if issue persists 💻
LengthAccomplished01 | LengthAccomplished01
Set boundaries and secure your belongings, but be mindful of family dynamics 👨👩👧
Jodge65 | Jodge65
Don't let him get away with it! Seek help 👀👍
erinhennley | erinhennley
Protect your property! 🚫🖥️
DrugBuffet | DrugBuffet
Setting boundaries with step-sister's disrespectful BF, but don't guilt trip.
CTDV8R | CTDV8R
Sister's BF takes expensive monitor, commenters say NTA 🙌
jobrummy | jobrummy
Don't borrow without asking! NTA was right to be upset 🤨
NUT-me-SHELL | NUT-me-SHELL
Set boundaries with sister for future health and safety of relationship 🤝
Nelik1 | Nelik1
Respect the monitor, respect the owner. 🖥️
iambunnycat | iambunnycat
Encouraging words for OP on setting boundaries and standing up for oneself 💪
lab_tech13 | lab_tech13
Stand your ground! 💪 Your sister needs to make it right.
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Teaching boundaries to a child is tough but necessary. 👍
Beginning-Pop-6615 | Beginning-Pop-6615
BF takes monitor, sister defends him, commenters say NTA 🚫🖥️
TheRododo | TheRododo
Stand your ground and don't let your sister manipulate you 👊
CraigBybee | CraigBybee
👏🏼 Standing up to a monitor thief, NTA wins 🏆
Fattdog64 | Fattdog64
Standing your ground with your sister's BF might lead to silence 😶
Icegiant- | Icegiant-
OP's sister's BF disrespects, NTA for standing up.
AccidentlyHere | AccidentlyHere
Stand your ground! It's your property. 💪
ParticularPast1707 | ParticularPast1707
NTA. Sister's BF 'borrows' monitor, refuses to apologize. Advice given.
Rov422 | Rov422
Respect for personal property is non-negotiable 🙅♂️
ParappaGotBars | ParappaGotBars
Setting boundaries with sister's BF while holding her accountable 🚫🙅♀️
TheLostMasterpiece | TheLostMasterpiece
Trust broken by sis's BF, NC threat stands. NTA 👍
BerzerkerBacon | BerzerkerBacon
Setting boundaries as a parent, but BF won't apologize 🤨
DubiousPeoplePleaser | DubiousPeoplePleaser
Stand your ground! 💪 Don't let anyone take advantage of you.
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Set boundaries with a lock 🔒 and key only for you.
dragongirl17 | dragongirl17
Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself, NTA 🙌
Orphan_Izzy | Orphan_Izzy
Enforcing boundaries with family. NTA wins this round! 🏆
AnankeOrganized | AnankeOrganized
OP shows mercy for sister's BF who refuses to apologize 🤝
GrayTintedGlasses | GrayTintedGlasses
Cutting off family over a borrowed monitor? 🤔
ofsmut | ofsmut
Sibling's BF steals monitor, commenter suggests sister needs parenting advice 🤔
Nice_Ebb5314 | Nice_Ebb5314
Sister's BF 'borrowed' monitor, NTA wants apology. Theft or mistake? 🤔
Neko_09 | Neko_09
Man justified for not wanting to apologize for sister's BF's theft 👍
tsb041978 | tsb041978
Raising your sibling is tough, but setting boundaries is crucial 🙌
runravengirl | runravengirl
Stand your ground 💪 Monitor thief owes apology 🙏
Daffy666 | Daffy666
Trust broken: siblings' significant others borrow and refuse apologies
verdebot | verdebot
Respect for each other's property is crucial in family relationships 👍
FartFace319 | FartFace319
Setting boundaries with family is tough, but NTA handled it 💪
Thick_Skin_5746 | Thick_Skin_5746
Supportive comment for OP who is NTA and deserves better ❤️
SadisticPie | SadisticPie
NTA, entitled sister should appreciate your sacrifices and respect boundaries 👏
MavisGrizzletits | MavisGrizzletits
Keep your monitor, lose the trash 🗑️
No-Satisfaction-1878 | No-Satisfaction-1878
Respect for personal property is important. Seeking parenting advice recommended.
VampireFlorin | VampireFlorin
Standing up for yourself and your property is important 💪
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NTA for reclaiming stolen property. Concern for sister's relationship 🤔
snootypooptooty | snootypooptooty
Don't let emotional blackmail rule your house 👊🏼
StarNightLynx | StarNightLynx
Setting boundaries and considering telling the bf's mom 🤔
Bulky_Mix3560 | Bulky_Mix3560
Protect your rig with locks and boundaries, not punishment 💻🔒
Zetsubyou | Zetsubyou
Redditor claims they're NTA in monitor dispute
Ok_University_8982 | Ok_University_8982
Teenagers will be teenagers 🤷♂️
Ok_Button_53 | Ok_Button_53
Teenagers, amirite? 🤷♂️
Ok_Button_53 | Ok_Button_53
You're NTA for not involving the police. Tell his mom 👀
DueTransportation127 | DueTransportation127
Encourage sister to leave BF, suggest birth control options 💊
Coco_Dirichlet | Coco_Dirichlet
Stand your ground! NTA 💪
DynkoFromTheNorth | DynkoFromTheNorth
Redditors agree: NTA for not letting sister's BF off the hook
Ayomichan | Ayomichan
Supportive comment from a fellow young adult who understands 🙌
PeakePip- | PeakePip-
Sibling advice: stand up for yourself and don't enable bad behavior 😤
Slight_Breakfast127 | Slight_Breakfast127
Don't let them break your boundaries. Stand your ground 💪
ninasimonerules | ninasimonerules
Setting boundaries with sister's BF causing relationship tension. NTA.
Jjustingraham | Jjustingraham
Stand your ground and don't let entitled family win 💪🏼
Existing-Two-2574 | Existing-Two-2574
Don't enable entitled behavior, stand firm and set boundaries 🙅♂️📚
Organic-Date-1718 | Organic-Date-1718
Not the a**hole for wanting apology over stolen monitor 👀
jarcordiegue | jarcordiegue
Lock the study door and explain the punishment to sister 💻🔒
cloud_designer | cloud_designer
Stand your ground and protect your property with a camera 📹
Mueryk | Mueryk
Setting boundaries as a non-parent can be tough. NTA 😬
Sounds_Gay_Im_In_93 | Sounds_Gay_Im_In_93
NTA. Stand your ground and protect your belongings with evidence! 🚨
BlooomQueen | BlooomQueen
