A man is seeking advice on whether he was in the wrong for gifting his brother-in-law a book on parenting for his birthday. The man's brother-in-law has a history of neglecting his parental duties and insulted the man's fathering skills, prompting him to take action. The incident caused tension at the family gathering and the man received criticism from his father. Was he justified in his actions, or did he take it too far? Read on to find out.

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Neglectful BIL receives a birthday surprise that shocks him 😲

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Birthday gift leaves BIL speechless, storms off in anger 🎁

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A man notices his BIL is lazy and neglectful towards his family, and after a particularly insensitive comment about his own ability to parent, decides to gift him a book on parenting as a birthday present. The BIL is left speechless and storms off, later demanding a public apology. Was the man in the wrong, or was his gift warranted? Read on for the comments and reactions to this controversial situation.
BIL's wife has to distract him like a toddler, NTA.

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Justified AH move? Opinions are split, but it's hilarious 😂

Darth_Hufflepuff | Darth_Hufflepuff
NTA. Exposed BIL's projection and future embarrassment as a father 😏👨👦

Katana1369 | Katana1369
Red flags raised about possible abuse in BIL's household 😟

deathbotly | deathbotly
Important warning signs of abuse in a relationship. ESH for not protecting the sister.

Ladyughsalot1 | Ladyughsalot1
Commenters call out lousy father for throwing a tantrum 😠

UrsaGeorge | UrsaGeorge
Support for OP's decision with a warning about BIL's behavior 🚨

Character-Review6307 | Character-Review6307
Engaging book recommendation for a birthday gift gone wrong 📚🎁

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Standing up to bullies: NTA shuts down rude remarks 👊

AliManny | AliManny
Commenter raises concern over neglectful father, calls for intervention ⚠️

debdnow | debdnow
Commenter advocates for sister's safety amidst husband's abusive behavior. 👍

charlotte1798 | charlotte1798
Debate over football vs soccer turns into justified assholery. 🤷♂️

20eyesinmyhead78 | 20eyesinmyhead78
Standing up for family. 🙌🏼 NTA shuts down rude BIL.

Reothebxtch | Reothebxtch
Commenter advises OP on handling toxic family dynamics 💪

XxQueenOfSwordsXx | XxQueenOfSwordsXx
Supportive comment shuts down sexist parenting practices 👍

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Urgent call to action to help family member in abusive relationship 💔

mzpljc | mzpljc
Book gift burns man prioritizing football over family. #NTA 📚⚽

TheDankerFab | TheDankerFab
Commenter calls out OP's lack of consideration and empathy

Cent1234 | Cent1234
Genius revenge gift leaves BIL speechless, NTA wins!

Heavy_Sand5228 | Heavy_Sand5228
Commenter calls out fake story with funny football reference 🏈

meloyello08 | meloyello08
Brutal honesty prevails - NTA comment section 🔥

Tradingfool0001 | Tradingfool0001
Commenter calls out bad parenting and a passive-aggressive gift 🤨

secretrebel | secretrebel
Visiting for revenge? ESH, sister's in trouble now 💔

sjsyed | sjsyed
Quiz revenge! 🤣 NTA for standing up to lazy parenting.

SeekingOpinion-an | SeekingOpinion-an
Encouraging NTA comment promotes self-improvement 👏

GlitteryCatWoman | GlitteryCatWoman
Apologize for exposing their terrible behavior 😬

TheDuraMaters | TheDuraMaters
Doubting the validity of the story 🤔

SweetFranz | SweetFranz
Gift of Failure book may not have been the best choice...💭

Cold-House7522 | Cold-House7522
Mom's got good judgment 👍

Robossassin | Robossassin
Commenter playfully calls OP an AH but supports their actions 🤣

wicked_witch | wicked_witch
Commenter finds humor in BIL's entitlement; supports OP's actions. 😂👍

PearSwindle | PearSwindle
Insulting BIL in front of everyone led to drama. ESH 😬

ricosabre | ricosabre
Calling out a hypocrite family member earns NTA judgment 👍

Heraonolympia123 | Heraonolympia123