Family eats my pies before Christmas dinner, AITA for refusing to make breakfast?

A man shares his frustration after his family eats the pies he made for dessert before he even had a chance to taste them. This isn't the first time his family has done something like this to him, and he just wanted an acknowledgement that they should have waited for him to start eating his pies. But his family refused and said they were perfectly in their rights to do so as the pies were his 'payment' for staying with them and 'eating their food'. The argument escalated quickly, and the man ended up leaving to make the Christmas bread with a friend instead. Now he's wondering if he was in the wrong and should have just made the bread himself. Was he the asshole in this situation? Read on to find out what people are saying.