A college student visiting their parents for a few weeks was invited to a neighborhood get-together, a super bowl party. However, the party turned out to have a strange vibe where all the women were cooking, cleaning, and watching all the kids while the men watched football and even the little girls were doing chores while the little boys were playing. The student started making jokes to laugh off the awkwardness but it caused drama when the children started repeating the joke. Read on to find out if the student is the asshole or not for making those jokes at a party with a really weird vibe.
Crashing a family party gone wrong

Party gone wrong, college student roasted by angry mom

Gender roles reinforced at family party, sparking controversy ⚠️

Student tries to lighten mood at family party with jokes.

Student receives backlash for body-shaming comment at family party

Jokes fall flat at family party, mom chews out son

Party faux-pas leads to mom’s unexpected wrath

When generations collide ♀️

When ‘fun party’ turns out to be a day of chores

Student rants about being tricked into babysitting and serving food

Jokes at weird family ‘party’ lead to chew out. AITA?

College student attends neighborhood ‘party’ and gets chewed out by mom
A college student’s visit to their parents’ neighborhood party takes an awkward turn when the party turns out to be a day of chores. The student cracks a few jokes to lighten the mood but ends up getting chewed out by their mom for causing drama. The student argues that they were just poking fun and that their mom invited them to a party that wasn’t a party at all. The tension between the student and their mom leaves both parties feeling upset. Read on for comments and reactions on who was in the wrong.
Commenters agree: the ‘party’ was slave labor for women and girls.
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Gender roles questioned at family ‘party’, NTA defended

Sit down with the men and enjoy the football
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Partnering with your spouse is not a new concept.

From YTA to NTA: A rollercoaster of emotions

Commenter calls out misogyny at family ‘party’, NTA.

Breaking down the ‘relief society’ mentality with humor

Commenter and replies discuss gender roles at home, NTA.

Making kids laugh = wholesome win

Standing up against sexist nonsense, even jokingly.
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Commiserating with fellow survivors of dysfunctional families.

Breaking free from cult-like family behavior. ♀️

Humorous comment wins at weird family party, some don’t agree

College student experiences culture shock after family’s move

Grandpa’s Christmas tradition prioritizes women’s rest❤️

Former smart kid relates to comment on ‘deadweight’ classmates

NTA for not wanting to work at a ‘party’.
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NTA. It’s generational difference. Your mom is TA.

Bold response to controlling mom’s ‘party’ leads to laughs

60-year-old woman defends OP’s party behavior, calls out misogyny.

Dark humor at its finest

User disagrees with OP’s approach and suggests reading material

Sassy clapback shuts down sexist comment at family party

Breaking gender roles at family gatherings

Calling out sexist behavior makes them uncomfortable

Commenter calls out messed up behavior, stands up for kids.

Agreeing with the comment, no one wants a bad party

Commenter suggests leaving the party to avoid drama.

Call out weird cult vibes and misogyny, NTA wins.

NTA comment invokes Kristen Stewart and Totinos cravings

Breaking the cycle of toxic family dynamics

Commenter shares personal story of parents’ manipulative behavior.

Rural Midwest events are miserable; commenter not the a-hole.

Guest at a party makes snide comments, gets called out YTA

This comment shows love and admiration ❤️

Empathizing with raising vocal women, but staying out of it.

Commenter sympathizes with the student’s situation but advises caution.

Guests aren’t maids or babysitters ♀️ #NotTheAsshole

Jokes to ease tension backfire, leads to family drama. ESH

Commenter supports OP’s actions and criticizes patriarchal traditions

Support for NTA comment calling out sexism at family party

College student gets support for calling out lazy men at party.

Breaking gender stereotypes at family gatherings, NTA wins!

Breaking gender stereotypes and bonding with family through skeet shooting!

Commenter defends against fat-shaming with NTA judgment

Breaking the cycle of toxic behavior.

Avoiding awkward family gatherings like a pro
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Balancing cultural differences and party norms sparks conflict ⚖️

No A-hole Here, with some sick burns on the side

Elderly man supports college student’s humor at family event

Party invitation as a maid/servant is annoying. #NTA

Misogyny at Super Bowl parties: a gross but common tradition

Empowering kids to see gender inequality at family functions

Parenting advice or harsh critique?

Feminist clapback! This comment shuts down sexist party expectations.

Loosely throwing ‘party’ around? NTA leaves early, a blessing disguise

A video link with no context…intriguing

Female commenter defends women’s contributions to society

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s weird party experience and jokes.

User calls out commenter for being rude at family gathering ⚽

Encouraging older commenter supports standing up against inappropriate behavior

Age ain’t nothing but a number ♂️

Challenging gender roles and calling out inequality at family gatherings
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Don’t insult your hosts and guests, just leave if uncomfortable
