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Did I cross the line? My friend’s gf asked me if I thought she was fat

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A man’s honesty with his friend’s girlfriend is causing some controversy. When asked if she was fat, he gave his candid opinion, prefacing it with a disclaimer that weight doesn’t define a person. However, his opinion upset the girlfriend and caused a rift in their friendship. The man is now turning to Reddit to ask if he was in the wrong for being honest. Some impartial friends are split on the issue, but what do you think? Click to read more.

Navigating body image in relationships can be tricky

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Being candid vs. being offensive: where’s the line?

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Seeking validation or self-doubt? Reddit to the rescue. ‍♂️

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Did he cross the line?

When is it okay to be honest with a friend’s partner? In a recent incident, a guy who prides himself on being candid was asked by his friend’s girlfriend if he thought she was fat. Without hesitation, he gave his honest opinion, but was it too much? Read on to find out what happened and decide for yourself. The situation has caused a rift between the friends and the girlfriend is upset. Some say he was justified in answering honestly while others think he should have kept his opinion to himself. Let’s delve into the debate and see what Redditors have to say about the matter.

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Honesty is the best policy . OP tried to be gentle but she insisted ‍♂️. NTA

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Don’t comment on people’s bodies – but she asked.

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She asked for an honest answer, OP gave her one ‍♂️

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Honesty is the best policy ‍♀️

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Honesty is the best policy? ESH but AH could have been more tactful

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Honesty isn’t always easy, but it’s better than lies

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Honesty is the best policy. NTA

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When someone asks if they look fat, they want reassurance

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Honesty is the best policy

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Commenter defends OP with a witty response

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NTA for giving an honest answer and encouraging self-confidence

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Honesty is the best policy , but not everyone can handle it.

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Is it okay to ask your boyfriend’s friend if you’re fat? ESH

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Honesty is the best policy

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Don’t judge too quickly. We don’t know the full story

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Honesty is the best policy ‍♀️ NTA

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Navigating social subtleties can be tough, but honesty is appreciated

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When you ask for honesty, be ready to hear it ‍♂️

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NTA for being honest when asked. BF needs to be honest too.

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Using “my truth” was a mistake. YTA.

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NTA for not giving in to Marta’s manipulative trap

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Responding to a tricky question about weight, NTA handled it well

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Being blunt or brutally honest can make you come off as a jerk ‍♂️

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Honesty is the best policy, even if it’s uncomfortable

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When honesty backfires

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Honesty is the best policy, even if it’s not what’s expected. ‍♀️

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Direct question, wild responses. NTA for OP’s honest answer.

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NTA. OP was honest when asked, Marta should have been prepared.

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Navigating tricky questions about body image with grace and tact

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OP is not the a-hole for not respecting immature behavior

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When honesty isn’t the best policy…

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Honesty is the best policy, but not everyone wants to hear it ‍♀️

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