A man is torn between his past and present in a difficult situation involving his ex-fiancée’s family. After she died tragically, her family forbid him from being with her and even refused to let him attend her funeral. Now, years later, they have reached out asking for his financial help with their son’s education. The man is struggling to decide whether to help them or not, as he still carries the pain of their abandonment. While the money is insignificant to him, emotionally it is a difficult decision to make. Read on to find out what he decides and if he is the a**hole for not helping them.
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A heartbreaking story of betrayal and loss. A man shares his experience of losing his girlfriend to a tragic accident and being abandoned by her family during his time of need. Despite the hurt and pain they caused him, they have now come back asking for his help. He is torn between his desire for revenge and his love for his ex-girlfriend, who he believes would want him to help her family. Join the discussion and share your thoughts on what he should do.
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