Man refuses to help ex-fiancee's family after they abandon him during her death

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A man is torn between his past and present in a difficult situation involving his ex-fiancée's family. After she died tragically, her family forbid him from being with her and even refused to let him attend her funeral. Now, years later, they have reached out asking for his financial help with their son's education. The man is struggling to decide whether to help them or not, as he still carries the pain of their abandonment. While the money is insignificant to him, emotionally it is a difficult decision to make. Read on to find out what he decides and if he is the a**hole for not helping them.

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A heartbreaking story of betrayal and loss. A man shares his experience of losing his girlfriend to a tragic accident and being abandoned by her family during his time of need. Despite the hurt and pain they caused him, they have now come back asking for his help. He is torn between his desire for revenge and his love for his ex-girlfriend, who he believes would want him to help her family. Join the discussion and share your thoughts on what he should do.

No obligation to repay money, rightfully his. Congratulations for overcoming.

SlartieB | SlartieB

NTA, MG's family abandoned you during her death. You owe them nothing.

Vivid-Rent7730 | Vivid-Rent7730

Beneficiary over family? NTA. Ivy League is generous. 🎓

MystifiedByPeople | MystifiedByPeople

10 years later, Karma's a b***h. Block them, move on! 💰💔

Short-Sense-4383 | Short-Sense-4383

Man refuses to give ex-fiancee's family life insurance money - NTA?

fuzzy_mic | fuzzy_mic

Money can't buy love or loyalty 💔

kr0mb0pulos_michael | kr0mb0pulos_michael

Heartless or justified? NTA refuses ex-fiancée's family's request.

Pleasant_Birthday_77 | Pleasant_Birthday_77

Honor MG's legacy by setting up a trust/education account for her brother 👏

Specialist_Candie_77 | Specialist_Candie_77

Abusive ex-fiancée's family wants money after forbidding him from seeing her on her deathbed. NTA.

blueberryyogurtcup | blueberryyogurtcup

Cutting toxic family ties after ex-fiancee's death. 👌

dwassell73 | dwassell73

Ex-fiancée's family blames him for her death, but NTA for not helping. 🙅

RiverSong_777 | RiverSong_777

No obligation to help strangers who abandoned you. NTA 👍

mdthomas | mdthomas

Not obligated to help ex-fiancee's family but can pay for college 💰💸

Significant-Score686 | Significant-Score686

Don't let them guilt you into helping them now 💰🙅‍♂️

Lana-Wolf | Lana-Wolf

Grieving man defends not helping ex-fiancée's family. 💔

Pristine-Farmer6241 | Pristine-Farmer6241

NTA refuses to give money and suggests being braggy for dominance 😎

NidzoKamikaza | NidzoKamikaza

Ex-fiancee's family abandons him and asks for money. NTA.

BrownieZombie1999 | BrownieZombie1999

Man seeks advice on giving money to ex-fiancee's family for little brother's tuition

throwitallaway006 | throwitallaway006

Offering helpful advice on college financial aid 💰

Kind_Pomegranate4877 | Kind_Pomegranate4877

Screw them, you're NTA. Don't feel guilty 👍

thewhiterosequeen | thewhiterosequeen

No obligation to help ex-fiancee's family after their behavior. 💰

MuppetJonBonJovi | MuppetJonBonJovi

Family abandons him during fiancee's death, now wants money: NTA

Beginning_Routine274 | Beginning_Routine274

Not the a**hole for keeping ex-fiancee's insurance money 💰

espressopowder | espressopowder

Money can't buy love or loyalty 🙇

inanotherlyfe89 | inanotherlyfe89

No compassion deserved 💰. Ex-fiancee's family abandoned him during her death

ParamedicSilent2097 | ParamedicSilent2097

Heart-wrenching story of a man's generosity and family's disrespect. 💔

thischaosiskillingme | thischaosiskillingme

Keep the money 💰 and move on. NTA.

Still_Ad8530 | Still_Ad8530

Ex-fiancee's family wants money after abandoning him during her death

Iulia_22 | Iulia_22

Condolences offered to commenter who advises man to focus on his own happiness.

Catsandstorms | Catsandstorms

Cut off during her death, now reaching out? 🤔

Crackinggood | Crackinggood

Don't blame him, they abandoned him during his fiancee's death 💔

DreamingofRlyeh | DreamingofRlyeh

Donate to charity in her name instead of giving to family 💜

ChemistryAdorable212 | ChemistryAdorable212

Ex-fiancee's family gets what they deserve according to commenter.

ZombieZookeeper | ZombieZookeeper

Refusing to help ex-fiancee's family after their betrayal. NTA 🙅‍♂️

Jstrangways | Jstrangways

Don't fund their cruelty 💰. NTA for refusing to help.

GlitterAssociation | GlitterAssociation

Don't start a pattern. NTA for not helping.

mnemonicprincess | mnemonicprincess

Creating a scholarship in ex-fiancee's name - NTA 👍

HeartpineFloors | HeartpineFloors

Donate to the school and move on. NTA 👍

Miserable_Bat3909 | Miserable_Bat3909

Cutting ties after a painful loss, NTA prevails. 🚪

DionysisA18 | DionysisA18

Dartmouth accused of scamming students? NTA for calling out.

dreamerv1 | dreamerv1

Ex-fiancée's family abandoned him during her death, NTA for refusing help.

cinekat | cinekat

It's your call, but being the bigger person can help.

MsMagma | MsMagma

Don't let guilt control you. Their anger is easier than acceptance 😔

EmpressJainaSolo | EmpressJainaSolo

Deciding whether to help your ex-fiancee's family after her death 💔

PastaQueen25 | PastaQueen25

Don't let her family guilt trip you. You're not obligated. 💪

louiexxlv | louiexxlv

Family abandons man during ex-fiancee's death, refuses to pay education

TranscendantSandwich | TranscendantSandwich

No obligation to help ex-fiancee's family. An anonymous scholarship suggestion 🎓.

idkthisisnotmyusual | idkthisisnotmyusual

Ex-fiancee's family abandons him during her death, he refuses to help. NTA

Disastrous-Nail8885 | Disastrous-Nail8885

Don't let guilt dictate your actions, choose what's best for you 👍

GloomyComfort | GloomyComfort

Late fiancée chose him as beneficiary, not her family. NTA 👍

Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113

Man refuses to help ex-fiancee's family after they abandon him during her death. NTA commenter suggests a distant relationship with her brother and setting up a scholarship with certain qualifications. 👍

cathline | cathline

Ex-fiancée's family asks for money 10 years later, NTA for refusing 👍

concernedreader1982 | concernedreader1982

Don't let them emotionally blackmail you. Live your life 🙏

weeblewobblers | weeblewobblers

Entitled ex-fiancee's family blames him for her death, doesn't deserve help 💰

Lonely_Shelter_4744 | Lonely_Shelter_4744

🤔 Questioning the need for money at Ivy League schools

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Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries 💪

BusyBFromTheEast | BusyBFromTheEast

Heartbreaking betrayal by ex-fiancée's family. NTA, don't give in. 💔

Kafkaesqueontheshore | Kafkaesqueontheshore

Entitled ex's family gets what they deserve, NTA prevails 👏

a-_rose | a-_rose

Honoring a gift from the deceased ex-fiancee. Not the a**hole.

underwhelmedcactus | underwhelmedcactus

Man refuses to give money to ex-fiancee's family for college 🎓

Jethrothemutant | Jethrothemutant

Respecting his late fiancee's wishes, he's NTA for moving on 💔

lyan-cat | lyan-cat

Don't give them cash, set up a trust or pay tuition directly 💰

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