A man is torn between his past and present in a difficult situation involving his ex-fiancée's family. After she died tragically, her family forbid him from being with her and even refused to let him attend her funeral. Now, years later, they have reached out asking for his financial help with their son's education. The man is struggling to decide whether to help them or not, as he still carries the pain of their abandonment. While the money is insignificant to him, emotionally it is a difficult decision to make. Read on to find out what he decides and if he is the a**hole for not helping them.
Man refuses to help ex-fiancee's family after they abandon him during her death
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A heartbreaking story of betrayal and loss. A man shares his experience of losing his girlfriend to a tragic accident and being abandoned by her family during his time of need. Despite the hurt and pain they caused him, they have now come back asking for his help. He is torn between his desire for revenge and his love for his ex-girlfriend, who he believes would want him to help her family. Join the discussion and share your thoughts on what he should do.
No obligation to repay money, rightfully his. Congratulations for overcoming.
SlartieB | SlartieB
NTA, MG's family abandoned you during her death. You owe them nothing.
Vivid-Rent7730 | Vivid-Rent7730
Beneficiary over family? NTA. Ivy League is generous. 🎓
MystifiedByPeople | MystifiedByPeople
10 years later, Karma's a b***h. Block them, move on! 💰💔
Short-Sense-4383 | Short-Sense-4383
Man refuses to give ex-fiancee's family life insurance money - NTA?
fuzzy_mic | fuzzy_mic
Money can't buy love or loyalty 💔
kr0mb0pulos_michael | kr0mb0pulos_michael
Heartless or justified? NTA refuses ex-fiancée's family's request.
Pleasant_Birthday_77 | Pleasant_Birthday_77
Honor MG's legacy by setting up a trust/education account for her brother 👏
Specialist_Candie_77 | Specialist_Candie_77
Abusive ex-fiancée's family wants money after forbidding him from seeing her on her deathbed. NTA.
blueberryyogurtcup | blueberryyogurtcup
Cutting toxic family ties after ex-fiancee's death. 👌
dwassell73 | dwassell73
Ex-fiancée's family blames him for her death, but NTA for not helping. 🙅
RiverSong_777 | RiverSong_777
No obligation to help strangers who abandoned you. NTA 👍
mdthomas | mdthomas
Not obligated to help ex-fiancee's family but can pay for college 💰💸
Significant-Score686 | Significant-Score686
Don't let them guilt you into helping them now 💰🙅♂️
Lana-Wolf | Lana-Wolf
Grieving man defends not helping ex-fiancée's family. 💔
Pristine-Farmer6241 | Pristine-Farmer6241
NTA refuses to give money and suggests being braggy for dominance 😎
NidzoKamikaza | NidzoKamikaza
Ex-fiancee's family abandons him and asks for money. NTA.
BrownieZombie1999 | BrownieZombie1999
Man seeks advice on giving money to ex-fiancee's family for little brother's tuition
throwitallaway006 | throwitallaway006
Offering helpful advice on college financial aid 💰
Kind_Pomegranate4877 | Kind_Pomegranate4877
Screw them, you're NTA. Don't feel guilty 👍
thewhiterosequeen | thewhiterosequeen
No obligation to help ex-fiancee's family after their behavior. 💰
MuppetJonBonJovi | MuppetJonBonJovi
Family abandons him during fiancee's death, now wants money: NTA
Beginning_Routine274 | Beginning_Routine274
Not the a**hole for keeping ex-fiancee's insurance money 💰
espressopowder | espressopowder
Money can't buy love or loyalty 🙇
inanotherlyfe89 | inanotherlyfe89
No compassion deserved 💰. Ex-fiancee's family abandoned him during her death
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Heart-wrenching story of a man's generosity and family's disrespect. 💔
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Keep the money 💰 and move on. NTA.
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Ex-fiancee's family wants money after abandoning him during her death
Iulia_22 | Iulia_22
Condolences offered to commenter who advises man to focus on his own happiness.
Catsandstorms | Catsandstorms
Cut off during her death, now reaching out? 🤔
Crackinggood | Crackinggood
Don't blame him, they abandoned him during his fiancee's death 💔
DreamingofRlyeh | DreamingofRlyeh
Donate to charity in her name instead of giving to family 💜
ChemistryAdorable212 | ChemistryAdorable212
Ex-fiancee's family gets what they deserve according to commenter.
ZombieZookeeper | ZombieZookeeper
Refusing to help ex-fiancee's family after their betrayal. NTA 🙅♂️
Jstrangways | Jstrangways
Don't fund their cruelty 💰. NTA for refusing to help.
GlitterAssociation | GlitterAssociation
Don't start a pattern. NTA for not helping.
mnemonicprincess | mnemonicprincess
Creating a scholarship in ex-fiancee's name - NTA 👍
HeartpineFloors | HeartpineFloors
Donate to the school and move on. NTA 👍
Miserable_Bat3909 | Miserable_Bat3909
Cutting ties after a painful loss, NTA prevails. 🚪
DionysisA18 | DionysisA18
Dartmouth accused of scamming students? NTA for calling out.
dreamerv1 | dreamerv1
Ex-fiancée's family abandoned him during her death, NTA for refusing help.
cinekat | cinekat
It's your call, but being the bigger person can help.
MsMagma | MsMagma
Don't let guilt control you. Their anger is easier than acceptance 😔
EmpressJainaSolo | EmpressJainaSolo
Deciding whether to help your ex-fiancee's family after her death 💔
PastaQueen25 | PastaQueen25
Don't let her family guilt trip you. You're not obligated. 💪
louiexxlv | louiexxlv
Family abandons man during ex-fiancee's death, refuses to pay education
TranscendantSandwich | TranscendantSandwich
No obligation to help ex-fiancee's family. An anonymous scholarship suggestion 🎓.
idkthisisnotmyusual | idkthisisnotmyusual
Ex-fiancee's family abandons him during her death, he refuses to help. NTA
Disastrous-Nail8885 | Disastrous-Nail8885
Don't let guilt dictate your actions, choose what's best for you 👍
GloomyComfort | GloomyComfort
Late fiancée chose him as beneficiary, not her family. NTA 👍
Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113
Man refuses to help ex-fiancee's family after they abandon him during her death. NTA commenter suggests a distant relationship with her brother and setting up a scholarship with certain qualifications. 👍
cathline | cathline
Ex-fiancée's family asks for money 10 years later, NTA for refusing 👍
concernedreader1982 | concernedreader1982
Don't let them emotionally blackmail you. Live your life 🙏
weeblewobblers | weeblewobblers
Entitled ex-fiancee's family blames him for her death, doesn't deserve help 💰
Lonely_Shelter_4744 | Lonely_Shelter_4744
🤔 Questioning the need for money at Ivy League schools
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Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries 💪
BusyBFromTheEast | BusyBFromTheEast
Heartbreaking betrayal by ex-fiancée's family. NTA, don't give in. 💔
Kafkaesqueontheshore | Kafkaesqueontheshore
Entitled ex's family gets what they deserve, NTA prevails 👏
a-_rose | a-_rose
Honoring a gift from the deceased ex-fiancee. Not the a**hole.
underwhelmedcactus | underwhelmedcactus
Man refuses to give money to ex-fiancee's family for college 🎓
Jethrothemutant | Jethrothemutant
Respecting his late fiancee's wishes, he's NTA for moving on 💔
lyan-cat | lyan-cat
Don't give them cash, set up a trust or pay tuition directly 💰
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