Teen Saves Money for Trip With Dad, but When He Invites Stepdaughter, She Spends the Money Instead

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A 17-year-old girl saved up money for a special trip with her dad to a haunted house event, but when he wanted to include his stepdaughter, she expressed her desire to keep it just the two of them. However, her dad went back on his word and invited his stepdaughter anyways, causing the girl to spend the money on herself. This decision upset her dad, his wife, and the stepdaughter. The girl is now wondering if she was in the wrong for not wanting to include his stepdaughter and for spending the money on herself. What do you think? Was she the a**hole in this situation or not? Read more to find out.

Teen's Halloween trip with dad ruined by stepdaughter's greed 🤑

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Teen's savings for bonding trip with dad ruined by stepdaughter.

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Teen yearns for quality time with dad, but stepdaughter intervenes 🤦

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Dad's promise broken, stepdaughter spends teen's saved money 😔

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Teen's trip savings spent by step-sister: childish response or justified?

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Stepdaughter ruins trip, dad cancels quality time with son 💔

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Stepdaughter's cruel remark about leaving home while ruining trip.

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Dad prioritizes stepdaughter over son's hard-earned trip savings 😔

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Stepdaughter ruins father-son trip, AITA for being upset? 😞

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Teen saves money for trip with dad, but it doesn't go as planned 👨‍👧‍👧

A teenager saves up enough money to go on a trip with her father, but when her step-sister is invited along, tensions rise. Despite expressing her desire for it to be a bonding trip for just her and her father, her step-sister is included. In response, the teenager decides to spend the money she saved on herself instead, causing hurt feelings all around. Was the teenager in the wrong for reacting this way or was her desire for one-on-one time with her dad justified? Read on for reactions and comments.

NTA for not wanting to spend your hard-earned money on stepsister

TeenagerFrmMars | TeenagerFrmMars

Importance of one-on-one time with parents in blended families. Dad's reaction is AH.

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Daughter saves up for trip with dad, but stepdaughter ruins plans.

Nordic_Nights | Nordic_Nights

Dad invites stepdaughter on trip, spends teen's savings. Commenters call out dad's poor behavior.

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Teen saves money for quality time, but dad invites stepdaughter instead 💔

Primary-Criticism929 | Primary-Criticism929

Navigating blended families can be tough. Dad should prioritize quality time.

Lt-shorts | Lt-shorts

Father invites stepdaughter on exclusive trip, spends son's savings instead. NTA

worryaboutYOUhoe | worryaboutYOUhoe

OP's dad didn't respect their wishes and lost their trust. NTA 👍

Sheisty_Lawyer | Sheisty_Lawyer

Father's forceful inclusion of stepdaughter ruined planned father-daughter time.

RabbitOfCaerbonnog | RabbitOfCaerbonnog

OP's dad invites stepdaughter on trip with money saved for OP.

justchillinghbu87 | justchillinghbu87

Teen wants one-on-one time with dad, stepfamily ruins plans 😔

StHeather | StHeather

Teen works hard to save for trip, but dad invites stepdaughter?

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NTA, the dad shouldn't expect a minor to pay for a family trip 🤨

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Dad invites stepdaughter on trip meant for just him and son. Commenter says NTA for feeling excluded.

DumbDumbProductions | DumbDumbProductions

Teen saves money for special trip with dad, but stepdaughter comes first

Past-Ad3676 | Past-Ad3676

NTA saves for trip with dad, but stepdaughter ruins plans 🤦‍♂️

Ok_Ganache_8761 | Ok_Ganache_8761

Prioritizing individual time with kids is important ❤️

endlessotter | endlessotter

You saved for a trip with dad, but he invited stepdaughter?

PennyyPickle | PennyyPickle

Father invites stepdaughter on trip, spends son's savings instead. NTA.

ForwardPlenty | ForwardPlenty

Stepdaughter spends teen's trip money, dad not hearing him. NTA 💸

KindheartednessNo54 | KindheartednessNo54

Stepdaughter ruins father-son trip, dad expects OP to pay. NTA.

kaIeidoscope-eyes | kaIeidoscope-eyes

Choosing a stepchild over your son? Not a good move 👎

FatAmyCheeks | FatAmyCheeks

Respecting boundaries in blended families is crucial 🙏

Rtarara | Rtarara

Father's new family ruins daughter's special trip, commenters side with her ❤️

Trick_Few | Trick_Few

Stepdaughter invited, teen's saved money spent, NTA, unfair expectations. 🤔

ChinaCatSunflower9 | ChinaCatSunflower9

Family vacation plans ruined by stepdaughter, NTA stands firm

BarAlone4092 | BarAlone4092

Supportive comment highlights tough family dynamics, ignore stepdaughter's mom.

toss_it_mites | toss_it_mites

Heartbreaking comment about a father's poor choices 💔

Kitsumekat | Kitsumekat

Commenter sympathizes with OP's situation in a sucky moment 😔

Ancient-Regular4007 | Ancient-Regular4007

Dad's stepdaughter ruins son's trip fund. NTA stands up.

kari1771 | kari1771

Heartfelt comment about missing time with dad and stepfamily issues.

polly6119 | polly6119

Stepdaughter ruins trip with dad, OP stands their ground. NTA 👏

anyone_else_confused | anyone_else_confused

Bonding with parents shouldn't be a competition 😔

scarwoes | scarwoes

Your money, your choice 👍 Spend it wisely!

arrouk | arrouk

Teen saves for dad trip, but stepdaughter invited and money spent.

Cocoasneeze | Cocoasneeze

Deserves quality time with dad, not stepdaughter. Unfair to pay.

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Quality one-on-one time with parents is important for all children ❤️

TonnieSue | TonnieSue

Father spends son's savings on stepdaughter, despite agreement. NTA.

Aqua-Regis | Aqua-Regis

Heartfelt support for a hurt son. 💖

ChaosNHamHam | ChaosNHamHam

Curious about the purpose of the saved money 🤔

dina_NP2020 | dina_NP2020

Stepdaughter gets solo time, but OP doesn't? 🤔

BlargAttack | BlargAttack

Heartbreaking experience of a daughter with divorced parents and step siblings 💔

lxvesickreality | lxvesickreality

Heartwarming support from Redditor to OP, who was neglected. ❤️

Minitha | Minitha

Teen saves money for trip, dad invites stepdaughter, blames teen. NTA.

anathema_deviced | anathema_deviced

Supportive commenters validate OP's feelings about mistreatment by father.

Lo_tessa | Lo_tessa

Bringing a stepchild along ruins father-son trip 😢

prunepizza | prunepizza

Stepdaughter spends teen's savings meant for trip with dad. NTA.

RubberDucky9099 | RubberDucky9099

Father invites stepdaughter on trip son saved up for 🤦‍♂️

Wintermute2448b | Wintermute2448b

Mature teen saves money for dad trip, step-sis spends it instead 👎

angel2hi | angel2hi

Every child needs one-to-one time with parents. #NTA 🙌

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Father prioritizes stepdaughter over his own daughter's trip savings 😔

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Father manipulates son into inviting stepsister, blames son for outcome 😔

Dangerfyeld | Dangerfyeld

Setting boundaries in relationships is important. Stick to them 🙅‍♀️

merme | merme

Boundaries crossed: Stepdaughter ruins father-daughter bonding trip. #NTA 👎

Summoning-Freaks | Summoning-Freaks

Stepdaughter ruins father-son trip, dad takes the credit. 🤔

NodakCollector | NodakCollector

Commenter slams dad and stepdaughter for rude behavior 💸👎

lovebeinganasshole | lovebeinganasshole

Stepdaughter spends teen's trip savings. NTA gets revenge.

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Validating the need for one-on-one time with family ❤️

DramaticCode02 | DramaticCode02

Stepdaughter's inclusion jeopardizes trip funds. NTA comment receives support.

RobActionTributeBand | RobActionTributeBand

Step-sister's inclusion meant less money saved for trip 🤔

Numerous_Engineer_21 | Numerous_Engineer_21

Stepdaughter invited on trip, but not asked to contribute? NTA.

feanaro_finwion | feanaro_finwion