A mother is at odds with her husband about their son's physical affection. The son shows more physical affection to the mother than the father. The mother believes the father's lack of physical affection is why the son doesn't show him the same. On the other hand, the father believes that the mother should force their son to show him physical affection. The mother refused, saying their son could choose who he is physically affectionate with. The father vented to his mom and sister, who both took his side. Who is in the right? Read on to find out.
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A mother's affectionate behavior towards her son has made him more affectionate towards her than his father. The father, who is not very touchy-feely, feels left out and has asked his wife to force their son to show him physical affection. The mother refuses, stating that their son has the right to choose who he is physically affectionate with. The father has vented to his family members, who have taken his side. Reddit users are asked to weigh in on this parenting dilemma. Is the mother wrong for not forcing their son to be physically affectionate with his father, or is the father wrong for trying to force physical affection? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.
jennyislander | jennyislander
Forced affection causes resentment in kids. NTA for husband.
Krazysnakelady | Krazysnakelady
Encouraging bodily autonomy in kids is important. NTA. 🙌
kaj2113 | kaj2113
Respect your child's bodily autonomy ❤️
Julie1412 | Julie1412
Forcing physical contact with a child is always wrong 👎🏻
Mirianda666 | Mirianda666
Being physically affectionate is not the only way to show love ❤️
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Father needs to reflect on his role in son's life 🤔
Impossible_Twist1587 | Impossible_Twist1587
Encourage affection, not entitlement. 😘
foofoofoofooood | foofoofoofooood
Husband jealous of son's affection towards wife. NTA.
Mammoth_Phase5478 | Mammoth_Phase5478
Respect your child's boundaries to avoid unhealthy people-pleasing tendencies 🙏
swoon30 | swoon30
Encouraging hugs can't replace genuine affection 💜
f1shandwhistle | f1shandwhistle
Encouraging a father to build a better relationship with his son ❤️
Kay_Elle | Kay_Elle
Respect children's boundaries. NTA. 👍
QAB1974 | QAB1974
Teaching your son consent is important in all relationships 👍
fiveoclockmocktail | fiveoclockmocktail
Encourage husband's affection, don't force son's.👨👦
pinelogr | pinelogr
Building a relationship with your child takes time and effort 🙌
favfallvegetable | favfallvegetable
Respect your child's boundaries and have a conversation with spouse 😊
MoodyRudyL | MoodyRudyL
Father wants son to show physical affection against his will 😠
Garden_gnome1609 | Garden_gnome1609
Understanding the importance of physical affection in parenting ❤️
EntlikeBeing | EntlikeBeing
NTA for not forcing son to show affection towards husband.
Miserable_Dinner_698 | Miserable_Dinner_698
Teach your kids love by showing them love 💕
GoodQueenFluffenChop | GoodQueenFluffenChop
Backwards logic alert! Trying to force affection never works 😒
DudeBroMan98 | DudeBroMan98
Teaching body autonomy and consent to children is crucial 👍
FearlessWillow9069 | FearlessWillow9069
Dad's jealousy is affecting his relationship with his son ❤️
The_unknown_df | The_unknown_df
Forced affection can breed resentment and discomfort for children 🙁
missxlita | missxlita
A dad's struggle for affection from his son explained. ❤️
kar98kforccw | kar98kforccw
Forcing physical affection can lead to consent issues. #NTA
danielkratos219 | danielkratos219
Let the baby lead the way 👶
BKMarie__ | BKMarie__
Different forms of affection, NTA comment defends loving father.
Chuusouul | Chuusouul
Respect your child's boundaries on physical affection. NTA.
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Forced affection is not affection. NTA stance supported.
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Encouraging comment on respecting child's boundaries and love language ❤️
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Kids seek comfort from mom when sick, not a**hole behavior.
Busymomintx | Busymomintx
Encouraging healthy father-son relationship without forcing affection ❤️
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Respecting a child's autonomy is crucial ❤️ NTA
mama_llama44 | mama_llama44
Respectful response defends freedom of affection 🤝
Happy-Investment | Happy-Investment
Encouraging healthy communication and boundaries with child 🧸
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Encouraging reciprocity for affectionate parent-child relationship 💕
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Mom defends husband against accusations of unaffectionate behavior
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Solving family disputes can be tough, but therapy can help 🤝
Bobdmapel | Bobdmapel
Encourage growth, not blame. 🌱
TrixLots | TrixLots
Respect your child's boundaries for healthy relationships later on.
DaisyBellBaby | DaisyBellBaby
Can love be forced? 🤔
Squinky75 | Squinky75
Encouraging response to dad struggling with son's affection at 6 🤗
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