Nurse Walks Out Of Celebratory Dinner After Boyfriend Belittles Her Patient's Death

Alfe Mercado
Nurse on duty
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Sometimes a single comment can ruin an entire night. A nurse, who had just lost one of her patients, went out to celebrate her boyfriend's promotion with their mutual friends. However, things turned sour when her boyfriend commented insensitively about her patient. She was hurt and embarrassed, so she decided to leave. Her boyfriend accused her of ruining his big night and called her selfish. Ultimately, she kicked him out of her house and blocked his number. Was she overreacting, or was her reaction justified? Read on to find out what others think and share your opinion.

Pediatric nurse walks out of dinner after boyfriend belittles job

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Exciting promotion leads to disastrous celebratory dinner with boyfriend.

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Nurse sacrifices rest for patients, boyfriend doesn't appreciate her dedication.

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Heartbroken nurse loses patient she cared for since birth 😔

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Nurse recounts insensitive boyfriend insisting on celebratory dinner post tragic event

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Nurse's boyfriend belittles her patient's death at dinner 😠

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Nurse humiliated at dinner after patient's death - heartbreaking 💔

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Nurse stands up for her patient and leaves belittling boyfriend 🙅

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Nurse stands up to abusive boyfriend, changes locks 🔒

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Nurse walks out of dinner after boyfriend insults her profession.

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Friend thinks nurse overreacted to boyfriend's insensitive comment 💔

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Nurse stands up for profession, leaves dinner after partner's disrespect.

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Heartwarming community support for nurse who left abusive boyfriend ❤️

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Nurse shares heartbreaking experience; grateful for online support ❤️

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Internet strangers show more empathy than my own boyfriend 😔

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Mystery of the forgotten wallet at an expensive dinner

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Celebrating a**hole-free life with mimosas and good vibes 🥰

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Nurse walks out of celebratory dinner after boyfriend belittles her patient's death 😡

A nurse lost a patient and was devastated but still agreed to go out for a celebratory dinner with her boyfriend and friends. However, her boyfriend made a callous remark about her patient's death in front of everyone, which made her furious and embarrassed. She left the dinner, later packed her boyfriend's stuff, and changed the locks, leading to a big fight. Was she overreacting, or did her boyfriend cross a line? Read on for the reactions and opinions of internet strangers who have shown her more compassion and empathy than her partner.

NTA. Commenter's boyfriend belittles her patient's death. Commenters and replies show support for her and condemn his behavior as callous and selfish. Dodged a bullet.

StAlvis | StAlvis

Lack of empathy is a serious red flag. Good for you for maintaining your personal ethics and boundaries. 💪

2dogslife | 2dogslife

OP is praised for standing up for herself and being a role model. Ex-boyfriend's lack of empathy and blaming her shows that the trash took itself out. 👏

Gorilla_girl17 | Gorilla_girl17

Nurse's unsupportive boyfriend expects her to pay for dinner 💰

Ahemera | Ahemera

Empathy is a must-have trait for partners. Good riddance, Kyle! ❤️

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Nurse stands up to boyfriend's lack of compassion. 🙌

Hi_Im_Dadbot | Hi_Im_Dadbot

Red flags all over the place 🚩🚩🚩 Run away from him

glitterycloudcrown | glitterycloudcrown

Commenters share their thoughts on digital payments and support OP's decision

shestammie | shestammie

Commenter suggests dumping boyfriend, points out red flags 🚩

Miserable-Narwhal-53 | Miserable-Narwhal-53

Supportive comments from fellow nurses and condolences for a lost baby.

prison_industrial_co | prison_industrial_co

Heartwarming comment from a grateful mother, NTA for nurse.

wilsoj26 | wilsoj26

Boyfriend's lack of empathy ruins celebratory dinner for nurse. 💔

vglyog | vglyog

Boyfriend belittles patient's death, NTA walks out of dinner 💔

Osherono | Osherono

Supportive comment section with no shortage of high-fives 🙌

IndependentFormal705 | IndependentFormal705

Empathy wins. NTA for leaving the dinner. 😢

aundralyn | aundralyn

Celebrating nurses who know their worth! 🙌🏥❤️

Crick3tt3 | Crick3tt3

Boyfriend's true intentions revealed, NTA made the right call 👏

dourdan | dourdan

🚩 Red flag spotted! NTA for ending toxic relationship. 👏

KaleidoscopeNew2254 | KaleidoscopeNew2254

NTA. Immature boyfriend belittles nurse's patient loss at dinner 🤦‍♂️

mandirahman | mandirahman

Boyfriend belittles her job and patient's death, NTA for leaving 💔

Sweettart2017 | Sweettart2017

Stand up for yourself and your patients, not toxic partners. 💪

needtoknowbasis92 | needtoknowbasis92

Boyfriend prioritizes questions from friends over grieving girlfriend's needs 😒

FoolMe1nceShameOnU | FoolMe1nceShameOnU

Commenter calls out boyfriend's ulterior motives, receives support.

Disastrous_Ad_8561 | Disastrous_Ad_8561

Lack of empathy in partners is a red flag 🚩

TraditionalAd7252 | TraditionalAd7252

Medical professionals share understanding of unexpected shifts and support needed.

winniebooboo11 | winniebooboo11

NTA. Boyfriend belittles patient death, friends made it worse. 😒

Angieks21 | Angieks21

Block, block, block! You dodged a bullet 💥🙅‍♀️

Administrative-Way60 | Administrative-Way60

Losing a patient is hard enough, paying for everyone's meal? 🤨 NTA

Mixtrix_of_delicioux | Mixtrix_of_delicioux

Supportive commenters agree NTA, boyfriend belittles nurse's patient's death 💔

Only_Ebb6618 | Only_Ebb6618

Deserves better than a man-child who can't pay for dinner 😒

ImCold555 | ImCold555

A nurse's courage is unmatched, but her boyfriend's true colors show 🤬

NoreastNorwest | NoreastNorwest

Insensitive boyfriend guilt-trips nurse to dinner and belittles patient's death 😠

GuacwardSilence | GuacwardSilence

NTA. Dump the boyfriend and find better friends. 🚫💔👫

codeverity | codeverity

Bad boyfriend lacks empathy. Nursing is essential and meaningful work.

RoyallyOakie | RoyallyOakie

Nurse walks out of dinner after boyfriend belittles her patient's death 💔

HolyUnicornBatman | HolyUnicornBatman

Heartbreaking loss, but graceful response. #NTA

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Developing "thick skin" after losing patients is crucial in healthcare 💪

Pharmacienne123 | Pharmacienne123

Supportive commenters agree: NTA, dump the a**hole boyfriend 💔

hope910801 | hope910801

Dumped the boyfriend for belittling her patient's death. NTA 👏

mloftalva | mloftalva

Dump the ex, keep saving lives 💊

tkdwarriorprincess | tkdwarriorprincess

Glad she got rid of him! 🙌🏽

PaintedLady5519 | PaintedLady5519

Self-centered boyfriend belittles nurse's patient's death. 🤦‍♂️

bellsbliss | bellsbliss

Nurse's boyfriend belittles patient's death, gets embarrassed when asked to pay 💔

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Supportive commenters rally around nurse who stood up to AH 👏🏼

FunDare7325 | FunDare7325

Concerns raised about lack of COVID precautions at restaurants 🤔

BloodymaryHB | BloodymaryHB

Tiktok user advises on toxic boyfriend and friend behavior 👀

Lamestyle22 | Lamestyle22

Commenter sympathizes with nurse, questions common courtesy of bringing wallet.

AhoraNoMeCachan | AhoraNoMeCachan

Empowering response to nurse who stood up against abuse 👏

danger-spouse | danger-spouse

Dump him! 🚫 Your job and patients come first. 👩‍⚕️

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Believe him when he shows you who he is 🙅‍♀️

Volcheka | Volcheka

Dump the a**hole, you deserve someone who values your work ❤️

spaceyjaycey | spaceyjaycey

Empathy is key in caregiving. NTA for walking out.

CapsFan1066 | CapsFan1066

NTA. Dump him. You deserve a partner who values your work.

super-secret-fujoshi | super-secret-fujoshi

Validating response to nurse's decision to leave toxic relationship.

diroxen | diroxen

Find someone who understands the emotional toll of your job 💔

NurseHugo | NurseHugo

Clear and concise. You're not the a**hole 👍

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