Bridezilla Demands Impossible Cake for Wedding, I Refuse and She Goes Ballistic

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A baker has found themselves in a sticky situation after a friend asked them to make 8 cakes for her wedding. They agreed to make one-tier cakes to be used as centerpieces, but the bride later changed her mind and demanded three-tier cakes with intricate decorations. The baker politely declined and offered a compromise, but the bride got angry and accused the baker of sabotaging her big day. After more drama, the baker rescinded their offer and the situation escalated even further. Now the baker is wondering if they were in the wrong. Read on to find out what happened and who's the a**hole in this story.

Bridezilla demands impossible cake, chaos ensues during wedding planning 💍

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Baker's excitement turns sour as bridezilla demands impossible cake designs 🎂

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Bridezilla demands impossible cake, leaving baker in a tight spot.

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Baker offers alternatives but bridezilla still throws a fit 😒

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Bridezilla demands impossible cake and throws tantrum when refused 💁‍♀️

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Bridezilla demands cake, then chews out baker for declining 😠

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Bridezilla goes ballistic over cake, but who's really hurting here?

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Groom-to-be stands up to demanding bridezilla with ultimatum 💍

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Friend demands impossible cake, harasses me. Feeling guilty. 😔

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Seeking validation after Bridezilla meltdown, am I the a**hole?

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Redditors unite to support baker after bridezilla's tantrum 🎂

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Bridezilla's tantrum leads to OP seeking therapy during lockdown.

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Avoiding Bridezilla with friend discounts? Smart idea! 🤑

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A justified defense for contacting the groom about the cake.

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Bridezilla threatens baker, police involvement possible. 🚨

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Grateful bride thanks community for support amidst wedding drama. 🙏

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Bride demands impossible cake, I refuse, she goes ballistic 🎂😡

A bride has demanded a friend make three-tier cakes for her wedding, despite the friend's limited baking experience. When the friend politely declined and offered a compromise, the bride lashed out and even enlisted friends to send rude messages. The friend ultimately withdrew from making the cakes, leading to further harassment from the bride and her associates. After the friend contacted the groom, he revealed that this behavior was not out of character for the bride and he was considering calling off the wedding. The friend has since cut ties with the bride and her friends but is still struggling with feelings of guilt. What do you think - was the friend being selfish or was the bride being unreasonable?

Bridezilla demands impossible cake, friend refuses, gets harassed. NTA.

Dszquphsbnt | Dszquphsbnt

Block the bridezilla and her minions for a peaceful life 🙅‍♀️

WritPositWrit | WritPositWrit

NTA for refusing impossible cake request from bridezilla.

mikey_weasel | mikey_weasel

Bridezilla demands impossible cake, OP refuses, friends reveal true colors 😬

FunOnAita | FunOnAita

Friendzilla strong-arms for impossible cake, goes ballistic. You're NTA.

Drasils | Drasils

NTA! OP's 'friend' was abusive and ungrateful for her kind offer 🙄

Puzzleheaded-Hurry26 | Puzzleheaded-Hurry26

Bride demands 8 free cakes, gets mad when asked to pay 💸

muhanX | muhanX

Offering to help friends can be risky, but this bridezilla takes it too far. NTA.

EggsAndMilquetoast | EggsAndMilquetoast

Toxic bridezilla and her enablers cut out of your life 👏

PeepsDeBeaul | PeepsDeBeaul

Don't let a Bridezilla ruin your life 🎂💍

Skippy2716 | Skippy2716

NTA for standing up to a bridezilla, but getting blamed? Therapy needed.

larochelleville | larochelleville

Setting boundaries with friends turned clients is important. 💍

pnutbuttercups56 | pnutbuttercups56

Don't let a bridezilla control your emotions, stay in control! 🍰

Ohmigoshness | Ohmigoshness

Encouraging response to a tough situation. 🙌

-Quaint- | -Quaint-

Supportive comment on relationship saved by cake refusal 🍰💔

AntipodeanRabbit | AntipodeanRabbit

Block the bridezilla and avoid the drama 😉

SoValkyrieMama | SoValkyrieMama

Bridezilla gets served a reality check by talented baker 🎂👩‍🍳

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Free cupcakes for a wedding gift? Count me in! 🧁🎁❤️

thin_white_dutchess | thin_white_dutchess

Don't waste time on cake, spend it on telling her off! 🎂🙅‍♀️ NTA.

SoManyWhippets | SoManyWhippets

Spotting red flags early can save you from Bridezilla-zilla 🚩👰‍♀️

Nogardenfairies | Nogardenfairies

Friend demands impossible cake, becomes bridezilla, you're NTA

dinkleberf | dinkleberf

Bridezilla demands free cake, harasses baker, and ruins own relationship 😱

Arctic_Puppet | Arctic_Puppet

Don't let a bridezilla bully you into an impossible cake! 🍰 NTA

TexFiend | TexFiend

Friend demands impossible cake, insults baker. NTA, cut off.

Kath___ | Kath___

Friend or free labor? Bridezilla gets what she deserves 💁‍♀️🎂

brassninja | brassninja

Beware of fake friends who just want to use you! 👀 NTA

TheLovelyLadyKT | TheLovelyLadyKT

Commenter supports OP's decision to inform fiancé, gets backlash.

HarleySMASH | HarleySMASH

Bridezilla demands impossible cake, but commenter dodges toxic bullet. 💪

fraggletart | fraggletart

Being an awesome wingman, NTA wins the day! 🙌

BKStephens | BKStephens

Cut toxic people out of your life. Not everyone stays forever ✌️

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Baker explains the cost of wedding cakes, shuts down bridezilla 🎂💰

FitzyII | FitzyII

You did the right thing by standing up for yourself 💪

unknown_928121 | unknown_928121

Don't let entitled people bring you down. Block and move on 👌

newaxcounr | newaxcounr

NTA stood up for themselves and warned the groom-to-be 🍰😬

The-Moocat | The-Moocat

Support for boyfriend's advice, potential for relationship growth ❤️

GrWr44 | GrWr44

Bridezilla goes ballistic over cake, commenter says NTA with shock.

foxonaplane | foxonaplane

Friend demands too much from baker, bridezilla behavior ensues. NTA.

AnyConstellation | AnyConstellation

Setting boundaries in cooking, NTA refuses Michelin-level demands 🍴

NotHisRealName | NotHisRealName

Don't let Bridezilla ruin your talent and friendship! NTA 🍰👰

NotSoAverage_sister | NotSoAverage_sister

Bridezilla demands 3-tier cake, insults baker, and loses friend. NTA.


Stand up against online harassment with evidence and support.

Entire-Flight | Entire-Flight

Bridezilla demands impossible cake, gets 8 for free and still complains 😒

MissTsumiki | MissTsumiki

Supporting a friend through tough love and therapy. 💛

Nalpona_Freesun | Nalpona_Freesun

Cutting off a toxic bridezilla? 🤔 NTA strikes again. 💪

BellaSantiago1975 | BellaSantiago1975

Honesty saves friend from bad marriage, NTA 🙌

rfj | rfj

Stand firm and don't let the bridezilla bring you down 🍰👰

MissProblematic | MissProblematic

Short and sweet: NTA, run 🏃

Bearmancartoons | Bearmancartoons

Standing up for yourself and saving a wedding! 💪

ntrontty | ntrontty

Friendship over after bridezilla demands impossible cake. NTA wins.

fcking_username84 | fcking_username84

Cutting toxic people out? NAH, Secret Circle fan? YTA. 😂

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Bridezilla demands impossible cake, NTA handles it like a champ 👍

SereniaKat | SereniaKat

Bridezilla demands impossible cake, clashes with baker. NTA takes heat.

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Don't blame yourself, NTA. Bridezilla needs a reality check. 💍

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Bridezilla demands free cake, verbally abuses friend. Friend refuses. Narcissistic behavior.

GoddessofWind | GoddessofWind

Cutting out a bridezilla 🍰👰‍♀️💔

TheTriadofRedditors | TheTriadofRedditors

Baker stood firm against entitled bridezilla's cake demands 🎂🚫

ducatinamed | ducatinamed

Don't let a monster bridezilla bully you into being a pro baker 🍳. NTA!

ArtemistheFartimus | ArtemistheFartimus

Bridezilla's bad behavior might cost her groom... 🤔

BDThrills | BDThrills

Stand up for yourself and seek legal help! NTA 💪

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Advice for the groom-to-be on dealing with a bridezilla 😬

alpacaboba | alpacaboba

Cutting toxic ties, moving on. 🚪 NTA wins.

SoybeanArson | SoybeanArson

Bride demands impossible cake, harasses baker. Baker saves groom's heartbreak. #NTA

OverRipe-Cucumber | OverRipe-Cucumber

Join the fun on r/weddingshaming and r/choosingbeggars 😂

koinu-chan_love | koinu-chan_love

Don't underestimate the time and skill required for perfection 🎂

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Stand your ground and prioritize your self-respect. 💪

Happy-Restaurant830 | Happy-Restaurant830

Bride demands impossible cake, OP refuses, bride goes ballistic. NTA.

I_Suggest_Therapy | I_Suggest_Therapy

NTA! Bridezilla took advantage of your kindness and boundaries.

Bubblegrime | Bubblegrime

Bridezilla demands impossible cake, gets refused, and goes ballistic. NTA.

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Weddings bring out the worst in people, sorry for your loss.

JenMcSpoonie | JenMcSpoonie

Baker stands up to bridezilla's impossible cake demands, avoids disaster. 👨‍🍳💍

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