A man had saved $40k for his nephew’s education but caught him stealing from his wallet and even his jewelry, using a hidden camera. He then decided to cut off the college fund and told his brother about the stealing. While the nephew’s father was angry with him, he tried to make amends and begged his uncle for forgiveness. However, the man refused to give him the money. Do you think he was justified in his actions or was he too harsh on his nephew? Read on to find out more.
Secret $40k fund for nephew’s school ruined by theft discovery
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Uncle refuses to pay for nephew’s college despite agreement ☹️
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Nephew steals from uncle’s wallet, now won’t pay for school
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Nephew caught stealing from uncle’s wallet; hidden camera evidence revealed.
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Uncle discovers nephew’s theft, stops paying for his school loans
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Uncle refuses to fund nephew’s school after theft – AITA?
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Uncle discovers nephew’s theft and withholds college savings
A man shares that he had saved up around $40k for his nephew’s college education but had not told him until he graduated. However, he recently discovered that his nephew had been stealing money from him whenever he came over, including taking some of his jewelry. The man installed a hidden camera and caught his nephew stealing from his wallet. He has since informed his brother and is no longer willing to contribute to his nephew’s education. The man is upset that his brother revealed his plan to give the money to his nephew and is now being begged for forgiveness. Do you think he is justified in withholding the money? Read on for some reactions and opinions.
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Family theft and disrespect – Nephew gets no sympathy
Don’t give him a cent. Valuable lesson for nephew?
Uncle not obligated to pay for nephew’s school after theft
Nephew stole from his uncle and then ‘apologized’ for money. NTA.
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Teaching a lesson with tough love
Setting boundaries: Uncle refuses to pay for nephew’s school fees.
Uncle denies paying for thief nephew’s schooling, suggests scholarships instead
Nephew’s theft raises concerns about possible addiction issues. OP NTA.
Cutting off a thief. ♂️
Standing up for yourself and your hard-earned money
Not rewarding a thief. Uncle is NTA.
Trust tax. Nephew steals, uncle refuses to pay for school
Nephew stole, uncle saved for tuition, nephew won’t get it.
Commenter supports man’s decision with a sassy tone
Teaching a lesson: uncle refuses to fund nephew’s education
Forgiveness doesn’t mean financial support. Use money to help him rehab?
Rewarding a thief for being a thief? NTA for sure!
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A**hole nephew steals, uncle revokes $40K college fund. NTA.
Lesson learned: Don’t bite the hand that feeds you. ♂️
Taking control of your finances
No reward for a thief. ♂️
Can thieves make it to college? Discussion says yes.
Nephew stole, uncle refused to pay for school. NTA.
NTA. Withhold the money and teach him consequences.
Jewelry stolen by nephew, pawned some of it. NTA.
Teachable moment: NTA for withholding payment after theft discovery.
Uncle refuses to pay for nephew’s schooling after theft. NTA.
Teachable moment: Nephew learns stealing has consequences.
Betrayal and repeated theft. NTA for not paying college tuition.
Flowers and grandma, but no remorse for theft? NTA
Nephew thinks he’s entitled to steal from wealthy uncle.
Don’t back down! Your gift is no criminal record
Concerned commenter suggests nephew may be struggling financially or using drugs.
Protect your property and stay vigilant with security measures
Clear cut judgment.
Age doesn’t determine accountability #NTA
Man discovers nephew stole from him, Reddit advises on repayment.
Adult nephew’s consequences for theft: no school funding.
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Treat yourself with spare change after being NTA
Brother’s theft ruins chance for redemption, NTA to withhold funds
Uncle suspects nephew’s drug use and refuses to fund schooling
Accusation of theft in comment section sparks suspicion and tension
Teaching a lesson- Nephew learns stealing from family is wrong
Curious about nephew’s age; 21 and should take responsibility.
Nephew steals, asks for money, and gets caught. NTA.
Uncle not at fault for refusing to pay for nephew’s education
Forgive but don’t forget – NTA sets boundaries with family
Don’t reward theft ♂️ Nephew should’ve asked instead of stealing.
Nephew steals, then apologizes with flowers? Keep the money
Stand your ground! Planning your legacy like a boss.
Family member stole repeatedly, OP not obligated to pay.
Uncle refuses payment for nephew’s schooling after theft
Teaching a lesson: spend the money on yourself and send a selfie
Demanding justice with a touch of NTA sass
