Man Upset after Wife Goes to Gender-reveal Appointment Without Him

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An expecting father missed the gender reveal appointment and asked his wife to reschedule, but she refused as the appointments are restricted to specific times. She went alone with her mother and the husband later found out. He blew up at his wife, accusing her of going behind his back and ruining the news of finding out the gender of their baby. The wife claimed he was neglectful and irresponsible for prioritizing a party over their child. Reddit users gave their opinions, but what do you think? Read the full story to decide if he's an a**hole or not.

Father misses the gender-reveal appointment, upset about wife going alone.

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Husband upset as wife attends gender-reveal appointment without him 😔

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Wife goes to gender-reveal alone after husband denies request 🤰🏻

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Father misses gender-reveal, blames wife, argument ensues. 😔

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Husband feels deceived after wife's solo gender-reveal appointment 🤔

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Are they the a**hole for going alone?

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Man realizes he was wrong for being upset about gender-reveal

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Husband left out of gender-reveal appointment, feels betrayed 😔

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Parent-to-be asks for conflict resolution, not parenting advice. 🤝

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🤰👶💔 Man misses gender-reveal appointment, wife goes without him

Expecting a child is an exciting time for couples, but disagreements on how to handle certain situations can cause tension. In this case, one man was upset that his wife went to their gender-reveal appointment without him. He had hoped to find out the gender of their baby, but last-minute plans with a friend caused him to miss the appointment. While he suggested canceling and rescheduling, his wife insisted on going alone, causing him to feel left out and upset. When he found out she had gone with her mom, he blew up at her and accused her of going behind his back. She argued that he had prioritized a party over their child and he accused her of being selfish. Now, he's asking if he's the a**hole. What do you think? Share your thoughts and opinions in the comments below.

Man prioritizes birthday party over wife and daughter's health and safety. YTA.

Beneficial-Sale7510 | Beneficial-Sale7510

Man misses gender-reveal appointment for friend's birthday party. Wife upset. YTA.

LurksAroundHere | LurksAroundHere

OP is the a**hole for prioritizing a party over his wife's appointment 😒

Catatomical | Catatomical

Man prioritizes party over wife's necessary ultrasound. YTA.

BunkytheClown | BunkytheClown

Commenter and replies roast man for prioritizing party over wife's gender reveal 🤣 YTA

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Man prioritized friend over baby's gender reveal, wife rightfully upset. YTA.

DeedlesD | DeedlesD

Man misses important appointment and shames wife for keeping commitment 🤦‍♂️

Jintess | Jintess

Man prioritizes friend's birthday over baby's gender-reveal, blames wife. YTA.

Imaginary_Stick9982 | Imaginary_Stick9982

Man prioritizes party over finding out child's gender, earns YTA judgement.

GothPenguin | GothPenguin

Man cancels wife's crucial doctor appointment for party, gets upset. YTA.

SoleofOrion | SoleofOrion

A hilarious exchange about a missed gender reveal appointment.

lpjones | lpjones

OP is the a**hole for prioritizing the birthday party over wife's gender-reveal appointment 🤦‍♂️

0eozoe0 | 0eozoe0

OP misses gender-reveal appointment for friend's party. Wife not at fault. YTA 😒

jinxdrain | jinxdrain

Dad-to-be misses gender reveal, throws tantrum over wife's delivery.

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Man misses wife's medical appointment to attend birthday party, gets called out by commenters YTA

Appotomas | Appotomas

Commenter calls out immature father-to-be in gender-reveal dispute 🤔

Other-Soil7492 | Other-Soil7492

Man's sexist comment backfires in replies. 🤮🙄

OKAlbatross666 | OKAlbatross666

Husband's immature behavior towards wife's gender reveal 🙄

Albertthe1st | Albertthe1st

Missing out on gender reveal makes him YTA 🤦‍♂️

Miami1982 | Miami1982

Commenter calls out father for missing gender reveal appointment. 💥

lazy_natae | lazy_natae

Selfish behavior causes conflict in couple's gender-reveal appointment. 😒

Proscuitto1 | Proscuitto1

Don't prioritize a party over an important pregnancy appointment 🤦‍♂️ YTA.

PermaCaffed | PermaCaffed

Man prioritizes party over unborn child, faces divorce. 💔👶

Rainbow62993 | Rainbow62993

Man misses gender reveal and blames wife, commenters call YTA 👎

Odd_One_9972 | Odd_One_9972

Friendship vs Family: A YTA dilemma 🤔

cardinal_cinnamon | cardinal_cinnamon

Man prioritizes friend's birthday over wife and child's gender reveal. YTA 🤦‍♂️

ConfusedArtist89 | ConfusedArtist89

Commenter calls out OP for being selfish, YTA verdict.

Solid_Quote9133 | Solid_Quote9133

Missed gender-reveal appointment due to party; YTA according to wife.

Extension_Plantain29 | Extension_Plantain29

Man criticized for prioritizing friend's birthday over gender-reveal appointment 🙄

kindcrow | kindcrow

Commenter calls out OP's sexism and hopes for wife's departure 💁‍♀️

Glittering_Joke3438 | Glittering_Joke3438

Commenter calls out selfish behavior and lack of choice. 💥

mermaidlibrarian | mermaidlibrarian

Commenter defends wife from controlling husband, calls him out on poor planning 🤦‍♂️

Kitab64 | Kitab64

Attend the gender reveal appointment with your spouse! YTA.

NUT-me-SHELL | NUT-me-SHELL

Missing gender-reveal appointment for birthday? YTA prioritise your family 👨👩👧💜

imjusthereforaita | imjusthereforaita

User gets roasted for being too obsessed with baby's gender 🔥👶

MadTom65 | MadTom65

Father-to-be criticized for prioritizing himself over his daughter 👎

RobinsRoads05 | RobinsRoads05

Commenter calls out entitled behavior in a scathing response 👀

miiyou | miiyou

Curious commenter questions the timeline of events 🤔

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Don't skip gender-reveal for a party and then pout. YTA 😒

Jmac_files | Jmac_files

Man prioritizes party over wife's appointment, YTA. 🙄

darklysmiling | darklysmiling

Don't miss appointments if you're interested in the outcome 😒

deemossy | deemossy

Missing your child's gender-reveal is a big deal. YTA 😕

GeeseAreWatching | GeeseAreWatching

Commenter calls out father prioritizing friend over unborn child

alces-alces12 | alces-alces12

Prioritizing party over pregnant wife's gender-reveal appointment? YTA. 😑

misma83 | misma83

Man prioritizes friend's party over wife's appointment. YTA and owe apology 😠

Deondebomon | Deondebomon

Husband demands wife cancel doctor's appointment for gender reveal party. YTA 😒

lumberj73 | lumberj73

OBGYN PA calls out husband for missing gender-reveal appointment. YTA 🙄

annaliese_sora | annaliese_sora

Prioritizing a gender-reveal over a friend's birthday? YTA.

Unit-Healthy | Unit-Healthy

Commenter calls out selfish behavior in gender-reveal appointment. 💁‍♀️

babyyodawg | babyyodawg

Man forgets friend's birthday and yells at pregnant wife. YTA 🤦‍🦸

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Red-faced husband gets roasted for childish behavior 😂

crockofpot | crockofpot

Man misses wife's gender-reveal because of friend's birthday, calls wife TA

MotherOfCrotchFruit | MotherOfCrotchFruit

Donkey husband misses the point of 20-week scan. YTA.

Hamilspud | Hamilspud

Commenter calls out OP for unreasonable expectations and behavior 😒

kelsimr2 | kelsimr2

Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole. 💥

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Commenter calls out man for prioritizing friend over wife and baby 😒

Smiley-Canadian | Smiley-Canadian

Commenter calls out man for prioritizing adult birthday over wife's appointment 💥

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