When a man took his brother and his fiancée out for dinner on their engagement night, he thought it would be a nice gesture. However, things went south when the fiancée started insulting his car, which holds sentimental value due to his late wife. After enduring the fiancée’s constant criticism, the man reached his breaking point and kicked her out of the car. His family was not pleased with his actions, but was he really the a**hole in this situation?
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A story of love, loss and a cherished car ❤️

Brother’s fiancee insults car on engagement night, causing family drama.

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Brother’s fiancée kicked out of car on engagement night.

Brothers, engagement and a car ride gone wrong

Stranded on engagement night for standing up against disrespect? A**hole or not?

Explaining the necklace incident with my brother’s fiancée.

Man kicks brother’s fiancée out of car on their engagement night
A man’s anger boils over when his brother’s fiancée insults his car and a sentimental necklace that belonged to his late wife on their engagement night. Despite warnings that she would be kicked out, she continues to criticize the car, prompting the man to follow through on his threat. While his actions may seem extreme, was he justified in standing up for himself and his late wife’s memory? Read on for reactions from the family and to answer the question: was he TA?
Being ‘brutally honest’ is often an excuse for being cruel

Commenter defends kicking brother’s fiancée out of car on engagement night

Brother’s fiancée insults sibling, gets kicked out. NTA (assuming safe drop-off)

Engagement night ruined by brother’s fiancée and a necklace

Defend your boundaries and your wife’s legacy. NTA.

Standing up to toxic behavior is always the right move NTA
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OP is NTA for standing up to his brother’s disrespectful fiancée

Commenter deemed ‘NTA’ for kicking out brother’s fiancée

OP defended his late wife’s car, family defends brother’s fiancée. Drama.

Commenter defends their NTA judgment against a heartless reply.
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A heartfelt NTA comment with a touch of humor ❤️

Commenter defends OP’s actions and calls out toxic behavior.

Commenter and replies express disbelief and share experiences of encountering rude people
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Compassionate response to a heart-wrenching situation ❤️

Standing up to abusive behavior and setting healthy boundaries.

NTA for setting boundaries, but does OP have anger issues?

Fed up with entitled behavior? This NTA didn’t back down.

Revenge is a dish best served… in the restaurant ️

Commenter empathizes with OP’s decision to kick out disrespectful fiancée.

Respect for grief: why one commenter thinks NTA

Commenter defends OP’s decision and criticizes brother’s fiancée’s character

Comment seems skeptical about the story’s authenticity

Brother’s AH fiancee gets kicked out of car on engagement night.

Family drama? NTA follows through on warning.

Standing up to disrespectful behavior: NTA

Engagement night disaster averted

Commenter defends someone kicked out of car on engagement night.

Stand your ground and take a break from toxic family

OP’s honesty saves engagement night. NTA

NTA, wedding disaster predicted

A regretful passenger needs a ride from The Consequences street

Don’t let anyone disrespect the car giving them a ride. ♀️

A rude comment ruined their engagement night, but was OP justified?

NTA stands firm against entitled comment bully.

Driving, not a chauffeur. Brother’s fiancée crossed the line.

Being honest doesn’t mean being a cruel a**hole

Standing up for yourself on engagement night. NTA

Condolences for loss. Effort to maintain car is commendable. NTA.

Questioning the story: Doubting the consensus against the commenter

Commenter defends kicking out ‘evil’ brother’s fiancée on engagement night

Clear judgment: NTA

Family supports OP for kicking out brother’s rude fiancée

Standing up for yourself and your family. NTA

Commenter empathizes with OP and cheers for boundary-setting.
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Address the problem respectfully, apologize for leaving them there

Defending your deceased wife’s memoir makes you NTA. Family values?

Commenter sympathizes with OP, calls girl ‘stupid and mean’

Dealing with abusive relatives can be tough, but necessary

Commenter defends kicking out fiancee, calls her behavior inexcusable

Following through on consequences, NTA. ♂️

You’re not the a-hole and your family needs to change

Commenter defends OP’s actions and calls out toxic family dynamics

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s actions after hearing about spouse.

Commenter defends poster for kicking out toxic fiancée on engagement night.

Standing up against verbal abuse.

Yikes! Who would want to be engaged to someone like that?

A heartwarming NTA story with a vintage car ❤️

Brutal honesty leads to brutal treatment. NTA, family sucks

Self-reflection on anger issues after kicking out fiancée?

Stand up for yourself, even if family doesn’t. #RespectYourself

Being honest is important, but why be brutal?

NTA for kicking her out of the car on engagement night

Setting boundaries and sticking to them. NTA

A sentimental item was hanging from the mirror, FSIL was rude.

Commenter advises addressing temper and finding healthy outlets for anger.
