Woman Cancels Credit Card After Boyfriend Refuses To Return It

Alfe Mercado
Credit card on hand
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When a woman's boyfriend unexpectedly asked for her credit card, she let him take it but asked him to return it later. Instead, he kept it and said he wanted to handle paying for things on her behalf. Feeling uncomfortable, she canceled the card and registered a new one. Her boyfriend was angry and accused her of being financially abusive. However, the woman argues that she couldn't trust him with her finances. The situation has caused tension in their relationship, with the woman feeling guilty for hurting her boyfriend's feelings. But who is really in the wrong here? Read on to find out more.

Unemployed boyfriend refuses to return credit card to hardworking girlfriend 💳

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Independent woman takes control of finances 💰

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Boyfriend's strange request for credit card causes relationship rift.

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Boyfriend refuses to return credit card, claims control over finances 💳

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Boyfriend refuses to return credit card, woman cancels it. 💳

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Woman stands up to financial abuse, cancels credit card 💳

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Boyfriend's reaction to canceled credit card causes tension 😔

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Cutting off credit, justified or a**hole move? 🤔

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Breaking news: update added to the article 📰

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Boyfriend denies disability, woman cancels card. 💳

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Boyfriend's lack of responsibility causes credit card cancellation 💳

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Boyfriend's troubled past may have led to credit card dispute.

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Uneven distribution of chores in relationship due to disability 🤝

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Boyfriend won't return credit card: woman cancels. 💳

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🛑 Canceling credit card after boyfriend refuses to return it

A woman and her unemployed boyfriend got into an argument when he refused to return her credit card after she let him use it to buy food. He insisted on keeping it to handle her finances, but she felt uncomfortable with it and canceled it. The boyfriend accused her of being financially abusive and not trusting him. However, the woman argues that she has been paying for most of their expenses, including his medical bills and transportation. She also revealed that he has a physical disability that limits his job opportunities, but he refuses to acknowledge it and blames others for not employing him. Was she wrong to cancel the credit card? Read on for the reactions and comments.

Trust your instincts and cancel the credit card. NTA 👏

Reenvisage | Reenvisage

NTA. Boyfriend is over party 🎉💔

meancrochethook | meancrochethook

Boyfriend tries to use canceled card, accuses girlfriend of paranoia. NTA

maria_puente87 | maria_puente87

Boyfriend steals credit card, claims trust issues. NTA.

frogmuffins | frogmuffins

Protect yourself from credit card theft with these helpful tips 🛡️

Defan3 | Defan3

Boyfriend's refusal to return credit card leads to guilt trip. #NTA

ghostofumich2005 | ghostofumich2005

Comment section full of ex-boyfriend assumptions 😅

LimeblueNostos | LimeblueNostos

Don't let him gaslight you. NTA, cancel the card. 👏

dontwannadoittoday | dontwannadoittoday

Boyfriend with no job or family, woman pays for everything including medication.

Nisagent | Nisagent

Boyfriend steals credit card, lies about using it. Dump him. 💔

Piper6728 | Piper6728

Boyfriend tries to take control of finances, woman cancels card. NTA 😤

mdthomas | mdthomas

Cancel him too 👏! OP made the right choice.

universechild9 | universechild9

Protect your assets 💳 and yourself 💪, dump the entitled boyfriend 👎

BlackCatLuna | BlackCatLuna

Boyfriend tries to use credit card without approval, deal breaker.

thewhiterosequeen | thewhiterosequeen

👏🏼 NTA, ditch the dead weight 💼

Aunty_Fascist | Aunty_Fascist

Find a man with a job, not a burden 👍

TempeststeelOG | TempeststeelOG

Boyfriend steals credit card, lies, and manipulates. Classic abuser tactic. #NTA

CuriousPenguinSocks | CuriousPenguinSocks

Don't settle for stale fish 🐟 NTA - Move on

Erthan-1 | Erthan-1

Sassy comment shuts down ex-boyfriend's rudeness 👏🏼💅🏼

pfashby | pfashby

Dump the mooch and swipe right for a better match 💔💔

veni_vidi_dixi | veni_vidi_dixi

Trust your gut and cancel the card, before it's too late 🚫💳

OneCraftyBird | OneCraftyBird

Trust issues: Woman cancels card after untrustworthy boyfriend's betrayal 🤔

typicalaquarius | typicalaquarius

Protect your finances and break up with him 💸💔

Irn_brunette | Irn_brunette

Dump the dead weight! 🚮 NTA, he's gaslighting you. 💔

Only_Meal_19 | Only_Meal_19

🔥 Savage response to a toxic relationship

CakeZealousideal1820 | CakeZealousideal1820

Boyfriend's broken promise leads to cancelled credit card. 🚫💳

Philosopher_1234 | Philosopher_1234

Protect your finances and yourself from this red flag 🚩

pinkie18 | pinkie18

🙅‍♀️ Don't let him steal your 💰 or your ❤️, end it now.

PizzaInteraction | PizzaInteraction

👏🏽 You go girl! Cancelled that card. NTA

TheAshenDemon4 | TheAshenDemon4

Cancel the boyfriend 💳👋. NTA for setting boundaries.

CommonCorrect8911 | CommonCorrect8911

Dump the boyfriend, keep the credit score! 💁‍♀️

prettycote | prettycote

Boyfriend refuses to return credit card, shows true colors. Dump him. ❤

KettenKiss | KettenKiss

Cut the deadweight and fly solo 🦅💸 #NTA

HistoryIsABagOfDicks | HistoryIsABagOfDicks

👍 Not the a**hole! Trust is key in relationships.

Geographic_Pic397 | Geographic_Pic397

Setting boundaries in a relationship - 💳👋

Few-Entrepreneur383 | Few-Entrepreneur383

Cancel the boyfriend, not just the credit card. 🚫❌

IncredulousPulp | IncredulousPulp

Commenter advises to run and declares OP is not the a-hole.

BethMacbain | BethMacbain

Dump him! 💔 NTA for canceling credit card.

No-Cost-2668 | No-Cost-2668

Smart move! Cancelled credit card to avoid financial trouble 👍

gilbertwebdude | gilbertwebdude

Boyfriend's credit card misuse backfires, woman cancels it. #NTA 😎

Fluffy-Mastodon | Fluffy-Mastodon

Standing up for yourself is never petty 💪🏼👊🏼

Low_Engineering8921 | Low_Engineering8921

Protect your credit at all costs 💳🚫 You're NTA

C_Noel | C_Noel

👏🏼👏🏼 NTA! 🙅🏻‍♀️ Don't mess with a woman's finances 💰

HeartpineFloors | HeartpineFloors

👏 Stand up for yourself! But listen to your friends 👀

outrageous_oranges | outrageous_oranges

Take control of your finances 💸 Dump the loser. 💔

sbinjax | sbinjax

Dump the dead weight 💔

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Partner refuses to return credit card, commenter questions relationship dynamics 💳🤔

Questionofloyalty | Questionofloyalty

Trust issues justified, NTA for cancelling credit card 💳

Potential-Educator-6 | Potential-Educator-6

Boyfriend's intentions questioned after credit card dispute 💳🤔


Boyfriend takes credit card hostage, breaks promise. NTA. 🤔

Time_Seaworthiness47 | Time_Seaworthiness47

Trust broken. Card cancelled. Relationship next? 🤔💳❌

Final_Figure_7150 | Final_Figure_7150

Boyfriend broke promise, got mad when credit card cancelled 🤦‍♀️

SpudTicket | SpudTicket

Dump him! 🚮 NTA for leaving a freeloading gaslighter.

NerdyTheWarlock | NerdyTheWarlock

Bye bye thief 👋🏼💳 #NTA

kick_him | kick_him

Cancel the card, not the self-respect. 🙅‍♀️

R_Mack | R_Mack

Good call! 📞 Canceling the card was the right move 💳

_Julanna | _Julanna

👏🏼👏🏼Stand your ground and toss out the guy! #NTA

thothscull | thothscull

Setting boundaries and applying consequences. 👍

SuspiciousGrade6312 | SuspiciousGrade6312

Taking control of finances isn't abuse, but is he worth it? 🤔

Suspicious_Safety_45 | Suspicious_Safety_45

🚩 Red flags 🚩, boyfriend wants financial control. NTA for cancelling.

jeymien | jeymien

Dump his shady a** before he ruins your finances 💸

Beccabear3010 | Beccabear3010

Protect yourself from a controlling boyfriend 🚫💳

newbeginingshey | newbeginingshey

Protect your finances 💳🚫 Trust your instincts and stand your ground

katsikakifrikase | katsikakifrikase

🚫 Boyfriend gaslights girlfriend over credit card, she cancels it

nurseiv | nurseiv

Boyfriend tries to use credit card without consent, NTA to cancel 👋

ladygreyowl13 | ladygreyowl13

Cancel the card, cancel the boyfriend, NTA 🙅‍♀️💳💔

cocomimi3 | cocomimi3

Take no crap! 👊 Stand up for yourself and show him out. 🚪

Consistent-Leopard71 | Consistent-Leopard71

🚩 Red flags everywhere! Dump him and your credit card fraud worries 🚩

scrapfactor | scrapfactor

Trust issues or red flag? 🚩

Fullondoublerainbow | Fullondoublerainbow

Cancel him just like you did with your card 🚩🚩🚩

randomhappyjelly | randomhappyjelly

Cut your losses and move on. Don't fall for sunk costs. 💔

nothinglefttouse | nothinglefttouse

Boyfriend tries to spend on card after promising not to. NTA 🚫💳

JustARandomWeirdo17 | JustARandomWeirdo17

Protect your finances and trust, NTA 💰🙅‍♀️

brigiliz | brigiliz

Taking control of finances: Woman cancels credit card, not the a**hole

Heraonolympia123 | Heraonolympia123

🙅‍♀️ Boyfriend refuses to return credit card; commenter is NTA.

Geographic_Pic397 | Geographic_Pic397

👏🏼 NTA for cancelling the card. Maybe consider cancelling the boyfriend? 🤔

CT_Witch | CT_Witch

He broke his promise, you cancelled the card. NTA 👏

empiricalprocesses | empiricalprocesses

When your boyfriend is a hobosexual... 😒 #NTA

tabbycat4 | tabbycat4