Bride Changes Bachelorette Party Location Last Minute, AITA For Being Upset?

Alfe Mercado
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A woman was asked to plan a bachelorette party and spent three months preparing for it. The bride then changed the location last minute to her grandmother's beach house, causing frustration and inconvenience for the planner. The woman called the bride out on her decision, but is she in the wrong? Read on to find out what happened and give your thoughts.

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missdeb99912 | missdeb99912

Last minute bachelorette party changes causing friction among friends.

missdeb99912 | missdeb99912

All set for bachelorette party, but bride changes location. AITA?

missdeb99912 | missdeb99912

Commitment to bachelorette party caused missed opportunities, frustration shared.

missdeb99912 | missdeb99912

Last minute bachelorette party switch-up, bridezilla or reasonable request? 🤔

missdeb99912 | missdeb99912

Bride changes bachelorette party location last minute, but is it justified?

missdeb99912 | missdeb99912

Bridezilla or justified? AITA for being upset? 🤷‍♀️

missdeb99912 | missdeb99912

Bride changes bachelorette party last minute, AITA for being upset?

missdeb99912 | missdeb99912

Bridezilla alert? Changing bachelorette party plans last minute. 🙄

missdeb99912 | missdeb99912

Bride changes bachelorette party location last minute, AITA?

Planning a bachelorette party is no easy feat, but what happens when the bride changes the location last minute? One woman recounts the frustration she felt after spending months planning a four-day party, only to have the location switched to the bride's grandmother's beach house. Was the bride inconsiderate for changing plans without consulting her planner? Or should the planner have been more understanding of the bride's desires? Join the debate in the comments below.

Bridezilla alert! 🚨 OP is NTA for being upset.

penguin_squeak | penguin_squeak

Bride's 4-day bachelorette party sparks debate, some call it 'bulls**t'.

Muted-Appeal-823 | Muted-Appeal-823

NTA. Return what you can, pack up the rest and make that her gift for the party. 💍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Bride changes party last minute, NTA but don't waste energy. Lesson learned.

nothingclever4now | nothingclever4now

Bride's last-minute location change causes financial burden, NTA for being upset 😒💰

coloradogrown85 | coloradogrown85

Professional planners and venues don't care, NTA for being upset 😊

thirdtryisthecharm | thirdtryisthecharm

NTA for being upset about last minute bachelorette party change 💍

OptmusJonzz | OptmusJonzz

Bride changes bachelorette party location last minute, NTA requests reimbursement 💰

whoamaynifest | whoamaynifest

Last minute location change causes bachelorette party fallout 💔

willynilly1738 | willynilly1738

Bridezilla ditches bachelorette party plans, NTA for being upset 😒

[deleted] | [deleted]

Commenter declines expensive bachelorette party invite, NTA 👍

slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad

Consider a refund and reevaluate your involvement in the wedding 💰💭

teresajs | teresajs

Bride changes bachelorette party, friend upset. NTA or YTA?

associaterogue | associaterogue

Bride changes party plan last minute, friend calls her out 💁‍♀️

Forsaken_Ad_1453 | Forsaken_Ad_1453

Bride changes bachelorette party last minute, NTA for being upset. Send her a bill 💰

HedgieTwiggles | HedgieTwiggles

Support your brother, not his bride. 👍

VlaxDrek | VlaxDrek

Planning a bachelorette party can be tough, but don't let it ruin relationships 💍

Masta-Blasta | Masta-Blasta

Deduct your costs and don't go. 🚫🎉

Status-Pattern7539 | Status-Pattern7539

Bride changes party location last minute, friend annoyed. NTA.

mm172 | mm172

Bride changes plans last minute, commenter demands reimbursement 💰

AirAggravating8714 | AirAggravating8714

👰🏻 Bridezilla alert! Commenter suggests dropping out of wedding. NTA

PopcornandComments | PopcornandComments

Wedding parties now multiple days? 🤔 NTA for being upset 💰

PinkPrincess61 | PinkPrincess61

👍Agreed. Changing plans last minute is always frustrating.

livin4fun78 | livin4fun78

Bride changes bachelorette party location last minute, friend calls her out on being inconsiderate. NTA.

Mermaidtoo | Mermaidtoo

Don't be a bridezilla, let someone else handle it 💁‍♀️

Alelitt94 | Alelitt94

Nostalgic commenter misses simpler times of bridesmaid parties 🦕

Zealousideal-Can8389 | Zealousideal-Can8389

Passive-aggressive revenge plan for bachelorette party relocation 👀💅

DMV_Lolli | DMV_Lolli

Destination weddings can be costly, NTA for being upset 😒💰

[deleted] | [deleted]

Bridezilla alert 🚨: A patient friend frustrated with last-minute changes.

daveescaped | daveescaped

Remember, actions speak louder than words. 👀

Diasies_inMyHair | Diasies_inMyHair

When pettiness meets revenge 🤣💰

falalalama | falalalama

Bride changes party location last minute, friend upset. NTA.

New_Letter6318 | New_Letter6318

Short and sweet: No a**holes here! 🙌

Ravenclaw79 | Ravenclaw79

A wise mother reminds us of good wedding etiquette 👍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Friend's unreliability leads to bachelorette party drama 🍿

katherinemma987 | katherinemma987

Bride changes bachelorette last minute, commenter NTA, and upset.

ServelanDarrow | ServelanDarrow

Bridezilla moves bachelorette party last minute, NTA for feeling upset 😒

TheBattyWitch | TheBattyWitch

Don't eat the cost, but don't take over planning either 💸🙅‍♀️

mammyeagle54 | mammyeagle54

Politely decline with a reason, NTA for being upset 😊

Greenmouse11 | Greenmouse11

Bring the party to you 🎉🏡 NTA.

pacazpac | pacazpac

Bride changes bachelorette location last minute, NTA is upset 😒

snewton_8 | snewton_8

Commenter predicts disaster for bachelorette party, calls out inconsiderate bride. 💥👰

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA for being upset, but offering to sell party goods.

Hot-Duck6655 | Hot-Duck6655

Asserting boundaries at bachelorette party, NTA 🚩👸

handyrae | handyrae

Wedding festivities lasting longer than the wedding day? 😳

Curious_Discussion63 | Curious_Discussion63

Don't let a wishy-washy bride cost you more 💸💍

Terra88draco | Terra88draco

Commenter deserves a refund, but tread lightly to preserve friendship. 💸

MicIsOn | MicIsOn

Bridezilla? A NTA commenter warns of family tensions ahead.

TTFAA2020 | TTFAA2020

Bachelorette party gone wild: Entitled bridezilla on the loose 🚨

ExplanationMinimum51 | ExplanationMinimum51

Respect your time and energy. Don't waste it on disrespect.

bugscuz | bugscuz

Get that money back! 💰 NTA

beez8383 | beez8383

A fellow maid of honor recommends setting expectations early 💰💍

[deleted] | [deleted]

Short bachelorette parties: YTA or NAH?

No-Swimming-3599 | No-Swimming-3599

Bridezilla alert! 🚨 NTA for being upset about last minute change.

Hopeful_Rip2690 | Hopeful_Rip2690

Cancel everything?! 😱 NTA means business. 💪

lindafancyontheb | lindafancyontheb

Commenter calls out inconsiderate bride, advises OP to bow out. 💁‍♀️

ThePatriarchyIsTrash | ThePatriarchyIsTrash

Event manager agrees, brides need to get a grip. NTA 🙌

synaesthezia | synaesthezia

Throw your own party 🎉🥳 NTA for cancelling plans.

genie610 | genie610

Bridesmaids plan bachelorettes, but bride controls guest list. 🎉

Apex-toastmaker0514 | Apex-toastmaker0514

🎉4 day bachelorette party?!? You're not the only one confused!🤔

Friendly_Tangelo1197 | Friendly_Tangelo1197

Being a bride doesn't excuse bad behavior, NTA stands firm.

imapotatoperson | imapotatoperson

Bridezilla sparks debate over bachelorette party plans 🎉

Farahild | Farahild

Guest considers opting out of wedding party after classless move 💍

WhyCommentQueasy | WhyCommentQueasy

Wedding gift or not? The etiquette of party changes. 💰🎉

2ndcupofcoffee | 2ndcupofcoffee

Bridezilla alert! 🚨 NTA, but is it worth salvaging the friendship?

elizabethjanet | elizabethjanet

Multiple-day bachelorette parties: fun or too much? 🤔

TheGlitterMahdi | TheGlitterMahdi

Don't waste your time and money on a selfish SIL 💸🙅‍♀️

pink4pink | pink4pink

Commenter suggests asking bride to cover wasted costs, cutting ties.

Facu-Nahu | Facu-Nahu

Don't let her ruin the fun, enjoy the party! 🎉

Mehitabel9 | Mehitabel9