A woman was asked to plan a bachelorette party and spent three months preparing for it. The bride then changed the location last minute to her grandmother's beach house, causing frustration and inconvenience for the planner. The woman called the bride out on her decision, but is she in the wrong? Read on to find out what happened and give your thoughts.
Bride Changes Bachelorette Party Location Last Minute, AITA For Being Upset?
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Planning a bachelorette party is no easy feat, but what happens when the bride changes the location last minute? One woman recounts the frustration she felt after spending months planning a four-day party, only to have the location switched to the bride's grandmother's beach house. Was the bride inconsiderate for changing plans without consulting her planner? Or should the planner have been more understanding of the bride's desires? Join the debate in the comments below.
Bridezilla alert! 🚨 OP is NTA for being upset.
penguin_squeak | penguin_squeak
Bride's 4-day bachelorette party sparks debate, some call it 'bulls**t'.
Muted-Appeal-823 | Muted-Appeal-823
NTA. Return what you can, pack up the rest and make that her gift for the party. 💍
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Bride changes party last minute, NTA but don't waste energy. Lesson learned.
nothingclever4now | nothingclever4now
Bride's last-minute location change causes financial burden, NTA for being upset 😒💰
coloradogrown85 | coloradogrown85
Professional planners and venues don't care, NTA for being upset 😊
thirdtryisthecharm | thirdtryisthecharm
NTA for being upset about last minute bachelorette party change 💍
OptmusJonzz | OptmusJonzz
Bride changes bachelorette party location last minute, NTA requests reimbursement 💰
whoamaynifest | whoamaynifest
Last minute location change causes bachelorette party fallout 💔
willynilly1738 | willynilly1738
Bridezilla ditches bachelorette party plans, NTA for being upset 😒
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Commenter declines expensive bachelorette party invite, NTA 👍
slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad
Consider a refund and reevaluate your involvement in the wedding 💰💭
teresajs | teresajs
Bride changes bachelorette party, friend upset. NTA or YTA?
associaterogue | associaterogue
Bride changes party plan last minute, friend calls her out 💁♀️
Forsaken_Ad_1453 | Forsaken_Ad_1453
Bride changes bachelorette party last minute, NTA for being upset. Send her a bill 💰
HedgieTwiggles | HedgieTwiggles
Support your brother, not his bride. 👍
VlaxDrek | VlaxDrek
Planning a bachelorette party can be tough, but don't let it ruin relationships 💍
Masta-Blasta | Masta-Blasta
Deduct your costs and don't go. 🚫🎉
Status-Pattern7539 | Status-Pattern7539
Bride changes party location last minute, friend annoyed. NTA.
mm172 | mm172
Bride changes plans last minute, commenter demands reimbursement 💰
AirAggravating8714 | AirAggravating8714
👰🏻 Bridezilla alert! Commenter suggests dropping out of wedding. NTA
PopcornandComments | PopcornandComments
Wedding parties now multiple days? 🤔 NTA for being upset 💰
PinkPrincess61 | PinkPrincess61
👍Agreed. Changing plans last minute is always frustrating.
livin4fun78 | livin4fun78
Bride changes bachelorette party location last minute, friend calls her out on being inconsiderate. NTA.
Mermaidtoo | Mermaidtoo
Don't be a bridezilla, let someone else handle it 💁♀️
Alelitt94 | Alelitt94
Nostalgic commenter misses simpler times of bridesmaid parties 🦕
Zealousideal-Can8389 | Zealousideal-Can8389
Passive-aggressive revenge plan for bachelorette party relocation 👀💅
DMV_Lolli | DMV_Lolli
Destination weddings can be costly, NTA for being upset 😒💰
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Bridezilla alert 🚨: A patient friend frustrated with last-minute changes.
daveescaped | daveescaped
Remember, actions speak louder than words. 👀
Diasies_inMyHair | Diasies_inMyHair
When pettiness meets revenge 🤣💰
falalalama | falalalama
Bride changes party location last minute, friend upset. NTA.
New_Letter6318 | New_Letter6318
Short and sweet: No a**holes here! 🙌
Ravenclaw79 | Ravenclaw79
A wise mother reminds us of good wedding etiquette 👍
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Friend's unreliability leads to bachelorette party drama 🍿
katherinemma987 | katherinemma987
Bride changes bachelorette last minute, commenter NTA, and upset.
ServelanDarrow | ServelanDarrow
Bridezilla moves bachelorette party last minute, NTA for feeling upset 😒
TheBattyWitch | TheBattyWitch
Don't eat the cost, but don't take over planning either 💸🙅♀️
mammyeagle54 | mammyeagle54
Politely decline with a reason, NTA for being upset 😊
Greenmouse11 | Greenmouse11
Bring the party to you 🎉🏡 NTA.
pacazpac | pacazpac
Bride changes bachelorette location last minute, NTA is upset 😒
snewton_8 | snewton_8
Commenter predicts disaster for bachelorette party, calls out inconsiderate bride. 💥👰
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NTA for being upset, but offering to sell party goods.
Hot-Duck6655 | Hot-Duck6655
Asserting boundaries at bachelorette party, NTA 🚩👸
handyrae | handyrae
Wedding festivities lasting longer than the wedding day? 😳
Curious_Discussion63 | Curious_Discussion63
Don't let a wishy-washy bride cost you more 💸💍
Terra88draco | Terra88draco
Commenter deserves a refund, but tread lightly to preserve friendship. 💸
MicIsOn | MicIsOn
Bridezilla? A NTA commenter warns of family tensions ahead.
TTFAA2020 | TTFAA2020
Bachelorette party gone wild: Entitled bridezilla on the loose 🚨
ExplanationMinimum51 | ExplanationMinimum51
Respect your time and energy. Don't waste it on disrespect.
bugscuz | bugscuz
Get that money back! 💰 NTA
beez8383 | beez8383
A fellow maid of honor recommends setting expectations early 💰💍
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Short bachelorette parties: YTA or NAH?
No-Swimming-3599 | No-Swimming-3599
Bridezilla alert! 🚨 NTA for being upset about last minute change.
Hopeful_Rip2690 | Hopeful_Rip2690
Cancel everything?! 😱 NTA means business. 💪
lindafancyontheb | lindafancyontheb
Commenter calls out inconsiderate bride, advises OP to bow out. 💁♀️
ThePatriarchyIsTrash | ThePatriarchyIsTrash
Event manager agrees, brides need to get a grip. NTA 🙌
synaesthezia | synaesthezia
Throw your own party 🎉🥳 NTA for cancelling plans.
genie610 | genie610
Bridesmaids plan bachelorettes, but bride controls guest list. 🎉
Apex-toastmaker0514 | Apex-toastmaker0514
🎉4 day bachelorette party?!? You're not the only one confused!🤔
Friendly_Tangelo1197 | Friendly_Tangelo1197
Being a bride doesn't excuse bad behavior, NTA stands firm.
imapotatoperson | imapotatoperson
Bridezilla sparks debate over bachelorette party plans 🎉
Farahild | Farahild
Guest considers opting out of wedding party after classless move 💍
WhyCommentQueasy | WhyCommentQueasy
Wedding gift or not? The etiquette of party changes. 💰🎉
2ndcupofcoffee | 2ndcupofcoffee
Bridezilla alert! 🚨 NTA, but is it worth salvaging the friendship?
elizabethjanet | elizabethjanet
Multiple-day bachelorette parties: fun or too much? 🤔
TheGlitterMahdi | TheGlitterMahdi
Don't waste your time and money on a selfish SIL 💸🙅♀️
pink4pink | pink4pink
Commenter suggests asking bride to cover wasted costs, cutting ties.
Facu-Nahu | Facu-Nahu
Don't let her ruin the fun, enjoy the party! 🎉
Mehitabel9 | Mehitabel9