I Kicked My Roommate Out And Now They're Homeless

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Living with a roommate can be a challenge, and when a roommate crosses a boundary, things can get heated. In this AITA post, a woman shares how she found herself in a difficult situation with her roommate, Cassidy, after she brought multiple guys over without notice. When the roommate got into an argument with the poster and refused to change her behavior, the poster decided to kick her out.

However, the poster's mother thinks she may have been too harsh. What do you think? Read on to find out more about this story.

Roommate kicked out and homeless- my tough decision explained.

mindless_ad8040 | mindless_ad8040

Roommate's secret job leads to eviction and homelessness. 💼🚪👋

mindless_ad8040 | mindless_ad8040

Respecting boundaries: A tale of roommates and random hookups 😳

mindless_ad8040 | mindless_ad8040

Roommate brings strangers in, gets kicked out, and insults friend

mindless_ad8040 | mindless_ad8040

Roommate kicked out, now homeless. Was it too harsh? 😕

mindless_ad8040 | mindless_ad8040

Did OP do the right thing? Let's discuss 👀

mindless_ad8040 | mindless_ad8040

Kicked out roommate in the adult industry, now homeless 😞

Living with roommates can be challenging, especially if they don't respect your boundaries. But what happens when you kick out a roommate who has nowhere to go? That's the dilemma facing OP after asking her roommate Cassidy to leave. Cassidy was bringing guys back to the apartment in the middle of the night, creating an uncomfortable situation for OP.

When OP came home to find a few guys on the couch and Cassidy was nowhere to be found, she reached her breaking point and demanded that Cassidy leave. Now, Cassidy is homeless and OP is questioning whether she made the right decision.

Was OP justified in kicking out her roommate? Or was she too harsh? Let's take a look at what the commenters have to say on Reddit.

Compassion and tough love are both necessary in this situation 👍

9okm | 9okm

NTA for kicking out roommate who brought strangers without notice 🚪

Moon781 | Moon781

OP is NTA but lacked foresight, commenters discuss roommate's behavior.

thirdtryisthecharm | thirdtryisthecharm

Confusion over the '2 bedroom studio' takes center stage 🤔

Aspen_Pass | Aspen_Pass

Set yourself up for this situation by not checking roommate's behavior.

11phoenix | 11phoenix

Safety first! A cautionary tale about roommates and strangers. 🔒

[deleted] | [deleted]

Friendly correction sparks agreement and laughter 😂

smooshfuckie | smooshfuckie

Roommate brought clients to home, NTA for eviction decision.

RobertK995 | RobertK995

Confusion over apartment setup leads to provocative assumptions 🤔

jtj5002 | jtj5002

Commenter suggests the OP's mom take in the homeless roommate 🏠

Icy-Cherry-8143 | Icy-Cherry-8143

Sarcastic NTA comment sparks no replies 🙄

Current-Read | Current-Read

Taking charge to prevent illegal activities in your own home 👊

Ok_Smell_8260 | Ok_Smell_8260

Secure your home! NTA for kicking out an untrustworthy roommate.

uhohitslilbboy | uhohitslilbboy

Confusion over apartment size sparks discussion 🤔

hinkelmckrinkelberry | hinkelmckrinkelberry

Setting boundaries in shared living can be tough. NTA.

pcnauta | pcnauta

Studio apartment can't have 2 bedrooms, OP is NTA 🔍

doinggood9 | doinggood9

Confusion over 2-bedroom studio, sparks curiosity 🤔

Affectionate_Data936 | Affectionate_Data936

Setting boundaries: a**hole or not? 🤔

WyrdElmBella | WyrdElmBella

Commenter clears up apartment confusion and judges situation NTA 🙌

Scary-Volk | Scary-Volk

Roommate drama: Commenter not at fault for homeless ex-roomie.

lonnielee3 | lonnielee3

Stand your ground! You're not the a**hole here 💪

pleasantgumbo | pleasantgumbo

Classic 'F around and find out.' NTA 👏

GumGarGwar | GumGarGwar

Setting boundaries is important. You're NTA in this situation.

lakas76 | lakas76

Safety first! 👍 NTA for prioritizing your safety.

IBeTrippin | IBeTrippin

Set boundaries, not a homeless roommate. 🚫🏠

alskellington | alskellington

Roommate kicked out, now homeless. NTA for concern.

MariaInconnu | MariaInconnu

Setting boundaries and enforcing them. NTA 🙌

ThatLilBluejay | ThatLilBluejay

Curious about the backstory? See why the roommate left 🤔

katieisalady | katieisalady

Setting boundaries is important. Don't let others take advantage. 🚫🤨

Outrageous-Bit-5603 | Outrageous-Bit-5603

Roommate got what she deserved 🤷‍♀️

del901 | del901

Sex work and rent - a complicated roomie situation 🤔

capitocoto | capitocoto

NTA for kicking out sex worker roommate, but naive about profession. 💼🚪👋

HollyChopper | HollyChopper

NTA for kicking out roommate who left people at home

Book_Eater_2319 | Book_Eater_2319

Roommate's safety is top priority. NTA for kicking out.

jimmap | jimmap

Setting boundaries: NTA for holding roommate accountable.

calixtaborks | calixtaborks

Offering a solution with a hint of sarcasm: Let your mum house her 🤷‍♀️ NTA

lynnebrad70 | lynnebrad70

Setting boundaries is important for your safety and well-being 🚫👥

Mogwai_92 | Mogwai_92

Setting boundaries with a homeless roommate 👍🏠

Express_Course_4661 | Express_Course_4661

Trust is crucial in roommate situations - NTA made the right call 💪

txsxxphxx2 | txsxxphxx2

Roommate kicked out for having strangers over, now homeless. NTA 💁‍♀️

geman11 | geman11

NTA for kicking out irresponsible roommate who put you at risk.

Summoner99 | Summoner99

Roommate brought strangers, didn't pay rent. NTA for eviction.

neverthelessidissent | neverthelessidissent

Secure your home! 🚪 NTA takes necessary steps.

Bozie66 | Bozie66

Setting boundaries and prioritizing safety. 🚫👥

spaceygracie12 | spaceygracie12

Roommate let strangers stay in your home without telling you 😱

Marzipan_civil | Marzipan_civil

Offering your mom's place as refuge? NTA and kind-hearted ❤️

skinny_minnie123 | skinny_minnie123

Secure your home, don't let her back in! 🔒

rainbow_mak3r | rainbow_mak3r

Setting boundaries and enforcing them is important for healthy relationships 👍

ChamomileBrownies | ChamomileBrownies

Stand your ground! 👍

pnomsen | pnomsen

Is OP the a**hole for kicking out their roommate? Need context 🧐

areeves1985 | areeves1985

Commenter supports OP's decision to kick out disrespectful roommate.

ksarahsarah27 | ksarahsarah27

Kicked out roommate for safety concerns, NTA 👍

Post_Nuclear_Messiah | Post_Nuclear_Messiah

Curiosity about two bedroom studio overshadows NTA judgement 😅

ghoulwraps | ghoulwraps

Stand firm on boundaries and avoid risky industries. 👍

Regular-Landscape-83 | Regular-Landscape-83

Offering a solution: suggest to let roommate stay with mom 🏠

DesconocidaKush | DesconocidaKush

Safety first! 🚨 A concerned commenter speaks out.

CloverOver28 | CloverOver28

Expectations vs Reality: A Not-So-Happy Ending 😕

KBPredditQueen | KBPredditQueen

Setting boundaries and sticking to them. NTA 🙌

[deleted] | [deleted]

Commenter suggests mom should have helped homeless roommate 🤔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Roommate's safety put at risk by unannounced male visitor 😱

Aj-Fast | Aj-Fast

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for standing up for yourself 💪

DrMindbendersMonocle | DrMindbendersMonocle

Roommate brought strangers in, NTA for kicking them out.

Rosalie-83 | Rosalie-83

Friend ignored rules, brought Johns home, and now homeless. NTA 💁‍♀️

MorgainofAvalon | MorgainofAvalon

Dodged a bullet 💊 NTA for kicking her out

HWGA_Exandria | HWGA_Exandria

Roommate's shady 'customers' put everyone in danger. NTA.

Delicious-Insect-693 | Delicious-Insect-693

Roommate or friend? NTA for kicking out disrespectful couch surfer 👌

incognito-cogitator | incognito-cogitator

Setting boundaries is important 👍

MyPPsNameIsJA | MyPPsNameIsJA

Not the a**hole, but what's the aftermath? 🤔

_JT96 | _JT96

Setting boundaries with roommates is important for a harmonious living 🏠

Cpt_Lazlo | Cpt_Lazlo

Conflicted about being justified, seek validation for moral compass ⚖️

366m4n89 | 366m4n89