Woman Kicks Sister's Husband Out Of House After Inappropriate Behavior

Angry woman.
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Dealing with loss is never easy, especially when the people around you don't know how to act. In this AITA post, a woman's brother-in-law crosses a line, and she takes action. But was it too harsh? After kicking him out of her house, she's now dealing with the aftermath of her actions.

Read on to find out what he did and whether or not she was justified in her response. Don't miss the comments from users on Reddit who weigh in on what they would have done in her shoes.

Dealing with grief and family support after losing a spouse

catmom3__ | catmom3__

Dealing with inappropriate behavior from sister's husband after husband's death.

catmom3__ | catmom3__

Sister's husband crosses the line while visiting, gets kicked out 😠

catmom3__ | catmom3__

Husband's inappropriate behavior leads to awkward exchange with sister-in-law 😬

catmom3__ | catmom3__

Woman confronts sister's husband for inappropriate behavior, kicks him out 🔥

catmom3__ | catmom3__

Sister stands up to inappropriate behavior and kicks him out 🚪

catmom3__ | catmom3__

Family advises woman to be more considerate after kicking out brother-in-law

catmom3__ | catmom3__

Navigating family conflicts with grace and firm boundaries 🤝

catmom3__ | catmom3__

Sister upset after kicking out husband for inappropriate behavior 😔

catmom3__ | catmom3__

Woman kicks sister's husband out after inappropriate offer 😠

Grief can make people act in unexpected ways. When a woman's brother-in-law made an inappropriate offer to set her up with a coworker, she understandably lost it. Her sister and other family members had been supportive since the woman's husband passed away, but the brother-in-law's comments crossed a line.

Despite her family's urging to make amends, the woman is hesitant to reach out to her sister's husband and potentially damage their relationship further. Read on for reactions from others about how the woman handled the situation.

NTA. Sister's husband inappropriate after being helped.

Esterenn | Esterenn

NTA for kicking sister's husband out. He was callous and clueless 😒

LoveBeach8 | LoveBeach8

BIL's creepy behavior and lack of empathy sparks outrage

JudgeJudAITA | JudgeJudAITA

NTA commenter with autism shares insights on 'game playing' behavior, with supportive replies.

NycBikerDude11 | NycBikerDude11

Suggesting writing a letter to sister to explain situation 📝

Dragonr0se | Dragonr0se

NTA for kicking out sister's husband after his inappropriate behavior.

Proud_World_6241 | Proud_World_6241

BIL's insensitive behavior adds insult to injury. NTA

[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA. Commenter hopes sister is embarrassed by husband's behavior. Replies express disgust.

threeforagirl | threeforagirl

Inappropriate BIL gets what he deserves. NTA sister stands firm.

CrystalQueen3000 | CrystalQueen3000

Standing up for oneself against inappropriate behavior 💪

latefordinner__ | latefordinner__

Compassionate response to inappropriate behavior during grief. ❤️

urson_black | urson_black

Commenter sympathizes with OP, criticizes BIL's inappropriate behavior and warns about his fidelity.

Upstairs-Series5032 | Upstairs-Series5032

Setting point values for good and bad deeds. NTA 👍

silvyrphoenix | silvyrphoenix

Empathetic response to woman's difficult situation. 💔

shzan1 | shzan1

BIL's 'clueless' behavior towards grieving OP was actually cruel 😔

[deleted] | [deleted]

Supportive comment validates grieving process after inappropriate behavior. 🙏

throwaway1551155115 | throwaway1551155115

Grief is different for everyone. NTA for kicking him out 💪

[deleted] | [deleted]

Empathy for the grieving sister - NTA comment.

ArcanTemival | ArcanTemival

Supportive comment and advice for dealing with family conflict. ❤️

No_Durian_3730 | No_Durian_3730

Set boundaries, don't apologize. He should apologize to you 💪

Debbiesthrowaway | Debbiesthrowaway

NTA, but will the sister apologize? 🤔

trarecar1 | trarecar1

Validating NTA judgement and supporting OP's reaction to BIL's behavior ✊

[deleted] | [deleted]

Agreeing with the commenter's outrage. 😤

curiousbelgian | curiousbelgian

Condolences for loss, NTA for kicking out inappropriate BIL.

Gonzobombers | Gonzobombers

Stand up for yourself even if it means cutting ties 💪🏼

Kakuhhhhhh | Kakuhhhhhh

Condolences to the OP. NTA for kicking out BIL.

Emmiburr | Emmiburr

Navigating widowhood and unwanted interference in your love life 💔

ColoradoCorrie | ColoradoCorrie

Sister's clueless husband needs hard boundaries, NTA ❤️

whatsmypassword73 | whatsmypassword73

You go girl! 👏🏼 Not the a**hole in this situation.

GreenWoodDragon | GreenWoodDragon

BIL's inappropriate behavior overshadowed by meal debate 🍴

Potato_times_potato | Potato_times_potato

Standing up to family is never easy. You're NTA 🙌

[deleted] | [deleted]

Commenter calls out clueless behavior with a NTA verdict 🤔

therealsix | therealsix

Set boundaries to prioritize your grieving. NTA 🙏

kaymar0223 | kaymar0223

BIL's inappropriate behavior leads to family conflict. NTA.

iwanttoquitposting | iwanttoquitposting

Society's conditioning for women to suffer for others' happiness is wrong 😔

Parking_Mission5687 | Parking_Mission5687

Standing up to inappropriate behavior, and discussing with family 👍

UKThrowaway909 | UKThrowaway909

Counselor's insight: NTA sister's husband misguided in supporting grief.

lilpandatoys | lilpandatoys

Navigating grief and loss can be awkward, but boundaries are important.

dnjoseph1 | dnjoseph1

Sister's husband kicked out for inappropriate behavior. NTA wins.

Puzzled-Brilliant955 | Puzzled-Brilliant955

Commenter agrees with the decision and uses strong language 🔥

freckledfk | freckledfk

Supportive comment urges OP to prioritize self-care during grief 💜

[deleted] | [deleted]

Widow defends kicking sister's husband out for inappropriate behavior 💪

TinyTeaLover | TinyTeaLover

Empathetic comment offers support and advice for dealing with loss. 💛

mayraborder | mayraborder