Woman Refuses To Forgive Twin Brother And Ex-Boyfriend For Using Her As A Cover For Their Relationship

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Imagine finding out that your twin brother and long-term boyfriend had been using you as a cover for their relationship. That's exactly what happened to one woman, and she's still not over it. Five years later, her brother and ex-boyfriend have returned to their hometown and are trying to make amends, but she refuses to forgive them.

When they showed up uninvited and tried to apologize, she ripped up her brother's letter and screamed at them to leave her alone. Her family is pressuring her to reconcile, but she's not ready. In this emotional post, the woman shares her story and answers questions from users.

Find out why she's angrier at her brother than her ex, what her plans are for her parents, and how therapy has helped her. Read on to hear her side of the story.

Secret relationship with twin's best friend ends after 8 years 💔

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Betrayed sister used as cover by twin and ex-boyfriend 😔

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Betrayed sister cut off twin and ex-boyfriend for using her

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Twin brother and ex-boyfriend seek forgiveness from pregnant sister

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Can forgiveness heal broken family ties? 🤔

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Twin brother and ex use sister as cover for relationship 💔

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Twin uses sister to cover up relationship with ex 😞

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Woman faces family backlash for refusing to forgive deceitful twin.

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Emotional woman receives unwanted attention; brother and ex-boyfriend ostracized

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Betrayed by her own flesh and blood and lover 💔

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Living together for two years as "friends"? 🤔

illbutterscotch5409 | illbutterscotch5409

Twin sister chooses hate over pity for ex-boyfriend and brother 💔

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Cutting off toxic relationships for the sake of my babies 🙅‍♀️

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Overcoming betrayal: How therapy helped her regain self-love and trust 💪

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Twin brother and ex-boyfriend use woman as a cover 🙅‍♀️

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Commenter defends grammar amidst emotional discussion. 😅

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Betrayed twin sister refuses to forgive ex-boyfriend and brother

A woman shares her traumatic experience of being used as a cover for her twin brother's relationship with his best friend. After eight years, the truth was revealed, and the woman was left feeling dismissed and betrayed. Her brother and ex-boyfriend are now trying to reconcile, but she refuses to forgive them.

The woman is currently pregnant with twins and is in a better place mentally thanks to therapy. However, her family is pushing for her to forgive and forget, causing tension and stress. Read on to see how this woman is coping with the aftermath of this traumatic event and her plans for the future.

We will also dive into the comments and reactions from people on Reddit.

NTA. Brother and ex-bf's betrayal is unforgivable. Don't let them back.

everyonemustlovecats | everyonemustlovecats

Commenter advises cutting off toxic family members, warns against future manipulation. 💪

bluewazka | bluewazka

Setting boundaries with family - NTA. 🚫👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

RealDealBillMcNil | RealDealBillMcNil

Don't forgive and forget, you're not the a**hole here 🚫💔

Swimming-Low-6895 | Swimming-Low-6895

Ex and brother exploited OP for 8 years, NTA, seek therapy 🙏

FloppyEaredDog | FloppyEaredDog

Heartbreaking betrayal by twin brother and ex-boyfriend. Family's judgment unacceptable.

Spare-Article-396 | Spare-Article-396

Block all of them and focus on your baby's health 💪

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Heartbreaking betrayal by twin brother and ex-boyfriend. Take time to heal 💔

KandyShopp | KandyShopp

Twin brother and ex-boyfriend used her as a cover. NTA

swartdelila | swartdelila

Survivor of 8 years of abuse and betrayal gets support.

overseas-mango | overseas-mango

NTA. They stole 8 years of your life by making you live a lie 😔

nibbler981 | nibbler981

Heartless twin brother uses sister as cover for relationship 🤬

killerqueen2004 | killerqueen2004

Shocking betrayal: Woman's twin brother and boyfriend had a secret relationship 😱

AstridMcGee | AstridMcGee

Cutting out toxic people for the sake of family. NTA 🙌

FussyBritchesMama | FussyBritchesMama

Betrayed by twin brother, NTA for not forgiving him.

CakeEatingRabbit | CakeEatingRabbit

Gay commenter supports OP's decision to cut off manipulative family.

Strokedoutbear | Strokedoutbear

Self-care first! You're NTA for cutting toxic people off.

rottencubed | rottencubed

Being a 'beard' needs to be consensual. NTA for feeling used 👍

coloradogrown85 | coloradogrown85

Betrayal is unforgivable. Cut them out and move on. 💔

vodka_philosophy | vodka_philosophy

Commenter advises cutting off family after dangerous ambush, NTA 👍

dawnzoc65 | dawnzoc65

NTA for refusing to forgive twin brother and ex-boyfriend 🙅‍♀️

haveitgood | haveitgood

Standing up for oneself: 🙌 NTA for refusing to forgive!

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Cut ties with those who don't respect you. 🙅‍♀️

curiousbelgian | curiousbelgian

Cutting off toxic family: the only way to heal 💔

Initial_Number_4747 | Initial_Number_4747

Block them all and give yourself permission to go No Contact 💔

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Gay commenter empathizes with OP, calls out ex and twin's actions 👏

Rygumb | Rygumb

User compares OP to a toaster in a witty NTA response 👏🏼

steeveebeemuse | steeveebeemuse

Twin brother and ex-boyfriend's cruel actions warrant no forgiveness 💔

Top-Fisherman-6045 | Top-Fisherman-6045

Betrayed for 8 years, no forgiveness for deceitful ex and twin.

humble_roofer | humble_roofer

Commenter questions motives of involved parties in taboo situation.

somnicrain | somnicrain

Stand your ground and protect your family 🛡️

Accomplished_Row6466 | Accomplished_Row6466

Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests going no contact with family 👀

Haughtscot | Haughtscot

Betrayed and manipulated, cut all ties with no regrets 💔

Marshmallow_mouth | Marshmallow_mouth

Heartbreaking betrayal by twin and ex-boyfriend for five years 😔

jmeens | jmeens

NTA. Twin brother and ex are users and losers 👎

FitOrFat-1999 | FitOrFat-1999

Validating the commenter's feelings of betrayal and offering support. 🙏

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Betrayal hurts, you're NTA for not forgiving them 💔👥

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Betrayed and used for years, NTA for not forgiving them 💔

AgnieszkaRocks | AgnieszkaRocks

NTA for feeling hurt, but seeking therapy can help you move on 💔👩‍⚕️

ChimiJae123 | ChimiJae123

Betrayal during pregnancy, NTA for not forgiving twin and ex.

ApprehensiveAd6500 | ApprehensiveAd6500

NTA and congratulations on your babies and fiance! Draw a clear line and don't tolerate any threat to your new family's well-being. Write a letter for therapeutic reasons. You can forgive for your own health, but never forget.

heycomeoverhere | heycomeoverhere

Standing up for yourself is never selfish. 🙌 #NotTheA**hole

fleshybit | fleshybit

Woman rightfully angry after being used as a cover-up. 😡

francescatoo | francescatoo

Twin brother and ex-boyfriend use sister as cover for 8 years! 😱

PositiveForward866 | PositiveForward866

Using someone for years isn't justified by sexuality. NTA 👏

Jhilixie | Jhilixie

🚫 Betrayal at its worst, NTA takes a stand

Kadenn1980 | Kadenn1980

Supportive commenter empathizes with OP's struggle and offers helpful advice.

Status-Bandicoot6534 | Status-Bandicoot6534

Protect your babies from toxic people 🐍👶🏻

byrdicusmax | byrdicusmax

Betrayed for 8 years, NTA for not forgiving twin & ex.

Maleficent_Ad407 | Maleficent_Ad407

Brother and ex-boyfriend used her for 8 years, NTA 🚫👨‍❤️‍👨

Admirable-Fuel-71 | Admirable-Fuel-71

Betrayed for 8 years, justified bitterness towards ex-boyfriend and twin.

Heraonolympia123 | Heraonolympia123

Don't let your family tarnish this wonderful time in your life 🎉

allison375962 | allison375962

Betrayal hurts, trust your feelings and don't doubt yourself 💔

Economy-Cut-7355 | Economy-Cut-7355

Cutting off toxic family members brings peace and happiness 🙌

Zausted | Zausted

Betrayed by her twin brother and ex-boyfriend for years. #NTA 💔

ghostguts | ghostguts

NTA and I am RAGING on your behalf! 🤬 Don't let them force a relationship on you, you have the power.

LadyCollywobbles | LadyCollywobbles