A childfree uncle offers to take his sisters' kids on vacation, but not all of them. One of the boys misbehaves and the uncle decides not to take him. Was he in the wrong? Read on to find out what happened and whether he was the a**hole in this situation.
Man Takes Two Nephews On Vacation, But Not The Other. Right Or Wrong?
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Generous uncle treats nephews to vacation, niece misses out. 😔
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A man offered to take his nephews on vacation, but after one misbehaved, he chose not to take him. Is he in the wrong? Read on to find out more about the situation and the reactions it has caused. Let's dive into the comments and see what people have to say about this family drama.
NTA. 8-year-old nephew's disturbing behavior raises red flags.
toomanydogs3 | toomanydogs3
Rewarding well-behaved nephews with vacation is lovely. Sister's neglectful parenting.
ForgottenZodiac | ForgottenZodiac
Taking an out-of-control 8-year-old on vacation? Nightmare fuel. 😨
KittKatt7179 | KittKatt7179
Taking one kid on vacation can be hard, but taking a little hellion? NTA.
Spike-Tail-Turtle | Spike-Tail-Turtle
Taking only well-behaved nephews on vacation, NTA according to comments 🏖️
teresajs | teresajs
Commenter supports OP and suggests taking 8M on vacation instead. 🍿
felicityrose5 | felicityrose5
NTA refuses to reward bad behavior with a vacation. 🔥
Bibbyrat | Bibbyrat
Teaching consequences or too extreme? NTA comment section.
stacity | stacity
Teaching a lesson: Nephew's bad behavior gets him left behind 😠
[deleted] | [deleted]
Nephew destroyed property, OP not responsible. NTA 👍
lelawes | lelawes
Teaching a life lesson with a vacation. 🏖️ NTA
fantastic-cabbage | fantastic-cabbage
Uncle OP not wrong for not taking badly behaved nephew. 👍
superflex | superflex
Nephew cut up shirt, left out of vacation. NTA decision.
slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad
Excluded nephew misbehaved, NTA for leaving him behind 🚫👨👦👦
mrslII | mrslII
Exclusion from vacation may serve as wake-up call for misbehaving child 🏖️
Bahnmor | Bahnmor
Teaching responsibility and consequences.👍
shzan1 | shzan1
Taking two nephews on vacation without the third who misbehaved 🤔
PotatoLover-3000 | PotatoLover-3000
Fair to take two nephews on vacation, not the others ✅
caterpillarsnever | caterpillarsnever
Rewarding good behavior is fair parenting. NTA, Annie is.
M89-90 | M89-90
Commenter defends vacation choice and criticizes parenting skills 🔥
Minimum-Green5187 | Minimum-Green5187
Parent shares struggles with child's special needs and food tantrums.
MagnificentMir | MagnificentMir
Disciplining kids is important for their growth 🌱
OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000
Disciplining kids can be tough, but rewarding in the long run 🙌
haasje83 | haasje83
Trial run helped reveal true colors. NTA 💁♂️
TresWhat | TresWhat
Polite behavior wins. NTA for excluding high-spirited child. 🤷
BassoHaase | BassoHaase
Setting boundaries with entitled family members. 🛑
LogicalJudgement | LogicalJudgement
Suggesting therapy for Damian instead of seaside trip. 💡
TemptingPenguin369 | TemptingPenguin369
Taking sides in family drama: NTA for excluding nephew.
LadyKnightAngie | LadyKnightAngie
Commenter warns about potential consequences for leaving out nephew.
paul_rudds_drag_race | paul_rudds_drag_race
Excluding a destructive child from vacation: reasonable or unfair? 🤔
dinahdog | dinahdog
Aunt wants to teach a lesson to a bad parenting sister. 👩👦👦
Lazy-Wind244 | Lazy-Wind244
Child's bad behavior justifies exclusion from vacation. NTA.
eyore5775 | eyore5775
Protecting two boys, leaving one out: NTA explained 🛡️
ocelotrevs | ocelotrevs
Teaching consequences: Uncle excludes badly behaved nephew from vacation 👍🏼
Roux_Harbour | Roux_Harbour
When 'high-spirited' is a euphemism for misbehaving kids 😒🙄
NectarineSmooth9408 | NectarineSmooth9408
Parent shares frustrating experience with undisciplined child and consequences.
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Excluding a child from vacation? NTA, but parenting is hard 😓
Usual-Worry8412 | Usual-Worry8412
Commenter defends uncle's decision to not bring entitled nephew 😎
Danjer9780 | Danjer9780
Fairness in family vacations debated. NTA defends decision.
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Being responsible and fair, while having fun in the sun 🌞
ravenshadow2013 | ravenshadow2013
Reframing the conversation: prioritize fun over exclusion 😊
VROF | VROF
Skipping one nephew on vacation: NTA, spoiled brat comment.
MrsNuggs | MrsNuggs
One nephew is a brat and gets consequences. NTA 👍
OrangeCubit | OrangeCubit
Teaching consequences: Nephew learns manners. 100% NTA 👍
DazzlingPotion | DazzlingPotion
Standing up for yourself and your choices. NTA 💪👍
coatrack68 | coatrack68
Trialing vacation without telling kids could have been wiser 🤔
TresWhat | TresWhat
Standing up to bad behavior. 🙅♀️
GrannyNugs | GrannyNugs
Taking two nephews on vacation but not the other: NTA
mfruitfly | mfruitfly
Commenter sympathizes with child abuse survivor, calls for therapy.
CoyKouchou55 | CoyKouchou55
It's not about being fair, it's about enjoying vacation! 🌴☀️ NTA
oieusouobixo | oieusouobixo