Man Takes Two Nephews On Vacation, But Not The Other. Right Or Wrong?

Alfe Mercado
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A childfree uncle offers to take his sisters' kids on vacation, but not all of them. One of the boys misbehaves and the uncle decides not to take him. Was he in the wrong? Read on to find out what happened and whether he was the a**hole in this situation.

Generous uncle treats nephews to vacation, niece misses out. 😔

tobeadessertman | tobeadessertman

Testing waters before a two-week vacation with nephews 🏖️

tobeadessertman | tobeadessertman

Nephew's entitlement causes chaos on family vacation 🙄🏝️

tobeadessertman | tobeadessertman

Child throws tantrum over breakfast options, demands waffles 🧇

tobeadessertman | tobeadessertman

Dealing with a difficult child on vacation with nephews 🏖️

tobeadessertman | tobeadessertman

Choosing favorites? Taking nephews on vacation sparks family drama.

tobeadessertman | tobeadessertman

Family feud over favoritism towards nephews on vacation 🏖️

tobeadessertman | tobeadessertman

AITA? Let's judge this uncle's family vacation decision 👀

tobeadessertman | tobeadessertman

To take or not to take? 🏖️‍♀️🧒🧒🏼

A man offered to take his nephews on vacation, but after one misbehaved, he chose not to take him. Is he in the wrong? Read on to find out more about the situation and the reactions it has caused. Let's dive into the comments and see what people have to say about this family drama.

NTA. 8-year-old nephew's disturbing behavior raises red flags.

toomanydogs3 | toomanydogs3

Rewarding well-behaved nephews with vacation is lovely. Sister's neglectful parenting.

ForgottenZodiac | ForgottenZodiac

Taking an out-of-control 8-year-old on vacation? Nightmare fuel. 😨

KittKatt7179 | KittKatt7179

Taking one kid on vacation can be hard, but taking a little hellion? NTA.

Spike-Tail-Turtle | Spike-Tail-Turtle

Taking only well-behaved nephews on vacation, NTA according to comments 🏖️

teresajs | teresajs

Commenter supports OP and suggests taking 8M on vacation instead. 🍿

felicityrose5 | felicityrose5

NTA refuses to reward bad behavior with a vacation. 🔥

Bibbyrat | Bibbyrat

Teaching consequences or too extreme? NTA comment section.

stacity | stacity

Teaching a lesson: Nephew's bad behavior gets him left behind 😠

[deleted] | [deleted]

Nephew destroyed property, OP not responsible. NTA 👍

lelawes | lelawes

Teaching a life lesson with a vacation. 🏖️ NTA

fantastic-cabbage | fantastic-cabbage

Uncle OP not wrong for not taking badly behaved nephew. 👍

superflex | superflex

Nephew cut up shirt, left out of vacation. NTA decision.

slendermanismydad | slendermanismydad

Excluded nephew misbehaved, NTA for leaving him behind 🚫👨‍👦‍👦

mrslII | mrslII

Exclusion from vacation may serve as wake-up call for misbehaving child 🏖️

Bahnmor | Bahnmor

Teaching responsibility and consequences.👍

shzan1 | shzan1

Taking two nephews on vacation without the third who misbehaved 🤔

PotatoLover-3000 | PotatoLover-3000

Fair to take two nephews on vacation, not the others ✅

caterpillarsnever | caterpillarsnever

Rewarding good behavior is fair parenting. NTA, Annie is.

M89-90 | M89-90

Commenter defends vacation choice and criticizes parenting skills 🔥

Minimum-Green5187 | Minimum-Green5187

Parent shares struggles with child's special needs and food tantrums.

MagnificentMir | MagnificentMir

Disciplining kids is important for their growth 🌱

OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000

Disciplining kids can be tough, but rewarding in the long run 🙌

haasje83 | haasje83

Trial run helped reveal true colors. NTA 💁‍♂️

TresWhat | TresWhat

Polite behavior wins. NTA for excluding high-spirited child. 🤷

BassoHaase | BassoHaase

Setting boundaries with entitled family members. 🛑

LogicalJudgement | LogicalJudgement

Suggesting therapy for Damian instead of seaside trip. 💡

TemptingPenguin369 | TemptingPenguin369

Taking sides in family drama: NTA for excluding nephew.

LadyKnightAngie | LadyKnightAngie

Commenter warns about potential consequences for leaving out nephew.

paul_rudds_drag_race | paul_rudds_drag_race

Excluding a destructive child from vacation: reasonable or unfair? 🤔

dinahdog | dinahdog

Aunt wants to teach a lesson to a bad parenting sister. 👩‍👦‍👦

Lazy-Wind244 | Lazy-Wind244

Child's bad behavior justifies exclusion from vacation. NTA.

eyore5775 | eyore5775

Protecting two boys, leaving one out: NTA explained 🛡️

ocelotrevs | ocelotrevs

Teaching consequences: Uncle excludes badly behaved nephew from vacation 👍🏼

Roux_Harbour | Roux_Harbour

When 'high-spirited' is a euphemism for misbehaving kids 😒🙄

NectarineSmooth9408 | NectarineSmooth9408

Parent shares frustrating experience with undisciplined child and consequences.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Excluding a child from vacation? NTA, but parenting is hard 😓

Usual-Worry8412 | Usual-Worry8412

Commenter defends uncle's decision to not bring entitled nephew 😎

Danjer9780 | Danjer9780

Fairness in family vacations debated. NTA defends decision.

[deleted] | [deleted]

Being responsible and fair, while having fun in the sun 🌞

ravenshadow2013 | ravenshadow2013

Reframing the conversation: prioritize fun over exclusion 😊

VROF | VROF

Skipping one nephew on vacation: NTA, spoiled brat comment.

MrsNuggs | MrsNuggs

One nephew is a brat and gets consequences. NTA 👍

OrangeCubit | OrangeCubit

Teaching consequences: Nephew learns manners. 100% NTA 👍

DazzlingPotion | DazzlingPotion

Standing up for yourself and your choices. NTA 💪👍

coatrack68 | coatrack68

Trialing vacation without telling kids could have been wiser 🤔

TresWhat | TresWhat

Standing up to bad behavior. 🙅‍♀️

GrannyNugs | GrannyNugs

Taking two nephews on vacation but not the other: NTA

mfruitfly | mfruitfly

Commenter sympathizes with child abuse survivor, calls for therapy.

CoyKouchou55 | CoyKouchou55

It's not about being fair, it's about enjoying vacation! 🌴☀️ NTA

oieusouobixo | oieusouobixo