Bride Kicks Out Her Bridesmaid For Using The N-Word, The Woman Expects An Apology And Refund For Her Expenses

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Friends of the bride or groom are supposed to be a blessing on their special day. All the attention is on the happy couple, which means the friends can take some time away from the spotlight and enjoy themselves. But what if one of those friends starts causing trouble? A bride recently reached out to the AITA subreddit on Reddit, sharing a tale from her wedding, and asking if she was in the wrong when she kicked out one of her bridesmaids.

The issue started when the said bridesmaid dropped the N-word during a conversation with a black friend of the bride. After getting called out on it and kicked out of the wedding party, she kept making a big deal out of apologizing and wanted some sort of retribution for all the flights she took to come to the wedding.

Check out the full story below. What would you have done in this situation? Let us know what you think, and if you’ve ever had to deal with a difficult bridesmaid or groomsman before, we’d love to hear from you as well.

Bridesmaid's racist comment sparks demand for an apology & reimbursement

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Friendship is tested when the bride kicks out a bridesmaid for using a racial slur. Bridesmaid expects an apology & refund.

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Bridesmaids from different countries meet for the first time.

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A bridesmaid's night out before the wedding took an unexpected turn when one guest's inappropriate questions sparked outrage.

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Bride kicks out bridesmaid for using the N-word. Unacceptable racism and demands for an apology and refund 🤬

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A bride is asking Reddit if she's in the wrong for refusing to apologize and refund a bridesmaid who used a racial slur

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Bride refuses to reimburse a bridesmaid or apologize after using a racial slur, instead asking her to consider the community's input.

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Jane apologizes for her language but Nya is left laughing over the bizarre apology

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The bride kicked out a bridesmaid for using a racial slur and expects an apology 😳

A bride had her bridesmaid kicked out the night before her wedding when she made a racial slur. This caused quite a stir, leading to the bridesmaid asking for an apology and reimbursement for her expenses. In an attempt to find a solution, the bride has turned to Reddit for advice on the situation. Read on below for comments and reactions.

There's no 🛑🛑 for racism! 🤬🤬

epostiler | epostiler

👎 NTA - bride did the right thing!

Aggressive_Cloud2002 | Aggressive_Cloud2002

🤔 Jane's behavior crosses a line

FreeTheWelder | FreeTheWelder

African & Korean perspectives 👀

Talisa87 | Talisa87

💯 NTA: Right thing done!

JancariusSeiryujinn | JancariusSeiryujinn

⚖️ NTA: "I don't apologize to racists"

beingboring | beingboring

Bigoted bride caught red-handed 🔴

kilgirlie | kilgirlie

Bridesmaid demands apology 🤔

she_who_is_not_named | she_who_is_not_named

Bridesmaid gets kicked out😱

comment-a | comment-a

👏🏼 Bride stands up for a friend!

Miss_Skywalker_ | Miss_Skywalker_

Exploring racism and cultural differences 👀

throwgangaway | throwgangaway

Bride kicks out bridesmaid 🤷‍♀️

Ok-Kaleidoscope-2785 | Ok-Kaleidoscope-2785

A***le bridesmaid gets kicked out by brides🤯

Dr_slave_princess | Dr_slave_princess

Jane🤔 NTA 🤷‍♀️

ByeMan | ByeMan

Bride kicks out bridesmaid🤬

BuildingMaleficent11 | BuildingMaleficent11

Bride takes a stand 💪🏾

Savings_Bird_4736 | Savings_Bird_4736

Bride kicks out racist bridesmaid 🤷

ramblinjd | ramblinjd

🗣️️ NTA! Bride fights racism 👏

gaelicpasta3 | gaelicpasta3

NTA- Bride 👰 kicks racist bridesmaid out of wedding 💔

chroniccomplexcase | chroniccomplexcase

A friendship ending over racism🤯

embopbopbopdoowop | embopbopbopdoowop

Bride stands 💪 against racism!

TarnishaDaSilva | TarnishaDaSilva

NTA - Good 👏 For 👏 Calling 👏 Her 👏 Out!

Safe_Frosting1807 | Safe_Frosting1807

No, not crossing that line ✋

FabledWarren | FabledWarren

Bride kicks out bridesmaid🚫

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NTA - 👍🏼

Duckey_003 | Duckey_003

Bride kicks out bridesmaid 🚫

Safe_Vegetable6036 | Safe_Vegetable6036

Bride sends bridesmaid ✋ to the curb!

cultqueennn | cultqueennn

Bride kicks out bridesmaid 😡

SatelliteBeach123 | SatelliteBeach123

👏 A "hero" 💪

rhysticism | rhysticism

A bride does the right thing 👏

what-even-is-a-user | what-even-is-a-user

Bridesmaid was kicked out for using N-word!

[deleted] | [deleted]

Bride ✔️ right: NTA 🙅‍♀️

AlcareruElennesse | AlcareruElennesse

Bride kicks out bridesmaid😬

itsdirector | itsdirector

🤯 NTA: Bridesmaid needs a reality check

Heavy_metal_octopus | Heavy_metal_octopus

🤦‍♀️ NTA: Jane made a mistake

neverfeltthesame22 | neverfeltthesame22

Bride kicks out bridesmaid 🤯

Loves_LV | Loves_LV

Bride kicks out bridesmaid🥺No racism allowed!

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Bridesmaid displays ignorance 😤

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😡 Bride kicks out 💁 bridesmaid

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NTA: ✋🏼 Racism won't be tolerated

shclapstik | shclapstik

🤷🏽‍♀️ NTA: Bride kicks out bridesmaid.

HenryBellendry | HenryBellendry

Bride Kicks Out Bridesmaid🤦‍♀️

crazeelala2u | crazeelala2u

🤷‍♀️ No apologies to racists! 🙅‍♀️

yourcatsbff | yourcatsbff

Friend 👏 stands 👏 up 👏 for 👏 a 👏 racist 👏 comment!

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No one deserves racism 🤬

hetanos | hetanos

NTA - 🤬🤬🤬

Sensitive_Coconut339 | Sensitive_Coconut339

🤦‍♀️ NTA: No defense 💔

GurElectronic4706 | GurElectronic4706

Bride kicks out bridesmaid🚫

Torple_Lemon | Torple_Lemon

👏 Protecting friends & standing up against racism 💪

Legalrelated | Legalrelated

Bride rightfully kicks out bridesmaid ✋

RyanStoppable | RyanStoppable

🙅‍♀️💰 Big 'I have a black friend' 🤦‍♀️

cmlobue | cmlobue

Bride kicks out bridesmaid 🤯

aLittleTooEverything | aLittleTooEverything

Lesson learned 👌🏼

Strict_Double_9176 | Strict_Double_9176

👏🏼 Standing up for Nya!

Beautiful-Peak399 | Beautiful-Peak399

🤦‍♀️NTA: Bride kicks out bridesmaid!

Mymzygray | Mymzygray

🚫 Racism won't fly 🚫

zedsdead79 | zedsdead79

Friendship wins 👭

Suspicious_Disk_9513 | Suspicious_Disk_9513

Bride kicks out bridemaid😱

Pure-Purpose9248 | Pure-Purpose9248

Bride kicks out bridesmaid🔥

Dogmother123 | Dogmother123

A stand against racism 💪

WetMonkeyTalk | WetMonkeyTalk

Bride kicks out bridesmaid👊

Lady-Meows-a-Lot | Lady-Meows-a-Lot

The bride was right to kick out the bridesmaid 🤦‍♀️

EmGeePlus3 | EmGeePlus3

No red flags before the wedding?🤔

the-chonkiest-seal | the-chonkiest-seal

Bride kicks out bridesmaid 🤷🏻‍♀️

TastyHome8183 | TastyHome8183

Fighting racism with 💪🏼

LiveLovelyLala | LiveLovelyLala

Bride 🤵 Kicks 🚫 Out 🏃‍♀️ Racist 🤬 Bridesmaid 💃

The-Moocat | The-Moocat

NTA! 🤷‍♀️

Appropriate-Spread91 | Appropriate-Spread91

👌 Standing up for what's right! 💯

No_Cricket808 | No_Cricket808