Reddit Disagrees With Woman Who Accused Her Fiancé's Teen Daughter As Manipulative

Dating a single dad has different challenges than dating a single guy without kids. Before entering into this kind of relationship, it is best to know what to expect. Oftentimes, his kids will be his number one priority. It goes without saying that single dads and their kids come in a package deal. This means you have to accept that you may always come second in his life.

Being able to co-exist peacefully with your partner's children is essential. If you want a future with them, you should develop a relationship with their kids. They may not accept you right away, and that's okay, says eHarmony. It's normal for kids to take a while to warm up to their parent's new partner.

"It’s not advised to insist on meeting his kids unless you’re very serious about the relationship. Your partner will introduce you only when he’s sure it’s the right time. Don’t expect the kids to immediately accept you – their approval might take time, but it is important for the future of the relationship."

In the case of the OP's story, the dad clearly puts priority on his daughter. Because of her autoimmune disease, she may need extra attention and love from her father, especially since her mom isn't around anymore.

The community agreed that the OP's approach was bordering on evil stepmom and she should've been more sympathetic.