15 Things Someone Did That Made A Friend Change Their Entire Perspective

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Having good friends in your life is important. Some friends will always be there, but there are just those few people who will go to the ends of the Earth for you.

Some friends can be there for you in the best of ways and prove their worth. However, there are also people who can destroy what you thought of them, too.

She helped him communicate with his niece.

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"When I told her my baby niece was likely going to lose her hearing she went online, found a sign language class, and offered to take it with me because she knew it would be important for me to have someone to practice with (I live pretty far from my family who all were taking classes together)," wrote iwatchwaytoomuchpbs.

Cut her off because she's single.

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nectarflux shared that after she was a bridesmaid for her friend who had just gotten married and spent tons of money on the wedding, her friend said now that she's married, she only wants to spend time and hang out with other couples.

She ghosted her after she helped her move.

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MidnightFireHuntress said she helped a friend move into her new place. She borrowed her brother's truck, moved everything for 12+ hours with her friend, and even paid for lunch. Then, her friend totally ghosted her after she moved in. She even threw a housewarming party and didn't invite her.

She updated her stalker every single time she moved and changed her number.

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SleepFlower80 said that she had a stalker and she kept moving and changing her number to get away from him, but somehow he always got her new number and new address. Turns out, her friend was giving it to him the entire time. She thought that the Reddit user should "give him a chance."

She advocated for another woman's child.

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"She went to court on behalf of her baby daddy's other baby mama so her boy wouldn't have to see him while he was being an unfit parent. For her to advocate for someone else's kid like that made me think really highly of her," shared Miss_Westeros.

Walked in on her sleeping with her husband.

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misspallet said that while her best friend (at the time) was visiting, she woke up to an empty bed and went downstairs only to find her husband and her friend having sex on the couch. Instant divorce and end of the friendship.

She was trying to learn all of her traits to date her ex.

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"Found out she was only friends with me to find out why my ex was still in love with me. She wanted to emulate my traits so she could date him. It was really sad because I thought I found someone who really got me and shared all my interests, but she was just doing it on purpose and secretly hated spending time with me," said dindia91.

She didn't support her throughout her cancer treatments.

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mindlessmandee said she had gotten diagnosed with cancer, and her friend never supported her or even asked her about her health, treatments, or how she was feeling. Instead, she only talked about "her needs" and her life.

Treated her poorly but expected more in return.

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"Treated me like garbage after my miscarriage, but expected the world to walk on eggshells around her after she had one. She literally got pissed that someone in our nursing school class asked the instructor a question regarding pregnancy because 'he KNEW I had a miscarriage years ago. how dare he ask the instructor that during class,'" said agent-lana-kane-.

Kept up with her to make sure she was okay.

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YeaItsMeWhatsUp said that she was going through a really bad break up and her friend checked on her consistently to make sure that she was okay. She would also ask if she needed anything during that time.

Would steal from friends and stores.

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Wide_Fox9863 shared that a friend of hers would steal from stores and steal from other friends of theirs. One night, they were at another friend's house and she stole $1,200 of her friend's money she was saving.

Just dropped her out of nowhere.

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"My best friend since HS (12 years) dropped me like a hot bag of dog sh*t summer of 2020 & I will never understand why or what happened... truthfully I don't think I'll ever 'get over it' either," said babyjames333.

She told her to stop talking about her cancer so much.

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BratS94 shared that a friend of hers told her she was talking "too much" about her cancer diagnosis and her treatments. She was totally unsympathetic and cruel to her during this time. Now, they're not friends anymore.

Flew all the way to see her for her birthday.

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"She flew out for my birthday! It was amazing and it made me feel very loved. Just knowing that she has my back made everything a little bit better. I love her to pieces and she's my best friend," said Secretly-Fluff.

She was using her social media accounts to message random dudes.

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iamconfusionous said she found out that a friend of hers was signing into her social media accounts to message random guys pretending to be her and then deleted the messages. She thought it was hilarious, but obviously, her friend didn't.