Twin Tells Sister She Blew Chance With Crush For Being A Misogynistic Pick-Me Girl

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Identical twins lying on grass.
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Identical twins with different personalities, one a misogynistic pick-me girl, the other more level-headed. The latter had a chance to set up her sister with a crush, but it didn't go well. The sister's obsession with male validation, and her misogynistic attitude, led to a disastrous date.

After the date, the level-headed twin told her sister why she lost the chance with her crush. The sister demands an apology, but the twin doesn't feel like giving one.

Is the twin the a**hole in this situation? Read on to find out.

Sister's pick-me attitude costs her a shot with crush

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Kim's crush on frat boy Dave causes college drama 🔥

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A crush at a coffee shop, but will misogyny ruin everything?

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Sister rejects crush, sets him up with twin instead 👯‍♀️

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Crush gives expensive lip gloss back, avoids second date. 💄

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Sister's misogyny ruins date, insults waitress for 'looking easy' 😒

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Dave's chivalry backfires on Kim in this cringe-worthy encounter 😬

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Sister's crush walked out on her for being a misogynist pick-me 😳

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Sister ruins chance with crush by being a misogynistic pick-me 🙅

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Sister calls out misogynistic crush, now seeking apology. AITA?

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Understanding the root of toxic behavior and insecurity.

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Sister's plan to convince Kim to attend therapy after holidays 🙏

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Sister apologizes to crush for misogynistic incident, still friend-zoned. 🤦

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Excited for lunch with crush, unsure if it's a date 💕

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Sisters clash over misogynistic crush in public restaurant 🍽️

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Sister loses crush for being 'unmanly', demands 'alpha male'.

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Sister's crush turned out to be a misogynistic pick-me 🙄

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Sister updates supporters on potential love interest with Dave 👀

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User shares excitement over AI-voiced post on TikTok

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When a misogynistic pick-me ruins her twin's chance with a crush

Identical twins with different personalities, Kim and the author attend the same college. Kim is a pick-me girl that always spews misogynistic nonsense, while the author is more grounded. When the author rejected Dave's offer to go out with her and instead set him up with Kim, she thought it was a good idea since they are identical.

However, after the disastrous date, Dave approached the author and asked her to return a lipgloss Kim left in his car. He revealed to the author that Kim was a misogynistic pick-me girl on their date, criticizing the waitress and saying things that would make a misogynist proud.

Dave was horrified and left Kim at the restaurant alone. The author told Kim that she ruined her chance with Dave because she couldn't stop being a misogynistic pick-me girl for even a second. After some drama, the author apologized to Dave on Kim's behalf and they ended up agreeing to meet up for lunch.

Will this be a date? Read on to find out!

Dave wins the hearts of commenters, and maybe OP too ❤️

smolsulk | smolsulk

OP misjudged crush and sister's extreme beliefs, but may not be TA. 😬

DracoPaladin | DracoPaladin

Queen Dolly would be proud of this NTA for calling out toxicity ❤️

Yellenintomypillow | Yellenintomypillow

🙅‍♀️No apology owed to sister, but missed chance with nice guy💔

DarkAthena | DarkAthena

Twin sister's misogynistic behavior ruins her chance with crush. 🚫👩‍👧‍👧 Identical twins only on the outside. ☝️

FordWarrier | FordWarrier

Sister sets up crush date, twin not the a-hole but...

ut_si | ut_si

Changing hair color to avoid being mistaken for sister's actions. 😂

descentbecomesafall | descentbecomesafall

Is the Conservative dating app the last resort for misogynistic men? 🤔

Rini1031 | Rini1031

Don't judge a book by its cover, sweet guys exist 😇

UndeadWarlock2022 | UndeadWarlock2022

Take your shot! Maybe Dave's still interested. 😉

Cool-Apricot1916 | Cool-Apricot1916

Commenter supports calling out misogyny, suggests alternative locations for crush.

Holmes221bBSt | Holmes221bBSt

Sister's toxic behavior gets called out, NTA sets boundaries ✌

imothro | imothro

Twin sets up sister with crush to avoid hurting her feelings ❤️

snarkisms | snarkisms

Sister's behavior is exhausting! 😴

cinderparty | cinderparty

Empowering response to sister's internalized misogyny. 🙌

dublos | dublos

Supportive commenter defends twin's actions against misogynistic sister 👍

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Twin gets called out for baiting sister's chance with crush 😬

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Agreeing with the commenter's perspective on misogyny and dating.

Sunny_Hill_1 | Sunny_Hill_1

Sister needed tough love, twin delivers with NTA comment 👏

GothPenguin | GothPenguin

Commenter compares story to Disney/Netflix rom-coms 🎬

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Comment section doubted authenticity of story with some support.

KhamBuddy | KhamBuddy

Is this a genuine comment or just trolling for upvotes? 🤔

somerandomshmo | somerandomshmo

Savage comeback! 😂

SnarkyBeanBroth | SnarkyBeanBroth

Commenter empathizes with the situation, shares their own experience.

Frequent_Train_3259 | Frequent_Train_3259

Sibling rivalry at its finest 🤼‍♀️

Ill-Conversation5210 | Ill-Conversation5210

Go for Dave! NTA for leaving a misogynistic crush 👍

samwisegeorgie | samwisegeorgie

Brutal honesty, NTA comment gets straight to the point 😬

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Encouraging response to sister's rejection with positive self-affirmation ✨

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Agreement that the sister is not the a**hole 👍

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Sister's chance with crush blown due to misogyny 🙅‍♀️

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Supportive twin gives reality check to sister about crush 🤝

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Encouraging comment to pursue crush despite consequences ❤️

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Hope for Dave to find a nice girl 🤞

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Commenter critiques story for stereotypical portrayal of women and sisters

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Celebrating decisive actions on bad dates 🚪🚶‍♀️

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Fighting the patriarchy, one sister at a time 💪

Eri_Berry | Eri_Berry

Sister stands up to misogynistic twin, NTA. Awkward identical dynamics ahead.

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Setting up a man with a misogynistic pick-me? ESH.

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Calling out fake story, comment gets no replies 👀

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Encouraging reply to NTA comment about going on a date 😍

Blood-Upbeat | Blood-Upbeat

An hour-long crush and a sneaky bathroom break?! 🤔

myfatkat | myfatkat

Sister gets brutally honest, Dave gets a bad date.

Scrytheux | Scrytheux

Looks aren't everything, being a decent person is more important 💁‍♀️

peppermintoreo | peppermintoreo

Sister's misogyny makes her undateable. NTA.

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Go for it! 🙌🏼 Dave sounds like a catch. 😍

Dear-Cricket-2629 | Dear-Cricket-2629

Setting boundaries and standing up for oneself. You go, NTA!

gretchesaurus | gretchesaurus

Discussion about misogynistic beliefs and dating preferences.

JumboJetz | JumboJetz

Rom-com potential: NTA encourages sister to give crush a chance ❤️

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Supportive comment section encourages OP's fanfic writing skills 📝❤️

ProblematicFairytale | ProblematicFairytale

Go out with Dave and show your twin what she's missing 💪🏼

TrelanaSakuyo | TrelanaSakuyo

Curious to know the sister's reaction to these comments? 🤔

highjinksabound | highjinksabound

Support for 'NTA' comment on #DateDave section

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Prejudging Dave backfired, but you're still NTA 🤣

SemperSimple | SemperSimple

Encouraging sister to give Dave a chance over abusive crush 💕

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Crush sees through sister's misogyny, commenter wishes her help ❤️

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