Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of family drama, body image struggles, and a holiday party gone wrong! Our protagonist, let’s call them the “Weight Warrior,” has been through the wringer when it comes to their weight. From anorexia to hormonal issues, they’ve seen it all! But the real kicker? Their family’s from Asia, where apparently, it’s totally cool to comment on someone’s weight… but only if they’re fat! Talk about a twisted double standard! So, when the Weight Warrior’s parents decided to invite a certain nosy family friend to their holiday shindig, despite the Warrior’s pleas, you just know things are about to get messy! Get ready for a wild ride!
️ A Weighty Issue: Growing Up with Body Image Struggles

The Rollercoaster Ride: From Too Thin to Too Heavy

The Twisted Double Standard: Thin is In, Fat is Out!

College Days: A Dangerous Dance with Anorexia and Bulimia

The Wake-Up Call: When Health Takes a Backseat

The Nosy Family Friend: Always Ready with a Weight Comment

The Holiday Party: A Recipe for Disaster

The Emotional Rollercoaster: Not Ready to Face the Music

The Promise: Parents Swear to Keep the Peace ✌️

The Party Begins: A Not-So-Warm Welcome

The Dinner Debacle: A Carb-Loaded Comment

The Breaking Point: All Hell Breaks Loose

The Party’s Over: A Night to Remember (or Forget)

The Aftermath: Parents Caught Between a Rock and a Hard Place

♀️ The Great Escape: Fleeing the Family Drama ♂️

The Holiday Party From Hell: Weight Comments, Carb Shaming, and a Dramatic Exit!
So, the big day arrives, and the Weight Warrior is face-to-face with their nemesis, the “Nosy Neighbor.” Right off the bat, Nosy’s raving about how much weight the Warrior’s lost, and things only go downhill from there! When it’s time to chow down, the Warrior goes for some noodles, and Nosy just can’t help but drop a carb-shaming comment! That’s when the Warrior loses it, slamming their plate down and telling Nosy to shut the f–k up before storming out! The party’s pretty much over at that point, and the Warrior doesn’t come back until the wee hours. ️ The parents are caught between a rock and a hard place, knowing they messed up but also mad at the Warrior for “ruining” the party. The Warrior’s having none of it, though, and hightails it back to grad school, leaving the family drama in the dust! ♀️ Now, let’s see what the internet has to say about this wild situation!
Support for standing up against body-shaming at family party.

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for enforcing them ✌️

Standing up for yourself: NTA comment and no replies.

Standing up to weight shaming at own party. NTA.

Guest and parents prioritized party over OP’s emotional well-being.

Standing up for yourself: NTA reprimands disrespectful guest

Supportive comment, acknowledges bravery and condemns family friend’s behavior.
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Parents ignore concerns, dismiss breakdown, expect polite reaction. NTA.

Asian American woman shuts down body shaming at party

Standing up to dickishness and parents like a boss!

Standing up against abuse

Setting boundaries and standing up for oneself. ✊

NTA, parents should’ve known better

Standing up for your emotional health is never a**hole move

Defending oneself against body shaming. NTA

Standing up to toxic guests and unsupportive parents like a boss! #NTA

An anorexic’s take on a triggering party situation. NTA.

Empathetic reply to woman’s struggle with eating disorder, family and guests.

Standing up against toxic behavior: NTA

Don’t mess with someone’s food choices! NTA for sure

Standing up to body-shamers: NTA for setting boundaries

Standing up against bullying family members. Good for you!

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries

Cultural norms don’t excuse rudeness. NTA for setting boundaries.

Mom defends OP and curses out unsupportive parents
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Body shaming is never okay. NTA for standing up for yourself.

Asian family weight shaming causes permanent body dysmorphia. NTA.

Standing up against food policing and cultural insensitivity.

Standing up for your mental health is always NTA

Body shaming isn’t funny. NTA for standing up to it.

Body shaming at workplace is unacceptable. NTA took a stance.

Supportive commenter praises OP for standing up to triggering behavior

Insensitive partner caused eating disorder flare up. NTA.

Defending someone’s reaction to insensitive remarks about eating disorders

NTA. Stand up for yourself and let them clean up their mess

Standing up against cultural body-shaming
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NTA stands up for herself against toxic comments about her eating disorder at a party

NTA stands up for herself against unsupportive family

NTA. The rude guest and spineless parents in one story ♀️
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Empathetic comment supports recovery and self-love ❤
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Defending OP’s reaction to a breach of trust by parents

Encouraging comment, wishing support for recovery from eating disorder

Sometimes it’s okay to be “rude” , NTA handled it well

Setting healthy boundaries and prioritizing mental health

Parents’ lack of support during eating disorder angers commenter

Standing up for your mental health and setting boundaries.

Encouraging comment on overcoming eating disorder with congratulatory tone

Defending oneself against rude guests, NTA wins this battle.

Standing up to harassment – NTA

ESH, but throwing a temper tantrum wasn’t the answer

Supportive comment validates OP’s feelings after triggering comments at party

Normalize respecting others’ bodies Don’t trigger eating disorders!
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Supportive comment defends swearing and praises mental health progress

Parents invite insensitive guy to party, blame daughter for outburst

Supportive comment shuts down party bully. NTA wins

The commenter suggests focusing anger on the person who caused harm

Empathetic comment supports confronting inappropriate behavior regarding eating disorders.

Standing up against body shaming

Supportive comment validates OP’s outburst at insensitive party guest

Supportive commenter validates OP’s feelings and calls out AH behavior.

Standing up to weight-shamers
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Supportive comment calls out inconsiderate behavior and offers encouragement ❤️

Supportive comment, stand up for yourself and your feelings
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Supportive comment: Standing up for oneself against insensitive behavior.

NTA for calling out rude behavior about weight issues

Supportive comment, agrees OP NTA, condemns insensitive person’s behavior.

NTA handles party conflict gracefully despite lifelong struggle

NTA wins the party, family and the other guy lose

Respect for parents and self is key. NTA

Stand up for yourself and prioritize your health.

Stand up for yourself and your boundaries!

Put your health first NTA for prioritizing yourself

Standing up for yourself is never wrong #NTA

Supportive comment calls out the insensitive behavior of others.

Justified reaction to rude comments, NTA for protecting yourself

Standing up for yourself against body shaming. NTA wins.
