A woman was on an important phone call when her boyfriend acted like a needy child. He repeatedly interrupted her and asked who she was talking to. She tried to wave him away, but he continued to follow her and even began unloading the dishwasher. The woman eventually snapped and called him worse than a needy 5-year-old. The incident left her feeling annoyed and frustrated. Now she’s asking Reddit if she was in the wrong for snapping at him. Read on to find out more about the situation and decide for yourself: was she the a**hole?
Quietly taking an important job call, but boyfriend needs attention

When your partner interrupts your job call

When your boyfriend can’t take a hint during job call

When your boyfriend just can’t give you some space

Woman calls out boyfriend for childish behavior during job call

When a job call is crucial, communication is key

When your needy boyfriend interrupts an important job call

Boyfriend interrupts important call, woman snaps: Annoying or disrespectful behavior?

Distractions during job calls can be frustrating. Avoid them!

Judging if the girlfriend is the a**hole or not

When your boyfriend acts like a child during an important call ♀️
Job interviews can be stressful enough without a needy partner trying to steal your attention. That’s exactly what happened to one woman who was trying to have an important call with a potential employer when her boyfriend kept interrupting her to ask who she was talking to. Despite her attempts to wave him away and continue with the call, he persisted in following her and even started unloading the dishwasher while she was on the phone. The woman eventually snapped at him, calling him worse than a nosey 5-year-old. While the boyfriend apologized and claimed he was just curious, the woman was left feeling annoyed and frustrated. As she reflects on the situation, she wonders if she overreacted and asks the internet for their judgment. Check out the comments section to see what people had to say about the situation.
Setting boundaries is important but why tolerate such behavior?

Boyfriend’s clingy behavior during job call makes him TA

Boyfriend acts like a needy child during job call, NTA.

Respectful boundaries are important, NTA
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Commenter sympathizes with OP’s frustration with needy boyfriend

Commenters agree: Boyfriend’s behavior was childish and unprofessional ♂️

Interrupting someone on the phone is rude. NTA.

OP’s boyfriend acts like a child during job call ♂️

Toxic blame-shifting red flag behavior –

Secret signal for needy boyfriend during work call

Ignoring hand signals and interrupting important call? Definitely the a**hole ♂️

Boyfriend interrupts important job call, compared to small puppy

Locking the door to avoid a needy boyfriend #NTA

Phone call etiquette: Interrupting is never okay. #NTA

Setting boundaries with a needy partner.

Commenter suggests possible reasons for boyfriend’s unacceptable behavior.

Handling distractions like a boss

Jealousy or insecurity? Understanding controlling behavior in relationships.

Commenter defends OP’s reaction to boyfriend’s interruption during job call
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Polite phone etiquette is crucial during an important call

Dealing with a needy partner during important calls is childish

Boyfriend acts like a toddler during important job call. NTA.

Setting boundaries is important in any relationship

Boyfriend’s behavior gets called out with NTA judgement

Partner’s intentional sabotage during job call is a red flag

Dump the child NTA

Boyfriend mistakes job call for friend chat, NTA snaps

Don’t let interruptions ruin important phone calls

Boyfriend interrupts important call, plays victim when called out. NTA.

Commenter asserts NTA and calls out boyfriend’s behavior.

Nanny compares boyfriend to 7-year-old during call. NTA obvious

Universal signs for do not disturb. ♀️

Woman shuts down needy boyfriend during job call ♀️

Commenter calls out women for excusing jerks, advises standing up.

Watch out for controlling partners, it only gets worse

Boyfriend’s social cues need work. NTA for snapping.

Supportive comment encourages growth for immature boyfriend

Boyfriend’s rude behavior during job call called out. #NTA ♀️

Setting boundaries while job searching is important. NTA

Setting boundaries: Woman not the a**hole for calling out boyfriend’s behavior

Commenter shares childhood phone manners lesson.
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Girlfriend stands up for herself against nosy boyfriend ♀️

Boyfriend’s codependent behavior exposed during job call. #NTA

Commenter calls out immature boyfriend, NTA

Comparing a needy boyfriend to a mischievous cat

Being a needy child during job calls = red flag

Boyfriend interrupts important job call, NTA for snapping.

Boyfriend interrupts job call, commenters agree NTA for snapping back

Clear communication, NTA. Don’t interrupt important job calls.

Beware of coercive control. NTA for setting boundaries.

Partner’s behavior jeopardizes job interview, commenter not at fault.
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Boyfriend disregards privacy and sabotages job call ♂️

Setting boundaries during phone calls.

Handling a needy partner during work calls

Agreeing with the commenter’s response.

Not a**hole move, but why? More context needed

Not the a**hole for calling out childish behavior ♀️

Woman not in the wrong for snapping at needy boyfriend

Ignoring social cues during important call, NTA set boundaries

Boyfriend interrupts important job call, blames OP. NTA.

Boyfriend interrupts important job call, called out for lack of manners ♂️

Dating a man-child? NTA for calling it out!

Agreeing with the judgement, commenters express their exasperation

Phone etiquette 101: Don’t interrupt calls and shush

Handling a needy partner during an important call

Commenter defends boyfriend’s behavior during important job call

Boyfriend’s childish behavior during job call earns him NTA judgment

Advice to move on from needy boyfriend. ♀️

Boundaries are important. NTA for needing privacy during call.

Commenters agree: Boyfriend may be sabotaging job prospects

Commenter expresses concern about potential job sabotage

Teaching children phone etiquette, a lost art
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Partner’s passive aggression won’t change unless they make effort

NTA. Controlling behavior is a red flag . Time to go.

Boyfriend sabotages job call, commenter says NTA

Boyfriend lacks privacy respect during important call. NTA.

Sassy response to needy partner during important call

Boundary issues? Needy partner prioritizes curiosity over respect.
