Woman refuses to clean bed after husband repeatedly wets it, causing him to sleep on the floor

When your partner is incontinent, it can be a difficult situation for both parties involved. But what happens when one partner refuses to take responsibility for cleaning up the mess? In this AITA post, a woman is faced with this very issue. Her husband has a medical condition that causes him to wet the bed, and he refuses to wear adult diapers. The woman has cleaned up after him over 40 times, but when she finally refuses to do it again, her husband is left sleeping on the floor. Is she a monster for refusing to clean up after him, or is he in the wrong for not taking responsibility for his own bodily functions? Read on to find out what the Reddit community thinks.

Wife discusses caring for husband with medical condition

Managing medical side effects causing marital issues

Husband’s stubbornness causes wife to sleep alone.

Husband refuses to use adult diapers; wife won’t clean bed.

Wife tired of cleaning up after husband’s bedwetting problem

Wife stands up to husband’s bed-wetting demands at 2am ⏰

Wife’s revenge by refusing to clean wet bed angers husband

Wife faces backlash for not cleaning bed after husband wets it

Husband refuses to wear diapers, wife fed up with excuses

Wife refuses to clean bed after husband wets it. AITA?

Wife refuses to clean bed after husband repeatedly wets it

A woman has sparked a debate online after revealing that she refused to clean the bed after her husband repeatedly wet it. The woman explained that her husband has a medical condition that causes him to urinate excessively, but he refuses to wear adult diapers. As a result, the woman has cleaned the bed over 40 times in the middle of the night. However, one night, when her husband demanded that she clean the bed at 2 am, she finally refused and went back to sleep. The next morning she found her husband sleeping on the floor and he was furious, calling her nasty and heartless. The woman argued that it was her husband’s fault for refusing to wear adult diapers and that she was tired of cleaning the bed every night. The situation has caused a rift between the couple, with the husband’s sister even getting involved. Many people online are divided over who is in the wrong, with some sympathizing with the woman and others with the husband. Check out some of the reactions in the comments below.

NTA for refusing to clean husband’s constant bedwetting. Boundaries needed.

Spousal caregiver shares solidarity and advice for managing caregiver abuse.

Practical solutions suggested for husband’s incontinence issue with empathy.

Spouse refuses to take responsibility for their actions despite inconvenience

Sister should clean the bed for a month NTA

Wife refuses to clean bed after husband wets it repeatedly. NTA.

NTA. Leave the abusive and selfish husband, hire a nurse.

Husband wets bed, wife refuses to clean. Suggestions for solutions.

Neglecting his health or just being lazy?

Commenter questions husband’s behavior and abilities, receives thoughtful replies

Spouse wets bed, but expects partner to clean it? NTA

Supportive commenters rally behind OP against judgmental sister-in-law

CNA advises woman to not let her lazy husband shame her ❤️

Recognize abuse, seek help.

Wet bed, dry ego. NTA’s refusal to clean causes conflict.

Empathize with frustrated husband, but in-laws intervention was wrong

NTA. Nurse suggests bed pads and skilled nursing help.

Spouse refuses to clean up after himself, needs therapy ‍♀️

NTA: Commenter calls out husband’s hypocrisy in bed-wetting situation

Setting boundaries is crucial for caregivers.

Encourage use of diapers, prioritize your well-being.

Partner with medical conditions treats wife like a nurse

Wife caring for incontinent husband but can’t neglect her own sleep

Incontinence pants are medical equipment. NTA for suggesting them.

Gratitude for partner’s help in health issues, not rudeness.

Medical professional confirms NTA and offers advice to OP.

Stand your ground! No one should be responsible for adult bed-wetting.

Commenter suggests medical issue may be causing husband’s bedwetting.

Husband’s bedwetting behavior resembles that of a defiant toddler

Setting boundaries is important. NTA for making him clean up.

Leave that disrespectful husband ️ and find happiness elsewhere

Hiring a professional caregiver can save your sleep and sanity ✨

Helpful suggestion for waterproof mattress topper for husband’s issue. NTA.

Taking a stand against a bed-wetting husband ️

Caring for incontinence is a marathon, not a sprint. Set boundaries.

Empowering response! NTA chose wisely in this situation.

Not the a**hole for refusing to clean bed ️

Husband’s illness used as an excuse for manipulating and mistreating wife

A helpful suggestion for a difficult situation

Not the a**hole for refusing to clean after husband’s accidents

Refusing to clean after husband repeatedly wets bed is NTA

Commenter shares personal experience with diuretic medication.

Husband’s weaponized incontinence and gaslighting – NTA for upholding boundaries

Wife not at fault for husband’s bedwetting problem.

Refusing to clean urine-soaked bed, but still the good guy ‍♀️

Spouse wets bed, partner refuses to clean. Divorce?

Handling gastrointestinal issues with dignity and hygiene.

Husband’s bed-wetting makes wife refuse to clean. NTA wins.