Losing a loved one is never easy, especially when it’s a sibling. For one woman, the loss of her sister at a young age has left a deep emotional scar. Her boyfriend, however, seems to think it’s okay to make insensitive jokes about her being an only child. When the woman finally speaks up and tells her friends how hurtful the jokes are, they side with the boyfriend, leaving her feeling even more hurt and isolated. Now, she’s left wondering if she was too harsh in her reaction. Was she? Or is her boyfriend and their friends the a**holes in this situation? Read on to find out.
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Losing a loved one is never easy, and it can be especially difficult when others make insensitive jokes about it. This is the situation one woman found herself in when her boyfriend made jokes about her being an only child, despite knowing that her sister had passed away at a young age. The woman explained how hurtful these jokes were and how she still feels the presence of her sister in her life. However, some of her friends and her boyfriend argued that she was being overly dramatic and not accepting of jokes. This led to a heated argument and the woman questioning if she was wrong for standing up for herself. It’s important to remember that everyone grieves differently and it’s not okay to make light of someone’s loss. In the next section, we’ll take a look at some of the reactions and comments to this difficult situation.
Insensitive boyfriend and friends make jokes about woman’s deceased sister. NTA.

Commenters sympathize with OP and condemn boyfriend’s cruel behavior

Insensitive boyfriend and friends disregarding loss of sister. #BreakUp

Heartfelt condolences and a new perspective on sibling loss

Lack of empathy from boyfriend for loss of sibling. NTA.

Dump the trash ️, find someone who values you

NTA – Boyfriend and friends lack social skills, bully you.

Insensitive boyfriend raises red flags for future support and empathy.

Insensitive boyfriend? Dump him! You’re NTA

Insensitive boyfriend refuses to stop making hurtful jokes

Insensitive jokes about losing a sibling are horrid

Stand your ground against disrespectful ‘jokes’ from your partner ♀️

Insensitive jokes about death = major AH move

Insensitive boyfriend needs to learn how to be supportive

Insensitive jokes about loss of a loved one? NTA! Set boundaries

Dump him. You deserve someone who respects your feelings ❤

Insensitive boyfriend? Dump him! NTA, sorry for your loss

Cut him and his friends off

Insensitive boyfriend makes fun of loss, time for new partner.

Commenter calls out insensitive boyfriend, labels him ‘gross’

Setting boundaries is key. Stand up for yourself. ✊ #NTA

Is the boyfriend really an a**hole?
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Stand up for yourself, dump the insensitive duck

Insensitive boyfriend makes insensitive jokes. Commenter supports OP.

Standing up to insensitive jokes, NTA handled it like a boss

Insensitive jokes about loss show lack of care and empathy.

Empathetic comment, suggest leaving insensitive boyfriend.

Stand up for yourself and your sister

Being an only child doesn’t justify insensitive jokes about loss

Dump his sorry a**

Grieving sibling defends their right to mourn. ✊

Insensitive boyfriend continues to make hurtful jokes about sister’s death.

Insensitive boyfriend needs to stop invalidating her sister’s life.

Supportive comment section, defending against insensitive joke with informative reply

Insensitive boyfriend and friends need to grow up. #NTA

Insensitive boyfriend makes jokes about sensitive topic, seek help.
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Dump the insensitive boyfriend and prioritize your mental health

Grieving is normal, telling someone to stop is okay

Insensitive boyfriend makes tasteless jokes, invalidates partner’s feelings #NTA

Insensitive boyfriend lacks basic empathy, NTA for leaving him.

Insensitive boyfriend makes painful joke, earns NTA judgment.

Standing up against insensitive jokes – NTA shines through ✊

Empathetic commenter offers advice to support OP dealing with boyfriend’s insensitivity.

Insensitive boyfriend repeatedly hurts feelings, time for a better one

Stand up for yourself! You deserve someone who respects you

Setting boundaries is important. If he can’t respect them, leave.

Support for not being an only child despite sibling loss.

Dump him . No one deserves to be invalidated.

Insensitive boyfriend makes hurtful jokes, friends may be involved too

Sibling loss stays with you forever. BF’s insensitive joke=NTA

Grieving is personal, your boyfriend is not respecting that

Heartbreaking loss, unsupportive partner. You’re not alone ❤

Defending against cruelty, ♀️ NTA stands strong

Insensitive boyfriend gets called out for disrespect by NTA commenter

Dealing with death is hard, but invalidating it is worse

Supportive commenters encourage OP to leave unsympathetic partner and friends ❤️

Commenter suggests a solution to insensitive boyfriend with sarcasm

Navigating questions about being an only child after losing a sibling

Partner’s insensitive ‘jokes’ cross a line. You deserve better.

Empathy shines through in support of OP’s actions ❤️

Boyfriend’s insensitive jokes are bullying behavior, time to leave him

Commenter calls out double downers as major a**holes

Dump him You’re NTA

Losing a sibling is tough. Boyfriend’s insensitive jokes are unacceptable

NTA’s boyfriend is a bully who enjoys hurting her feelings

Dump the insensitive boyfriend. True friends offer apologies.

Insensitive jokes after tragic loss? Not cool

Dump the insensitive boyfriend, he’s a cruel a**hole

Dump the monster bf. You still have a sister

Heartbreaking story of insensitivity towards sister’s loss by boyfriend

Defending departed sister against insensitive boyfriend.

User defends poster and calls out boyfriend’s insensitivity
