Have you ever planned a trip, only to get disinvited from it? Most likely not, because that kind of thing makes no sense. How could anyone ask you to plan and book a trip for them, just to turn around and tell you that they don’t want you to go with them anymore?
Well, that exact thing happened to a Reddit user who goes by snowboardingblues. She and her boyfriend planned a ski trip that quickly became a boys’ trip. Now, her boyfriend’s friends are mad at her for not wanting to be disinvited from the trip that she planned. She asked AITA if she was overreacting .
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The User Shares Her Story.
The User Feels Slighted By Her Boyfriend’s Friends.
OP had planned a ski trip with her boyfriend but invited his friends and their girlfriends to come along if they wanted. Since they’re both gamers, OP and her boyfriend were also planning to have a LAN party.
But the friend’s girlfriends couldn’t go, and they decided to make the trip a boys’ trip. This meant disinviting OP, the person who planned the trip to begin with. OP shared that her boyfriend is a bit of a people pleaser, and didn’t want to get between his girlfriend and friends. She also shared that the friends are pretty sexist, though they act like they’re just joking around.
OP expressed her anger in being disinvited from her own trip, but the friends think she’s being a total jerk about it.
The Comment Section Overwhelmingly Agreed That The Friends Are In The Wrong.
The comment section is pretty angry at the friends on OP’s behalf. The friends are totally out of line for forcing her out of the trip when it was hers to begin with. Commenters feel that OP should unbook the trip for everyone if she even has the power to do so.
Users Were Also Appalled By The Boyfriend.
The fact that the boyfriend didn’t want to side with OP, and sided with his friends instead is a huge red flag for a lot of users. Especially since the friends seem like they might not be very nice people.
In Fact, Multiple Commenters Felt That OP Should Leave Her Boyfriend.
They pointed out that, even though he’s a people pleaser, that doesn’t seem to include his own girlfriend. Multiple commenters cautioned OP to break up with her BF and stay away from his friends.
