A woman’s sister moves in with her after losing her job, but instead of helping with household chores or contributing to utility bills, she spends most of her time playing with the woman’s 1-year-old son. When she refused to change the son’s diaper, the woman finally had enough and kicked her sister out. However, her family is now calling her wicked for doing so. Was the woman justified in kicking out her sister or was it unfair to expect her to provide free child care? Read on to find out.
Growing up with an absent sister and a significant age gap

Navigating a rocky relationship with a sibling

Bonding opportunity turns sour as sister refuses to help out.

Sister mooching off me and not helping with anything

Sister kicked out for not helping with nephew’s diaper change

Mom struggles to get sister’s help with baby, forced to multitask

Sisterly love lost over dinner duty ️

No more free babysitting: Woman kicks out sister amid disagreement

Woman kicks out sister over childcare dispute
A woman’s sister moves in with her after losing her job but refuses to help with household chores and only plays with her nephew for short periods. When the woman asks her sister to change her son’s diaper, she refuses and calls the woman to do it instead. The woman ultimately kicks her sister out after she refuses to contribute to the household. This has caused a rift in her family, with her parents and siblings criticizing her for expecting free childcare from her sister. Read on for the comments and reactions.
NTA for kicking out sister who contributed nothing and refused to help with baby.

Family member refuses to help with childcare, gets kicked out. NTA ♀️

NTA. Sister mooching off, OP kicks out. Family guilts OP.

NTA: Sister won’t change a diaper, gets kicked out

NTA’s sister needs to contribute to the household in some way

Did OP have a discussion with her sister about household responsibilities?

Sister refuses to help with son, gets kicked out. NTA

Commenter defends OP’s decision to kick out entitled sister.

Expectations should have been outlined before moving in. ESH.

Communication breakdown leads to sister’s eviction

Fair expectations? Commenter defends not forcing sister to help with son.

Sister accepts generosity without offering help, both at fault ♀️

Setting boundaries with family is tough but necessary. ♀️

Unemployed sister needs to contribute or move out. NTA
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Expectations unclear, both sisters share blame for childcare disagreement. ♀️ ♀️

Generous host kicks out entitled sister after 7 months. NTA

Commenter defends OP’s decision to kick out entitled sister.

Sibling drama! Kicked out sister gets what she deserves.

NTA for asking sister to change a single diaper

Curious why sister lives rent and chore free for 7 months

Fair to ask for help or not? Let’s discuss.

Curious if sister agreed to help with childcare beforehand

Setting boundaries with family, but it’s not easy

Setting ground rules for living together is important.

No agreement, no complaints! ♀️ ESH

Sister refuses to help with son, gets kicked out. NTA

Setting boundaries with family is important. NTA for prioritizing self-care.

Family drama and free childcare gone wrong. ESH ♀️
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Sister won’t help with child care, gets kicked out. NTA

Taking a stand against freeloading siblings ♀️ #NTA

NTA. Sister refuses to contribute, time to set boundaries

NTA for kicking out sister who won’t help with childcare

NTA for not helping at home during a family visit ♀️

NTA asks sister to contribute or leave household

Proper communication could have avoided this messy situation

Family should help sister, not burden you. NTA

NTA. Sister won’t help with son or contribute to household.
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Generous offer to help sister with free accommodation and chores.

Don’t let family guilt you into being a servant ♀️

Expectations not clear in sister’s eviction, but both at fault

Clarifying the terms of living arrangement could solve this conflict

Sister overstaying her welcome? Time to kick her out
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Fair expectations: No free childcare or living without contributing. #NTA

Living rent-free isn’t an excuse for being a freeloader
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Redditors relate to OP’s story of toxic family dynamics

Sister refuses to help with son, but OP is the bad one?

Sibling drama: woman kicks sister out for not helping with son

Sister takes advantage of sibling, expects free childcare. #NTA ♀️

Woman justified in kicking out sister who offered little help.

Sibling drama, but who’s really in the wrong?

Sister refuses to help with son; NTA requests nappy change

Encouraging NTA comment suggests sister should leave town

Sister refuses to help with baby, kicked out. NTA

Sister should contribute something for living rent-free

Sister’s refusal to help leads to eviction suggestion
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