In a post on AITA, a woman shared her experience of calling out her boyfriend’s fat-shaming in front of his friends. Her boyfriend had made a disgusted comment about “desperate fat chicks” on Tinder, prompting her to snap and ask him how he could criticize overweight women when he himself is obese.
While her boyfriend was hurt by her comment and is currently considering whether or not to forgive her, many Redditors are applauding her for standing up to his body-shaming behavior. The post has generated a heated debate on the topic, with some arguing that she was justified in calling him out, while others believe that she went too far.
Read on for the full story and let us know – was she the a**hole in this situation?
Boyfriend’s weight sparks controversy in relationship

Proud of her weight, woman shuts down fat-shaming boyfriend

Loving someone regardless of their weight: a true relationship goal ❤️

Supportive partner offers weight loss advice to struggling boyfriend

Boyfriend’s unsolicited diet advice causes relationship rift

Standing up to fat-shaming comments from a loved one

Woman challenges boyfriend’s unsolicited weight advice in public

Navigating fat-shaming in public spaces with friends and partners.

Woman shuts down boyfriend’s fat-shaming comment in epic clapback

Calling out fat-shaming comments can lead to uncomfortable situations.

Apologizing for standing up against fat-shaming? Sexism exposed

Judgement time! What’s your take on this AITA situation?

Breakup leads to relief for woman in fat-shaming incident.

Woman calls out boyfriend for fat-shaming, leads to breakup
Body shaming is never acceptable, especially when it comes from a loved one. A woman writes about her experience with her boyfriend who constantly offers diet advice and made a fat-shaming comment in front of friends. She stood up for herself and called him out, but it led to a breakup. Was she in the wrong for speaking up or was her boyfriend out of line? Let’s dive into the discussion and see what others have to say.
NTA for calling out boyfriend’s fat-shaming comment in public

Commenter calls out boyfriend’s fat-shaming, urges to move on.

Calling out sexism: Woman stands up to boyfriend’s fat-shaming comment.

Double standards in weight expectations from men highlighted by commenters

Fighting double standards and hypocrisy in fat-shaming. NTA.

NTA for calling out fat-shaming, but communicate with him gently

NTA for calling out boyfriend’s fat-shaming and misogynistic behavior.

Don’t settle for a guy who fat-shames you!

Double standards on weight. Boyfriend’s hypocrisy exposed.

Woman rightfully dumps boyfriend for fat-shaming her, internet applauds

NTA. Projection is a real thing!

Comment section devolves into disagreement over BMI and hypocrisy

Partner’s insecurity affecting relationship. He needs to take responsibility.

Standing up to fat-shaming bullies like a boss

YTA for calling out bf in front of friends

Woman’s boyfriend fat-shames her but doesn’t like muscle gain. NTA.

Boyfriend hypocritically fat-shames, calls women ‘chicks.’ NTA for calling out.

Calling out fat-shaming: Not the a**hole, but necessary

Don’t start none, won’t be none. Boyfriend’s fat-shaming called out.

NTA commenter warns of red flag moment in fat-shaming incident

Standing up against fat-shaming and sexism. You go, girl!
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Body-shaming is never acceptable, NTA for calling him out

Support for calling out fat-shaming boyfriend

Commenter finds irony in NTA post calling out fat-shaming boyfriend

Don’t let anyone police your weight! You go girl!

Dump him! NTA takes a stand against fat-shaming.

Reality check delivered: Woman confronts fat-shaming boyfriend in public

Body shaming has no place in any relationship. NTA.
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Stand up for yourself and your choices NTA

Call out hypocrisy! NTA for standing up for yourself

Body shaming is never okay. NTA for standing up.

Former boyfriend’s fat-shaming hypocrisy exposed, NTA

Standing up for oneself is always the right move ✊

Not the a**hole and rightfully calling out sexism

Curiosity kills the cat: breakup conversation goes anticlimactic

Judgment was ready, but it’s a NTA plot twist
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NTA calls out hypocritical boyfriend’s fat-shaming; advocates self-love

Woman calls out fat-shaming boyfriend, highlights toxic attitude.

Empowering response shuts down fat-shaming boyfriend.

BMI scale not accurate for everyone, don’t fat shame others

Commenter calls out hypocrisy in fat-shaming boyfriend.

Support for woman who stood up to fat-shaming boyfriend

Choosing a partner who respects you is self-care

Calling out sexism and standing up for oneself! You go!

Empowering response to fat-shaming comment on behalf of women ❤️
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Quick and satisfying justice served. ✅

Double standards on weight? Experiences shared in comment section.

Standing up for herself against fat-shaming boyfriend.

NTA calls out fat-shaming; theory on why some men do it.

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries

Agreeing with NTA comment about exhausting boyfriend

Commenter called out for body shaming boyfriend, but boyfriend also at fault. ESH.

Calling out fat-shaming double standards.

Woman stands up to fat-shaming and hypocrisy, calls out boyfriend

Body-shaming? Dump him and find someone respectful.

Standing up against fat-shaming and hypocrisy
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Hypocritical fat-shamer gets called out in front of friends

Standing up for herself and women’s health, NTA
