Wife REFUSES to Help Classmate Who OUTED Her Trans Husband!

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of school drama, invasive questions, and a serious case of oversharing! When I went back to school at 28, I never expected my husband’s private medical info to become the talk of the class. But thanks to my nosy classmate, Jess, that’s exactly what happened! ‍♀️ Now, months later, Jess is in a tough spot and wants my help. ⚠️ Should I put aside my grudge and lend a hand? Or is it time for Jess to face the consequences of her loose lips? Let’s dive in and unpack this messy situation!

Back to School Drama: A Classmate’s Invasive Questions

Picking Up Meds, Sparking Curiosity

Nosy Classmate Spots the Meds

Trying to Keep Things Private

Jess Pries Further, Crossing Boundaries

Jess Reads the Label, Puts Me on the Spot

Pleading for Discretion, Trusting Jess

Jess Spills the Beans, Classmates Pry ️

Adam’s Devastation, Classmates Ogle

Jess Falls Ill, Misses Classes

I Record Lectures, Jess Wants Access

Jess Pesters Me, I Reach My Limit

Jess Airs Dirty Laundry in Class Chat

‍♀️ My Stance: No Help for the Outer

Classmates’ Take: Help Jess Despite Her Actions

Classmate Conundrum: To Help or Not to Help the Gossip?

Well, well, well… looks like Jess is in quite the pickle! After blabbing about my husband’s private business to the whole class ️, she’s now begging for my lecture recordings. The audacity! My classmates think I should take the high road and help her out, even though her loose lips caused some serious drama. But honestly, I’m not feeling too generous after the way she violated our trust. ‍♀️ It’s a real moral dilemma, folks! Should I be the bigger person and throw Jess a lifeline? Or let her face the music and potentially fail her assignments? One thing’s for sure, this situation is messier than a toddler’s finger painting! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy tale of school scandal and secret-spilling!

Privacy violation? Cut them off! NTA wins the day

ESH for outing husband, no obligation to help classmate ‍♀️

Outed husband, now facing consequences. ESH except husband

Supportive comment: Outing someone in 2020? Not cool

OP criticized for outing husband, but Jess is still AH. ESH ‍♀️

Both parties are at fault, but classmate is still TA

NTA for not helping classmate who outed trans husband.

Outed trans husband, but still ESH for not helping.

Outing her husband was bad judgement, but classmate is nosy YTA.

Outing someone is never okay. Both parties are at fault.

You told on your friend’s trans identity? ESH.

You have no obligation to help after invasion of privacy

NTA commenter suggests a lecture on privacy invasion and betrayal.

Trans man praises OP for handling situation well, but expresses anger.

Outing someone without consent is never okay, ESH.

Outing someone is never okay. YTA for doing so.

Outing your own partner and refusing help makes everyone suck.

Reader calls out commenter for outing her trans husband. ESH.

Respecting boundaries and trust: NTA in this situation

Betrayed trust and lack of communication leads to conflict. ESH

Both parties made mistakes, burning bridges won’t solve anything

ESH for being invasive, outing, and being petty. Give recordings.

Boundaries respected. No help needed. NTA

NTA doesn’t feel bad for sick classmate who outed husband

ESH for outing husband, Jess also an a**hole

Outing is never okay, but educating is important too. ESH.

Multiple parties at fault for outing trans husband.

Handling nosy questions can be tough, but outing someone’s identity is not okay.

Keeping promises is key

Don’t feel bad, she could have asked someone else

Friend outs trans husband, commenter NTA for being upset.

Support for trans husband and anti-outing sentiment.

Outing her husband was wrong, but wife is also awful

Invasive questioning leads to outing a trans person. ESH.

Classmates deserve no help after outing trans husband. NTA.

Classmate outs trans husband, commenter shares blame, everyone sucks here.

Outing trans husband leads to ESH judgement in comments.

Outing your trans partner to an acquaintance makes everyone suck here ‍♀️

Refusing to help the classmate who outed her trans husband!

Practice responding to rude questions with “Why do you ask?”

Choosing personal values over helping someone who hurt a loved one. NTA

Defending against invasive questions about trans spouse. Stand your ground!

OP should have handled the situation better. Both parties at fault.

No obligation to help after her shitty behavior. NTA

Betraying husband’s confidence led to outing, NTA but irresponsible

Respecting privacy is a two-way street. NTA ‍♀️

Standing up to bullies and refusing to give them power!

Choose kindness over spite, even towards an idiot NPC. ❤️

Suggests a clever way to handle disclosing husband’s trans status.

Spreading gossip? ESH except Adam, but cover up better!

OP gets called out for excluding transphobic classmate. YTA.

Blocking is the way! No room for betrayal

Helping out of obligation? NTA draws the line

Defending against transphobia on social media, NTA receives backlash

Setting boundaries is key. NTA for protecting privacy

Trans commenter sympathizes with NTA, suggests privacy approach next time.

Outing someone is unacceptable. NTA for not helping.

Stand up for yourself and report the harassment

NTA commenter advises to ignore and not share recordings with betrayer.

Setting boundaries with a classy response. NTA

Don’t mess with a trans person’s spouse or you’re NTA ️‍⚧️

ESH: Commenter points out the outing and questions the pharmacy’s transparency.

ESH situation, but OP could’ve ignored and avoided further drama.

Trans woman stands up to classmate who outed her husband

Setting boundaries after betrayal can be a healthy choice

Don’t let her guilt-trip you, NTA. She’s the real B!tch

Be careful with recording policies, but NTA for standing up.

Reporting to school admins about medical info harassment

Don’t give in to blackmailers.

Setting boundaries is important, but don’t let it consume you.

Telling Jess about testosterone was a mistake, but ESH.

OP not the a**hole for refusing to help classmate who outed her trans husband ‍♀️

Karma strikes! NTA, don’t interfere with cosmic justice

NTA! Commenter thinks the wife should suffer consequences for outing.

Sh*tty behavior leads to repercussions. NTA takes a stand.