A wife is in a difficult situation as her husband’s coworker seems to have an inappropriate infatuation with him. The coworker’s behavior has escalated recently, including constant calls and texts at all hours of the day and night. The wife reached her breaking point when the coworker called at 2 am for help with her heat. The wife confronts her husband about the situation and gives him an ultimatum. Will the husband choose his wife or his coworker? Read on to find out and decide for yourself: AITA?
10 years in and an ultimatum arises over a coworker

Coworker’s crush on husband causing trouble at work

⚖️ Wife gives husband ultimatum over flirty coworker’s demands

Husband’s coworker causing marital troubles?

Is the coworker a threat to their marriage?

The coworker’s bold move raises suspicion and tension

Wife’s jealousy towards husband’s coworker reaches boiling point

Jealous coworker causing trouble in marriage, husband downplaying her actions.

Husband’s coworker crosses lines, wife gives ultimatum. Drama ensues.

When a coworker’s flirtation becomes a problem at home

Husband’s coworker crosses boundaries, wife issues ultimatum.

Wife puts her foot down on husband’s flirty coworker

Wife warns husband of flirty co-worker’s ulterior motives

Boundaries crossed: Wife issues ultimatum over husband’s coworker flirtation.

Wife gives ultimatum to husband’s flirty coworker. Marriage on line.

Navigating jealousy in marriage: when is it justified?

Is it really an ultimatum or just a tough decision?

Wife gives husband ultimatum over flirty coworker
A wife is at her wits’ end with her husband’s coworker, who has an inappropriate infatuation with him. The coworker, Tabitha, constantly calls and texts him for mundane things, and their interactions at the company Christmas party made it clear that she has feelings for him. The situation has escalated to the point where Tabitha is calling and texting him at all hours of the day and night. The wife gave her husband an ultimatum to choose between her or the coworker, but he insists that he only wants to help a friend and has no romantic feelings towards her. Is the wife overreacting or is her husband being naive? Read on to find out what others think and share your own thoughts.
Husband’s behavior is a red flag. Time for ultimatum?

Commenters suspect husband of cheating in flirty coworker dilemma.

Husband’s flirty behavior is a slippery slope to cheating

Wife gives ultimatum: NTA commenter agrees, warns of coworker’s actions
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Wife gives ultimatum after husband crosses line with coworker

A cautionary tale about a husband’s naive kindness towards a flirty coworker.

Is the husband cheating with his coworker?

NTA- Your husband is already emotionally cheating with his coworker
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Husband in hot water with flirty coworker, NTA for wife’s ultimatum

Wife gives ultimatum over husband’s flirty coworker, commenters discuss trust

Wife gives husband ultimatum after coworker’s flirty behavior.

Commenter suggests post is beyond AITA’s pay grade. Agree?

Husband in hot water for not seeing coworker’s advances. NTA.

Cheating suspicions confirmed at the party ️♀️

Husband’s flirty coworker causing marital troubles. NTA comment.

Wife gives husband ultimatum after flirty coworker’s late night call

Coworker’s phone number raises suspicion, NTA draws the line.

Suspicious behavior suggests affair with flirty coworker, NTA for wife.

Putting your spouse first is non-negotiable
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Supportive stranger shares personal experience and advice for OP.

Husband’s actions speak louder than his words ♂️

Setting boundaries with flirty coworker: NTA or red flag?

Commenter expresses frustration with husband’s flirty coworker, calls out her behavior. #NTA

Valid concerns, flirty coworker causing trouble. Hopefully a wakeup call.

Protecting your relationship boundaries is crucial.

Ex-husband cheated with flirty coworker, this hits close

Woman loves your husband. Ultimatum time. NTA

Cheating husband’s ‘work wife’ strikes again. NTA stands tall.

Flirty coworker causing trouble? NAH except Tabitha.
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When a late night call becomes more than just work

Set boundaries and take action if necessary

Sassy solution to flirty coworker problem. ♀️

Commenter and reply suggest infidelity may already be happening

Put your emotional well-being first, and consider therapy

Gaslighting alert! Time to lawyer up and move on.

Husband crosses the line with coworker, wife gives ultimatum. NTA.

Wife gives ultimatum, coworker needs a slap. NTA.

Insist on going with him! Not the a**hole
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Husband’s flirty coworker causing marital rift, NTA for setting boundaries.

Commenter advises to sit down and discuss the situation like adults. Replies defend OP’s emotional reaction.

Partner prioritizing flirty coworker over you? NTA, kick him curb ♀️
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DH already in affair, blowing off concerns. NTA

Respect is key in any relationship. Set boundaries and prioritize.

Suspicion arises as husband flirts with coworker. NTA.

HR warns: Coworker’s behavior could lead to problems, document everything

Husband’s flirty coworker causing marital rift. Wife gives ultimatum.

Wife confronts husband’s flirty coworker, internet supports her decision
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Husband shut down flirty coworker, but wife needs reassurance

Husband’s coworker causing marital strife. NTA stands firm.

Commenters agree: Flirty coworker is a problem, NTA wins.

Red flags everywhere: Possible emotional affair at work

A flirtatious coworker and a suspicious wife, who’s right?

Hire a PI and lawyer up ️♀️. Your husband lacks respect.

Husband prioritizes flirtatious coworker over wife. NTA for leaving.

Stand up for yourself! Your partner shouldn’t prioritize others ❤️

Husband’s coworker crosses the line, wife gives ultimatum – NTA
