The work-life balance is a constant struggle for many of us. Juggling the duties of being an employee and a spouse, or taking care of children, is incredibly demanding, so it’s only natural that we want our loved ones to be as understanding of our busy schedules as we try to be of theirs. Unfortunately, this man’s wife doesn’t seem to care much about the stresses that his job brings. She constantly barges into his workplace, berating him in front of his colleagues, humiliating him, and putting his career at risk. Eventually, the man snapped and shared this whole ordeal on the AITA subreddit , asking whether or not he was a jerk for not defending his wife after what she did put his job at risk. Scroll down to read the whole story and decide for yourself who was in the wrong here.
Security kicks out wife who berates husband at his workplace, but he should have defended her?

Wife’s public berating of husband leads to embarrassing security kick-out

Husband’s wife continues to berate him at work, leading to security escorting her out. He is left feeling embarrassed and humil-ate

Wife’s surprise outburst leads to embarrassing scene and painful consequences for husband

Security stepped in when Wife berated Husband at work. He was fearful of losing his job.

Husband gets scolded for not coming to wife’s defense after she gets kicked out of his workplace

Husband stands up for himself and limits wife’s inappropriate behavior at his workplace

When your wife crosses the line, should you defend her?
It’s difficult to find a balance between standing up for your spouse and avoiding public embarrassment. In this post, a husband and wife struggle to reach a compromise when his wife berates him at his workplace. The husband was faced with a difficult decision when his wife barged into a meeting and yelled at him in front of his superiors and potential clients. He watched security escort her out and was warned that it would be his last warning. The wife was left feeling humiliated and angry, believing her husband should have defended her. In the end, the husband was forced to take a stand and put his job first. As the post touches on a sensitive subject, let’s take a look at the reactions and comments of other readers in the next section.
A spouse’s abusive behavior

NTA — *a-hole behavior!

♂️ NTA: Husband needs to get away

NTA: Abused Husband

NTA! ♂️ Abusive relationship?

Marriage gone wrong: NTA

NTA: Get and make sure she stays at her mom’s

NTA: Get help and protect yourself

Friend encourages wake up call

NTA: 26yo wife berates husband at work, gets kicked out by security. ♂️

NTA: Time to the marriage?

It’s not just women NTA!

NTA: ♂️

NTA! Get out now ♂️

NTA – protect yourself!

NTA: Ditch the Woman

NTA: ♂️Love her, but you deserve better

NTA Emotional abuse isn’t love

NTA. You are in an abusive relationship.

NTA: ♂️ lawyer up!

Is it real?

Husband’s wife crosses boundaries , gets kicked out by security. NTA .

Victim of abuse deserves

NTA: ♀️ Get to a lawyer’s office

Should OP stay with his wife?

NTA: Abusive wife

NTA: Time to ♂️ away!

Time to get out

Wife berates husband at work ✋, gets kicked out

NTA – is there something wrong?

NTA: It’s not normal

The wife’s behaviour is ✋ NTA

Red flags all around

NTA. Stop the escalating behavior

NTA 100-%: Wife gets kicked out

Abusive behavior caught in the act!

Is this the start of

NTA: Setting boundaries

NTA: Bigger issues at play

NTA – OP is not the a-hole!

NTA and save yourself!
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NTA: It’s time for a change

NTA: Abusive behavior

NTA: Unhealthy relationship?

Husband is NTA but wife’s behavior is abusive

Time to take control

NTA: Wife’s Insanity ✋

Love isn’t always

NTA: Major red flags

NTA: Domestic violence

NTA: Seek advice!

Is a divorce lawyer the only option?

NTA: Make hard decisions⚖️

OP, you’re not to blame

NTA: Run away

♀️ Wife berated husband at work, gets kicked out!
