Picture this: your partner, a long-time vegetarian, comes home from a wild night out with friends, burger in hand. But not just any burger – a beef burger! You know they’d be devastated if they found out, so what do you do? Keep it a secret or come clean? This is the dilemma one person faced, and they’re asking for your help to decide if they did the right thing. So buckle up, because this story is full of drama, moral dilemmas, and some seriously tipsy vegetarians!
Vegetarian Partner’s Big Night Out

My Own Diet Choices

The Big Night Out and the Burger

Disposing the Evidence ️♀️

Not His Usual Behavior

Friends Confirm: It’s Beef!

Morning Update: The Truth Comes Out ️

Supportive Words and Reassurance

Morning After Effects

To Tell or Not to Tell: Vegetarian Partner’s Meaty Secret
Our storyteller’s partner, a dedicated vegetarian, comes home from a big night out with a half-eaten beef burger in hand. Realizing the potential stress this could cause, our conflicted friend disposes of the burger and debates whether or not to reveal the truth. Eventually, they decide to come clean the next morning, and the partner is understandably upset. After a heartfelt conversation, the partner feels a bit better, knowing that one slip-up doesn’t define their moral convictions. But the question remains: was it right to tell or should the secret have been kept? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this juicy situation…
A vegetarian ate a burger while drunk and needs to know – soft YTA ♂️

Don’t add insult to injury by telling him, YTA.

Be the bigger person – tell him yourself before his friends do

Tricking a vegetarian into eating meat: ok or not?

No big deal if he ate meat while drunk, NTA

NAH ate burger drunk , should they tell?

A strong condemnation of a controversial action.

Tricking a friend with food allergy – difficult conversation ahead

Be honest and tell him now. Don’t let him be humiliated

Friend’s behavior was disgusting and potentially harmful. Tell your partner.

Tell your partner about friends tricking vegetarian into eating meat

Don’t be an a**hole, keep your friend’s burger secret

Don’t tell him, it won’t change anything. NTA.
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To tell or not to tell? Friend advises discretion

Don’t throw it at him in the future. NTA

NTA for not telling partner but consider his friends’ reaction

Vegetarian betrayed by friends, YTA for not telling him?

NAH, tell him gently and let him make his choice

Advice to spill the beans before someone else does

Don’t hide it, tell him. He deserves to know

Friend should know the trouble he gets into when drunk

Drink responsibly or face the consequences. NTA.

NTA caught partner eating meat, commenters advise not to tell.

Don’t tell, not worth hurting partner. ‘Friends’ might spill anyway.
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Speak up and tell him! His friends are crossing boundaries

Protective commenter defends vegetarian’s drunken burger eating, condemns friends

Friends let drunk friend eat meat, commenter calls YTA.
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Friends give drunk vegetarian burger, YWNBTA for telling partner

Vegetarian customer finds bacon on burger, wants to know ingredients ♂️

Former vegetarian warns of consequences, advises caution. Slight YTA.

Keep quiet, NTA suggests discretion and warns against possible consequences.

User expresses concern over partner’s drinking and advises honesty.

Tell your friend about the meat, save them agony

Protecting your partner’s feelings is important

Vegetarian eats burger while drunk, NTA for not telling.

To tell or not to tell? NTA, but friends will!

Being vegetarian or not is not the point here . Sparing feelings matters.
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Protect your friend from being shamed, YWNBTA if you tell

Friends should have looked out for him, NTA for telling

Vegetarian eats burger while drunk, friend should have informed him. YTA

Vegetarian tricked into eating meat by friends, deserves to know

Vegetarian’s drunken mistake sparks debate on honesty and respect

Drink responsibly or face your moral consequences. YTA.

Knowing vs not knowing doesn’t change reality. NTA.

Vegetarian partner accidentally ate meat, YTA if you don’t confess

Clarification on drunken burger choice, no coercion involved ♂️

Friend deserves to know, but you’re a good protector

Don’t ruin his enjoyment, but be wary of his friends

Navigating cultural differences while being vegetarian

Friends take advantage, YTA doesn’t confess. Should he?
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Telling a friend he ate meat: soft YTA, but health concerns.

Vegan commenter values honesty over feelings in food slip-up

Navigating delicate beliefs among friends

Being drunk doesn’t make you an a**hole, but tell him ASAP

Keeping secrets or honesty? Friends’ actions are messed up ♂️

Remind your friend about his vegetarian principles

Honesty is the best policy for drunk burger mishap

Friend’s drunken mistake: NTA, stay out of it

You can’t hide the truth, YTA. Full disclosure is key.
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Does it matter if a vegetarian eats a beef burger?

Keeping a burger secret from a vegetarian friend? Here’s why.

Addressing drunk behavior is important, don’t cover it up

Burger not the issue, but his drinking problem is

Don’t let your partner suffer, tell him the truth!

Vegetarian’s concern about partner eating half a burger. Soft YTA.

Meat-eating sabotage? Tell the truth or spare feelings? WBTA?

Friend needs better friends, YWBTA if you don’t tell

Let him enjoy his drunken burger in peace
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Addressing alcoholism concerns in partner’s drunken state confession

Warn friend before drunken burger incident becomes hazing fodder
