Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of a sperm donor dad caught in a college tuition tug-of-war. Our protagonist, a 40-year-old family man, once did a solid for some friends by donating his swimmers. ♂️ Fast forward 18 years, and surprise! The bill for his biological son’s education lands in his lap. Is he the a-hole for refusing to pay up? Let’s dive in and find out! ️♀️
A Unique Favor for Friends

♂️ No Desire for Daddy Duties

Sayonara, Baby Mama Drama

Pics or It Didn’t Happen

Meeting the Mini-Me

Cool Kid, No Connection

Surprise! Pay Up, Papa

Furious Family Feud

Persistent Pestering

Feeling Guilty, But Firm

Sperm Donor Dad vs. College Costs: Who Pays?
Well, well, well… looks like our sperm donor dad is in quite the pickle! After signing away his parental rights years ago, he’s now facing a hefty college tuition bill for his biological son. Talk about a blast from the past! While he feels for the kid, he’s standing his ground and refusing to pay. ♂️ After all, he’s got his own family to support. But the baby mama drama just won’t quit, with persistent calls and texts trying to guilt-trip him into coughing up the cash. So, what does the internet have to say about this sticky situation? Let’s check out some of the top reactions and see where the chips fall!
NTA, but poor kid was guilt-tripped by his parents

No obligation to pay for surrogated son’s college tuition

Sperm donor not liable for child’s tuition. NTA.

NTA. Signed away rights, not obligated to pay for schooling

Legal paper says no rights, no responsibility. Mom has double responsibility. NTA

Sperm donor not the a**hole for refusing tuition payment

NTA. You’re just a sperm donor, not a bank ♂️

No parental rights, no responsibility. NTA for refusing payment

Don’t let guilt trip you into paying for their choices

NTA. Not responsible for $50k tuition for a stranger’s ‘son’

Legal document makes kid someone else’s responsibility. NTA.

Donor not obligated to pay child’s $50K tuition.

Not the a**hole for refusing to pay for non-biological son’s tuition

Donor not responsible for child’s tuition, poor planning on parents.

Donor not responsible for $50k tuition. NTA.

Sperm donor asked to pay $50k tuition after signing away rights

Signed away parental rights, no relationship or obligation here. #NTA

NTA. Sperm donor’s responsibility ends with donation.
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NTA and doubtful about the turkey baster story

Signed away rights, not legally child, not obligated to pay

NTA sperm donor asked to pay $50K tuition, outrages readers.

Cut ties. They can pay for college. Get a lawyer.

Agreement broken: Sperm donor asked to pay son’s tuition

Bio father not responsible for financial support after 18 years

Sperm donor not responsible for ‘son’s’ tuition. Family manipulative

Déjà vu? Redditors recall a similar story of sperm donor woes.

Donor-conceived child thanks sperm donor for meeting him ❤️

Lesbian mother calls out the weirdness of asking a sperm donor for money
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Donor’s generosity taken for granted. NTA for refusing payment.

Clear contract, clear NTA. Donating sperm is risky business

Adopted parent asking for kid’s money? NTA wins!

NTA calls out awkward cautionary tale for sperm donor.

Not his kid, not his responsibility. Money issue predicted

NTA stands their ground against manipulative ‘son’ and family

Sperm donor not obligated to pay for ‘son’s’ tuition

NTA stands up to entitled parents demanding tuition payment.

Donor signed rights away, shouldn’t pay $50K tuition. NTA!

Sperm donor shuts down entitled family’s request for tuition payment

Signed rights away, not responsible for college tuition.

Lesson learned: Don’t trust words, get it in writing

NTA donor wants no contact after 18 years

Signed away rights, now expected to pay $50k? NTA

18 years too late to ask for $50K tuition, NTA

Don’t owe child’s tuition, not the a-hole. Let parents decide

Sperm donor not responsible for ‘son’s’ tuition fees

Not his kid, not his problem. NTA stands firm.

Don’t let guilt trip you. NTA for denying ‘son’s’ tuition.
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Sperm donor might not be legally responsible for child support

Signing away parental rights means not financially responsible. NTA

Sperm donor refuses to pay $50K tuition for ‘son’

Setting boundaries and seeking legal advice is a wise move.

Don’t fall for a guilt trip. You signed away rights. #NTA

Cut contact, NTA. They failed to secure money for education.

Choosing a sperm bank over friends can save you thousands

NTA defends against entitled parents seeking donor’s money.

Clear paperwork, not your son, NTA

Helpful advice on financial aid and tuition payment.

NTA. A-holes asking for money 18 years later? GTFOH!

Two parents, two responsibilities. Entitled demand for college funds. #NTA

NTA but lucked out with legal father loophole

Protect yourself legally and avoid contact with the other party.

Sperm donor not responsible for ‘son’s’ tuition. Consult lawyer, avoid favors.

Debating paternal responsibility and the definition of ‘son’

Donating sperm doesn’t make you financially responsible

Parental rights were relinquished, NTA. They can’t have it both ways.
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Sperm donor shuts down entitled ex’s demand for tuition money
