Hey there, Facebook fam! Have you ever had to deal with a frustrating situation at your child’s school? Well, buckle up, because this single dad’s story is one for the books! His daughter Sarah, who has autism, recently started her sophomore year of high school. She’s got a special penguin plush named Percy that helps her stay calm and focused. But when a school aide, Mr. A, tries to take Percy away from her, things escalate quickly! Was this dad’s reaction to the situation too extreme, or was he just standing up for his daughter?
Single Dad & His Daughter

Sarah’s Special Penguin

Meet Percy the Penguin

Milo, Mr. A, and Ms. T

Mr. A’s Request ️

Condescending Mr. A

Security to the Rescue

The Big Meeting

A Misunderstanding?

Mr. A’s Procedure

No Consequences for Mr. A?

A Lenient Suspension?

Not Up for Negotiation ♂️

A Threat to Sue? ⚖️

Was It Too Extreme? ♂️

Penguin Plush Pandemonium!
So, here’s the scoop: Sarah, a high school sophomore with autism, has a special penguin plush named Percy that she uses as a sensory toy. One day, a school aide named Mr. A tries to take Percy away from her, thinking it’s a school-owned toy meant for another special needs student. Sarah slaps Mr. A’s hand and yells at him, causing a whole lot of drama! The school holds a meeting and decides to suspend Sarah for a week, but her dad thinks Mr. A should be the one facing consequences! He even threatens to sue the school if they don’t fire Mr. A! Was this dad’s reaction too extreme, or was he just standing up for his daughter? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA, a heartwarming suggestion to help daughter keep Percy safe

Father defends daughter’s actions against school’s punishment.

Fight for justice, but beware the deep pockets of schools

Supportive advice to fight school’s unjust suspension

Supportive comment calls out school for mishandling situation. NTA

Debate over toy ownership sparks conflict at school

Respect people with special needs and their belongings.

Teacher and parent with autistic child supports dad’s fight

Supportive comment advocating for daughter’s self-defense and therapy.

Sensory toy taken away from daughter with ‘violent outburst’. NTA stands up for her rights and sues school.

Parent defends daughter wrongly singled out due to disruptive aide

Support for girl and advice to escalate if school won’t help

Single dad seeks educational attorney after daughter’s suspension. NTA.

Single dad fights back against unfair school punishment

Supportive comment suggests a reasonable solution to school conflict

Fidget spinners and other stimming items are vital tools for many autistic individuals to regulate emotional and sensory overload. Lack of information sharing and failure to deescalate led to this unnecessary conflict. NTA.

Former special ed teacher offers advice on school’s mishandling of student’s behavior

Single dad fights school after daughter’s outburst. NTA gets legal.

Respect personal property; fight for daughter’s justice

NTA. Mr. A is TA for taking her toy. Suspension is out of line.

Fight for your daughter! NTA. Find an advocate

Single dad faces school theft and assault, seeks legal counsel

Father defends daughter against teacher attack and school suspension

Parental responsibility to protect ND kids from maltreatment & abuse

Former disciplinary dean advises on appealing IEP suspension.

Teacher suggests aide issue apology, questions school’s procedures.

Fight for your daughter’s rights, don’t back down

Parent defends daughter’s suspension, cites diagnosis and school’s awareness

Expert advice on advocating for child’s emotional support in school

NTA commenter critiques school’s procedure, suggests retraining for staff

Sexism in school discipline? This commenter thinks so

Teacher confiscates personal toy from student with IEP. NTA.

Empathetic teacher supports dad’s fight for daughter’s sensory toy

Advocating for disabled students’ rights

Encouraging comment from individual with personal experience and advice.

Single dad defends daughter’s reaction to school incident. NTA

Outraged commenter suggests suing after reading about assault incident

Balancing empathy and accountability in dealing with school incidents

Single dad fights school over daughter’s suspension. NTA stands up.

Attorney commenter suggests legal action against school for daughter’s mistreatment.

Single dad stands up for daughter’s safety at school

Parent defends daughter’s ‘violent outburst’ against school policy. NTA

School needs to take responsibility for not monitoring special needs child

School triggers meltdown, labels daughter as problem. NTA fights back

Frustration with school policies and procedures for student punishment.

NTA mom advises single dad to follow up and consult lawyer

Supportive comment in defense of single dad’s actions.

Fighting back against injustice with a vengeance!

Father accused of taking toy from child, completely in the wrong

Fight for your child’s needs with legal help

Single dad fights school after daughter’s suspension. NTA wins.

Defending personal space and property is justified.

Single dad stands up for daughter’s rights against school theft

Single dad defends daughter’s suspension in school altercation

Parent defends daughter’s response to teacher and suggests lawsuit

Defending the dad’s position against unfair school policies

Supportive comment advocating legal action with a touch of empathy

School needs to evaluate policies and aid needs more training. NTA

Teacher and parent with autistic child explains procedure for removing items.

IEP may protect student from suspension. School should follow protocol.

Heartwarming support for single dad’s parenting decisions ❤

Media sensationalizes while schools try to keep things private

Empowering girls to protect themselves is crucial

Defending daughter’s right to possession leads to school dispute.

NTA commenter suggests solutions for school’s mishandling of special needs student’s ‘violent outburst’

NTA commenter calls out school staff for mishandling situation

Single dad defends daughter’s ‘violent outburst’ at school, NTA.

Supportive comment defends dad’s lawsuit against school’s punishment.

Father defends daughter’s innocence after assault accusation.

NTA. School’s behavior is inappropriate. Security called for toy dispute?

Doctoral student in Special Education advises NTA dad on legal action

Lawyer up! NTA fights back against school’s unfair accusation

Legal aid can help draft a letter to avoid retaliation. NTA

Legal advice for dad fighting school’s unfair treatment

NTA. School staff should not touch students without consent

Single dad fights back against school and toxic friends

Single dad fiercely defends daughter against school’s accusations

Defending personal property: NTA stands up to teacher’s overreach.

Get Percy’s IEP accommodations and a new friend, NTA

Advocate for your child’s needs with their individualized education plan ✍

Fight for accessibility: Sue and demand serious training

Experienced special ed worker criticizes school’s handling of situation

A mother’s advice on fighting schools for special ed students
