♀️ Hey there, buckle up because I’ve got quite the story to share with you today! Imagine growing up with parents who had you at just 15 years old… talk about a rocky start, right? Well, that’s exactly what happened to me, and let me tell you, it was one wild ride. From neglect to blackmail, I’ve seen it all. But now, years later, I’m faced with a tough decision… should I help my homeless parents or focus on the siblings I’ve taken under my wing? Let’s dive in and see how this emotional rollercoaster unfolds!
A Childhood of Neglect and Struggle

CPS Triggers and Parental Deception

Growing Up Too Fast

A New Batch of Siblings

Leaving Behind the Little Ones

Scraping By to Success

A Call from CPS

Making Room for Family

Thriving Siblings and a Supportive Spouse

⚖️ Permanent Custody Granted

No Contact for 2 Years

A Shocking Discovery

Family Pleads for Help

♀️ A Firm Refusal

Bombarded with Guilt-Tripping Messages

Family Drama Alert: To Help or Not to Help? ♀️
Well, well, well… what a tangled web we weave! ️ After years of neglect and struggle, our protagonist has built a life for herself and taken in her younger siblings , giving them the love and stability they never had. But now, a shocking discovery – her parents are homeless and the family is pleading for help! Will she turn her back on the very people who turned their backs on her? ♀️ Or will she find it in her heart to lend a helping hand? ❤️ The internet is buzzing with opinions, so let’s see what they have to say about this heart-wrenching dilemma! ️
Don’t feel guilty for refusing to help toxic family members. ♀️

Refusing homeless parents, raising siblings, and clapping back

NTA and family should take in homeless parents instead

Symbolic amount for homeless parents may lead to more expectations.
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Having five children to take care of is already a full plate

NTA, they owe you child support and would owe you more if you gave them money

Aunt’s self-righteousness exposed. NTA for not helping homeless parents.

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NTA stands her ground against homeless parents criticism.

NTA, You’re doing amazing but it’s cheeky of your parents to ask.

No obligation to help homeless parents. Relatives can take them in.

Family shouldn’t manipulate you into taking in homeless parents. NTA

Standing up for family, not responsible for strangers
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NTA. Taking care of your siblings is already incredible. You don’t owe your homeless parents anything. ♀️
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Volunteering others to help is wrong. NTA for taking siblings.

Taking care of 5 siblings already, NTA for refusing homeless parents.

Putting the kids first, NTA chooses not to enable homelessness

You’re an angel for taking in your siblings. NTA!

Helping her siblings is enough. Send social service brochures.
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Raising siblings at 30, incredible! Supportive comment

Respectful NTA comment on not helping homeless parents.
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Not obligated to help homeless parents, prioritize own family first.

Taking in siblings, but not obligated to help homeless parents

NTA takes a stand against abusive parents and guilt-tripping relatives.

Raising five siblings at 30, NTA, you’re amazing!

Standing up to abusive parents, NTA for refusing help

NTA. Providing for siblings is enough. No obligation to help parents.

Taking in siblings doesn’t mean she owes her homeless parents.

Raising their kids, child support, and guilt-tripping – sound familiar?

Taking care of their kids is incredible! Don’t feel bad
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Curious about the siblings’ ages and legal status with CPS.
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Refusing to take in homeless parents, NTA explains having no space.

Taking care of siblings is enough. Shame on shamming family.

Raising 5 siblings at 30 and still amazing!

NTA. Well said! It’s not your responsibility to help them.

You’re NTA for refusing to help your homeless parents

Putting family first. NTA for not helping homeless parents

Don’t let them manipulate you. NTA

NTA. Holding parents accountable for their choices.

Raising their children is enough. NTA, you’re a saint!

OP is NTA for taking in her 5 siblings.

NTA big sister refuses to give in to homeless parents

Stepping up to parent 5 siblings is already a lot . Don’t let anyone guilt you.

People quick to judge, but won’t take in homeless themselves

NTA – Taking care of four of their children is a huge financial burden.

Selfless sibling takes care of siblings, not obligated to help parents

Taking in homeless parents’ kids = endangering children. NTA.
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NTA, commenter suggests protecting custody of siblings from homeless parents.

Cutting off toxic parents for the sake of siblings.

No obligation to help parents who didn’t take care of siblings

Don’t give in to relatives’ pressure. They haven’t lived it.

Commendable act of taking in siblings, NTA for not helping parents

Taking care of your siblings doesn’t mean you owe abusers. NTA

Proud of OP for raising siblings and standing their ground
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Family expects too much – OP did enough. NTA

Setting boundaries is not selfish, it’s self-care.

Taking in siblings doesn’t mean taking in everyone. NTA

NTA. You’re already doing your share. Don’t enable them

Supporting siblings, not parents. NTA for saying no.

Raising 5 siblings is tough enough . Other relatives can help.

Complimentary caption for a NTA comment.

Internet grandma sends hugs, supports OP for not taking in parents

NTA! Heartwarming that you’re prioritizing your siblings’ wellbeing ❤️

Being responsible for someone else’s choices is not fair. NTA

NTA- Raising siblings is enough. They should be grateful.

Supportive comment encourages OP to prioritize siblings over homeless parents

You have every right to make your own decisions

Taking care of siblings is enough, NTA

Taking in siblings is enough, NTA for not helping homeless.

NTA. Raising siblings is a big favor. Parents should work.

Taking care of five siblings is enough, NTA

Taking care of siblings doesn’t mean helping abusive parents.

Standing up for herself and her siblings – NTA
