Is it selfish to refuse to pay for someone’s meal just because they had cancer? That’s what one woman is being accused of after she refused to pay for her fiance’s friend’s meal at a restaurant. Her fiance argued that the friend had gone through a tough time with his illness and was struggling financially, so they should help him out by paying for his meals and purchases. But the woman refused to be taken advantage of, and drew the line at paying for everything just because of a past illness. The situation escalated quickly, with the woman leaving the restaurant and her fiance leaving angry texts. Who’s in the right here? Read on to find out.
Woman refuses to pay for friend’s meal due to cancer history
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Refusal to pay for a cancer patient’s meal sparks heated argument.
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Fiance demands she pay for friend’s meals because he had cancer
In a bizarre scenario, a woman has shared how her fiance has been pressuring her into paying for his friend’s meals and drinks under the excuse that he had cancer. The woman has had enough of this and refuses to pay for his meals anymore. The situation came to a head when the friend joined the couple at a restaurant and the fiance expected her to pay for his meal as well. The woman refused, causing a major argument with her fiance. Is she in the wrong for not paying for her fiance’s friend’s meals? Join the conversation below and share your thoughts on whether she should have paid or not.
Dump the fiance and let him date Steve
Is the fiance really inviting his friend on OP’s dime?
The comment section is discussing a joke about house projects.
Stand up for yourself! NTA and you deserve better.
Is she being taken for a ride in this twisted relationship?
Commenters debate whether OP’s boyfriend is a leech.
Don’t be a doormat. Your fiancé should support his friend.
Commenter defends OP’s decision not to pay for friend’s meal.
Stand up to Jack’s lack of empathy. NTA, ditch the loser.
Setting boundaries: NTA for refusing to pay for friend’s meal.
NTA – Rethink your relationship with your entitled fiance
BF wants to look generous while taking advantage of fiancée.
Surviving cancer doesn’t entitle you to free meals
Commenter calls out OP for being petty and unkind
Empowering message to women on self-worth and ditching toxic partners.
Dump him! NTA. Red flags everywhere.
Support for not funding friend’s cancer meal and more.
Think twice about that fiance status, he feels entitled
Is she being used as a meal ticket?
Don’t let your fiance take advantage of your money!
Stay single, not the a**hole.
NTA. Jack should pay for his friend, not his fiancee.
Stand your ground and don’t pay for your boyfriend’s friend
Don’t let your fiancé guilt trip you into being an ATM
Red flag alert! Financial abuse in early stages. NTA though.
Commenter with cancer supports OP’s decision, calls out guilt-tripping friend
Don’t marry someone who refuses to pay for a friend’s meal. #NTA
BF’s friend with cancer? No excuse for free meal. NTA!
Standing up for yourself is not being an a**hole
Fiance’s friend with cancer: a red flag for mooching?
Paying for someone else’s meal due to their illness: Who’s responsible? NTA.
Savage response to entitled behavior. NTA wins!
Stick to your boundaries! Don’t pay for anyone else.
Stand up for yourself . Don’t marry a shitty fiancé. NTA
Fiance is a leech. You’re NTA.
Stand your ground! Your money, your choice. NTA
Beware of manipulative partners. NTA, he’s not marriage material
NTA commenter questions financial responsibility and supports refusing payment.
Fiance’s friend’s generosity shouldn’t come at your expense.
Fiancé’s friend with cancer shouldn’t be your financial responsibility
Is her fiance taking advantage of her kindness? ☕
Think twice before marrying someone who expects you to pay everything
Don’t let guilt cloud your judgement.
Fiance leeching off you? NTA for not paying for friend’s meal
Is there more to this friendship than meets the eye?
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Sarcastic reply to insensitive comment gets no response.
Commenter questions the authenticity of the story with skepticism
Be careful before combining finances with this man. NTA.
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NTA! One should never expect a free meal for having cancer
Fiancé’s financial entitlement questioned in NTA restaurant debacle.
When refusing to pay for a cancer patient’s meal becomes manipulation
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Don’t ignore the red flags. Think twice before tying knots!
Unemployed fiancé makes her pay for his friend’s meal. NTA.
Friend’s cancer treatment: Not your responsibility. NTA wins.
Stand up for yourself and your wallet!
Something seems fishy Is Jack pocketing the money?
NTA for not paying for friend’s meal, but boyfriend is controlling.
Financial boundaries and prenup considerations for engaged couple.
Fiancé’s friend has cancer but won’t get a job? NTA
You don’t owe him anything – NTA. Stand your ground. ♀️
Don’t let anyone guilt-trip you into paying for everything. NTA
Cut them off! Don’t let them use you. #NTA
Standing up for yourself and your finances. #NTA
Is the fiance using his friend’s illness as an excuse?
Break free! NTA, don’t marry an entitled partner.
Stand up for yourself and leave, NTA ♂️
Friend’s cancer not an excuse for free meal. NTA.
Dump him for your own good . Don’t let him use you.
Who should pay for a group meal at a restaurant?
Don’t let them take advantage of you! You’re NTA.
Reevaluate your relationship or you’ll be the a**hole to yourself
Beware of entitlement! NTA for setting boundaries.
Is Jack’s fiancee financially supporting him?
Steve’s obliviousness adds insult to injury
Discussing financial values before engagement is important, NTA.
Standing up to a cancer-mooch friend. Not the a-hole!
Friend’s illness is not an excuse for free ride. NTA
