She DUMPED Him After His VILE ‘Jokes’ About Her Disabled Sister Now She Vets EVERY Guy!

Get ready for a wild ride, folks! Meet our fierce protagonist, a 28-year-old big sis who’s got her hands full with her 19-year-old little sis, Noel. But here’s the twist: Noel’s got a genetic condition that makes her stand out from the crowd, and not always in a good way. Big Sis is determined to protect her lil sis at all costs, even if it means putting potential boyfriends through the wringer! ️‍♀️ But when one guy calls her out on her “interrogation tactics,” she’s left wondering: is she being an a-hole, or just a kick-a** sister? Buckle up, ’cause this story’s about to get bumpy!

Meet the Dynamic Duo: Big Sis & Lil Sis!

Noel’s Struggle: Sensitive About Her Condition

️ Cramped City Living: Making It Work Together!

️ Dinner Disaster: Meeting the Ex-BF Gone Wrong!

Ignoring the Pleas: Ex-BF Crosses the Line!

Instant Breakup: Sis Comes First!

Ex-BF’s Tantrum: Too Bad, So Sad! ‍♀️

Noel’s Gratitude: Appreciating Big Sis’s Support

❓ The Dating Quiz: Vetting Potential BFs ️‍♀️

The Questions: Are You Ready for This Duo?

No Luck: Guys Fail to Make the Cut

Valentine’s Day Drama: New BF Calls Me Out!

New BF’s Outburst: Am I an A-hole?

‍♀️ Brushing It Off: Another One Bites the Dust!

AITA? Protecting Lil Sis at All Costs! ️

Big Sis vs. Bad Boyfriends: The Ultimate Showdown!

Well, well, well… looks like our Big Sis is in quite the pickle! After a disastrous dinner with an ex-BF who couldn’t keep his mouth shut about Noel’s condition, she’s been putting potential suitors through a rigorous “sister test” before they even step foot in her apartment. But when her latest Valentine’s Day date calls her out on her “interrogation tactics,” she’s left wondering if she’s being an overprotective a-hole or just a fierce mama bear. The internet’s got some thoughts on this one, and they’re not holding back! ️ Let’s see what kind of spicy takes they’ve got in store for our conflicted protagonist. ️ Grab your popcorn, ’cause this comment section’s about to get wild!

Be careful not to come off as aggressive when vetting dates

Engaging in early conversations about package deals can be overbearing

Engaging with dates: Heads up vs. Quizzing

Be gentle and give a heads up about your disabled sister

YTA: Commenter criticizes OP’s approach in vetting guys for insensitivity.

Don’t lay it on too thick when vetting dates! YTA.

Balancing assertiveness while vetting partners for sister with disability.

Commenter questions OP’s approach to dating with sister’s disability.

Get a friend’s opinion before grilling potential partners

Suggests showing pics of sister to judge reaction, not ‘quizzing’.

Being a supportive sibling and asking important questions upfront

Navigating the dating game with a disabled sibling. ‍ Communication is key.

Asking for a transcript of the interview. Reasonable or aggressive?

User advises being cautious with vetting due to past experiences

Curious commenter asks about how she vets potential partners

Being responsible for disabled sibling, it’s fair to vet partners

Communication is key when vetting potential partners, not aggression.

Explaining rather than interrogating would be better. YTA.

Approach with caution but don’t grill them – good sibling move

Be protective of your sister but don’t scare away potential partners.

Don’t let one bad experience ruin your dating life

Protecting her sister comes first. NTA for vetting dates.

Wait until relationship established to mention disabled sister deal breaker

Caring for sister doesn’t make you miserable Give new guys a chance

User suggests OP might be too aggressive with vetting guys

Kindly approach the subject and avoid extreme vetting.

Setting boundaries without being too intense on dates. NAH.

User calls out OP for being too harsh on potential partners.

Vetting guys aggressively – a red flag or necessary precaution?

Questioning guys for cruelty to family shows poor taste

“Package deal” or deal breaker? YTA comment sparks debate.

Look for a kind and compassionate soul, not just red flags.

User calls out OP for aggressive behavior during dates

User accuses commenter of being the a-hole for prioritizing sister

Being protective of sister, but overly aggressive. YTA for that •

A commenter advises on dating dealbreakers and communication skills.

Sharing information about a disabled sister while getting to know someone.

Giving NTA but advising to reconsider the test and package deal.

User questions poster’s criteria for vetting guys and suggests not being too aggressive.

Balancing sister’s needs and dating prospects: how much is too much?

Asking the tough questions: How to vet potential partners

Dating should be casual, but awareness and mindfulness are important.

Curious commenter questions quiz and guy’s reaction to vetting process.

Protecting family always comes first

Mixed reactions on whether commenter is NTA or TA.

Balancing protecting sister with not scaring off potential partners

Engaging in grilling is not the best way to vet guys

Being cautious is important but don’t assume everyone’s an a**hole

Protective but aggressive sister receives feedback on vetting approach.

A guy asks for vetting questions to see compassion in partners

Discussing a ‘package deal’ too soon? NTA’s dilemma.

Dating someone with a disabled sibling can be tricky.

Being honest about protecting your sister can scare potential dates.

Casually introducing her sister as roommate with a heads up

Dodged a bullet or not? NTA gets a not-so-nice response

Prioritizing sister: YTA, but interrogating partners: NAH

Prepping a date for a special needs sibling #NTA

Balancing respect for family with not being too intense.

Asking about a partner’s disabled sibling: how to approach?

NTA for standing up for your sister but YTA for misleading dates. Be honest about her condition and past experiences

User calls out OP’s behavior and lack of self-awareness.

Communication is key in relationships, not tests

Casual dating ultimatums: YTA, but some guy will pass eventually.

Protecting family comes first

Honesty is the best policy in relationships ❤️

Accepting a partner’s conditions is key to a healthy relationship ❤️

Advice to be more tactful when vetting dates for disabled sister.

Defending her actions, commenter calls out ex-boyfriend’s emotional intelligence.

Looking out for sister is okay, but men may see red flags

Being upfront about vetting partners is a smart move

Maybe it’s time to look at the guys who didn’t make it

Being upfront about family issues while dating is important.

Vetting guys is important but don’t scare off good ones

Protecting her disabled sister and setting boundaries.

A thoughtful response on how to handle introducing a disabled sibling

Setting boundaries versus quizzing guys: the debate continues.

Exploring possible communication issues with dating and sister’s disability.

Don’t let one bad apple spoil the bunch ‍♂️