When a teenager’s ex-boyfriend needed a place to live, her parents took him in. Now that the two have broken up, the daughter wants him gone. However, the parents are hesitant to throw him out on the street. The situation becomes even more complicated when the daughter’s new boyfriend voices his discomfort with the ex’s presence.
The parents try to compromise, but the daughter is still unhappy. Will they be able to find a solution that makes everyone happy, or will this family dynamic become even more strained?
Read on to find out.
Redditor surprised by amount of feedback on personal dilemma.

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Rob’s ex’s parents take him in, he finds family again ❤️

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A tumultuous family life for daughter’s ex-boyfriend Rob.

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Parents hesitant to take in daughter’s ex-boyfriend, now responsible for him.

Parents take in daughter’s ex-boyfriend against better judgment.

Daughter’s ex-boyfriend lives rent-free with rules. Drama ensues.

Rob becomes part of the family despite initial restrictions ❤️

Ex-boyfriend still hangs around the house, daughter’s unhappy

Parents refuse to kick out daughter’s ex, set new rules

Living with ex’s parents causing tension, daughter caught in the middle

Navigating complex family dynamics and teenage relationships

Daughter’s ex-boyfriend moves in, and now she wants him out
When a teenager’s boyfriend becomes homeless, her parents take him in. Three years later, the couple breaks up and the daughter’s new boyfriend wants him out. But the parents refuse to kick him out and instead set new rules to make everyone more comfortable. However, the daughter is upset and fears she might end up dateless for prom if her current boyfriend breaks up with her.
Is it fair for the daughter’s ex-boyfriend to still live with the family? Or should he find a new place to stay? The situation raises questions about loyalty, responsibility, and boundaries. Many Redditors have weighed in with their opinions, offering advice and sharing their own experiences.
Let’s take a look at some of the top comments and reactions from Reddit .
Daughter’s new boyfriend Joe seems controlling, and the situation is complicated.

OP’s clear stance on taking responsibility for daughter’s ex-boyfriend.

Rob’s a tenant, not a bad guy

Can’t kick ex out, he’s tenant now. Maybe he’ll leave willingly

Supporting daughter’s ex-boyfriend’s transition plan, NTA.

NTA comment highlights Taylor’s entitlement and lack of empathy

Lesson learned: Good deeds don’t always have a happy ending

A mother offers a sensible compromise, but her daughter’s new boyfriend dislikes it

NTA for letting Rob stay, but daughter and her boyfriend are AHs

Dealing with breakups is tough, especially for young teens

NAH – A nuanced perspective on the situation with empathetic insights

Is Taylor making a mistake taking back her potentially toxic ex?

Offering reassurance and discussing future plans with daughter’s ex-boyfriend ️

Keeping a close eye on daughter’s ex.

Supportive parent checks in on daughter’s ex-boyfriend living arrangements

Compliments to the parents for taking in ex-boyfriend

NTA for taking in daughter’s ex-boyfriend, but time to help him find a job.

Daughter’s ex-boyfriend moves in with parents causing trouble. NTA.

Parent stands by promise to daughter’s ex-boyfriend, wins respect

Teaching possessiveness and jealousy is a bad look

Commenter suspects plot from sitcom and calls out BS.
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Generous parents caught up in daughter’s drama over prom date

NTA commenter hopes for daughter’s breakup with toxic boyfriend.

Concerned commenter suggests alternative options for daughter’s ex-boyfriend’s living situation.

Supportive comment defends parents accommodating daughter’s ex-boyfriend

Helping a troubled young man creates awkward situation for family. NAH.

Parents take in daughter’s ex-boyfriend, causing discomfort for daughter.

Parents take in daughter’s ex-boyfriend, but now it’s time for him to move on

Ex-boyfriend living with ex’s parents causes family tension ⚡

Navigating awkward family dynamics with ex-boyfriend living at home. NAH
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Don’t let a new relationship dictate the wellbeing of a young man you committed to

Understanding the daughter’s perspective
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Lessons in compassion and supporting someone despite sacrifices.

Parenting gone wrong. Living with ex? Not a great idea

Parents take in daughter’s ex-boyfriend, but should let him go

Parent’s disapproval of daughter’s ex-boyfriend could harm their relationship.

Commenter advises parents to have a talk with daughter about ex-boyfriend

Family takes in daughter’s ex, but now it’s causing discomfort

Daughter’s entitled ex-boyfriend tries to control her parents’ home

Commenter thinks OP is TA for taking in daughter’s ex.

Parents took in daughter’s ex, now daughter wants him out

Don’t let anyone manipulate you, stand your ground! #NTA

Legal or not, kicking out the ex is not cool

Daughter’s ex-boyfriend is a keeper, says family

Parents take in daughter’s ex-boyfriend causing tension in the household

Parents took in daughter’s ex, now everyone’s uncomfortable. NAH.
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Be cautious and prioritize daughter’s safety and well-being.

Daughter playing house with ex, parents enable – ESH ♀️

Curious about the breakup? This commenter is too

Daughter’s ex-boyfriend won’t leave, parent’s caught in the middle. NTA.

A teenager’s love or a parent’s concern – who wins?

Parents caught in the middle of daughter’s breakup with ex-boyfriend.

When reality imitates sitcoms

Commenter calls out daughter’s behavior, supports ex-boyfriend.
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